is he Cheating?

Question

my husband was with me when i came to the supermarket & when he came in he was talking about how he met this girl outside and how they were talking about his car becuase she wanted to buy that car....he didnt shut up about the conversation & and am so suspicous now. what would you take this as, do you think he liked her? Is he going to cheat with her? How would you take this?

Answer 1

Magic 8 ball says........"signs point to yes"
How the Hell would we know??

Answer 2

Although it's possible he may have found her attractive, I highly doubt it. And the very fact that he told you all about his encounter in detail also leans towards the fact that he has no intentions of cheating with her. Some guys are just funny about their cars and when someone acknowledges them, they turn into little kids acting as though it's some sort of prize toy. Truth be told, he probably didn't even remember what she looked like. But he'd remember every question she asked about his car. So relax, take a deep breath...I really don't think you have anything to worry about.

Answer 3

I see this as he was simply having a conversation about a car, whats the big deal i really think you should get a grip and learn to trust your husband , well at least till you find out hes untrustworthy

Answer 4

Well let's put it this way. If he was going to or planning on cheating with her, don't you think he would keep it a secret and keep his mouth shut instead of blabbing like a fool about it? You need to take a big dose of reality and chill out. It's pretty benign, if you ask me. Not worth getting worked up over.

Answer 5

Paranoid/insecure much?
Talking about a car, I talk to people all the time in parking lots if I like their cars men and women mostly women doesn't mean I'm gonna turn into some lesbo and suddenly want women. He may want to sleep with her, but what is so special about him that she would want to sleep with him

Answer 6

First of all if he was going to cheat with her then he would not have mentioned it to you! Chill out a little I had the same peoblem being to paranoid can drive them to cheating. Trust him guys just love talking about cars!

Answer 7

if he just met her outside the supermarket and talked with her about his car hmm is he going to cheat? He should if he has such a narrow minded wife.

Answer 8

Happens all the time with couples. Really. My fiancee is a talker. He will stop and talk to people he knows as well as ones he doesn't, male or female. If he saw a child he has to stop and talk to them, too. He is a people person. It means nothing intimate. When he stops and talks to someone and I go ahead and do what I set out to do and he eventually catches up with me he, too, goes into detail, just a habit of his really. Sometimes I respond with she questions other times I just let him talk. If he failed to talk to me I would wonder then. I wouldn't worry if I were you.

Answer 9

she obviously caught his attention, not saying he would cheat on you or anything. but i would just say thats nice dear but we are not selling the car, or at least not to her, and leave it at that. if he says why. then tell him, cause you are sounding way to interested in her you being a married man and all to me you should not care bout her so much and so we can sell the car to someone else. good luck

Answer 10

i think your worries are beyond than only 1 event. i am sure you suspected some other things before, and this one made you crazy completely.
if he is cheating on you, you will understand it sooner or later. try to make you feel ready to learn anything. i hope you are wrong about his cheating.

Answer 11

Do you have other reasons to think he might cheat? You jumped to a distant conclusion pretty quick. Are you cheating on him or considering it?