Marriage & Divorce - 14 August 2006

What would you do if your husband who was suppose to be at a friends house but is at a club doesn't come straight home after you catch him?

2006-08-14 17:08:55 · 24 answers · asked by c1downmama 2

I'd never cheat or divorce my hubby but I've been thinking of my ex and for some reason i feel bad about it eventhough i've done nothing wrong. why do i feel bad? i love my hubby

2006-08-14 17:07:48 · 20 answers · asked by jojo 2

Does there need to be grounds for annulment?

2006-08-14 17:05:17 · 2 answers · asked by justafreind 1

All the "other women" I've known seem to romaniticize and idealize the life that the wife and husband lead. They dont realize what living with someone you dont trust, respect or even love is like. just living together because of the kids.

Any perspectives on why they do this? From people who've experienced this only please

2006-08-14 16:53:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

he expects sex when and how he wants it ,so why shouldnt a woman. in a marriage it is supposed to be equal, not only satisfy him and you get left out in the cold. frustrated and alone. why are men so selfish?

2006-08-14 16:52:34 · 20 answers · asked by cmac 3

i know of few men that beleive sex toys are not supposed to be used in a married household. but what could make them believe that it takes away from them? if the woman in the relationship wants them and the man doesnt, how do they compromise?

2006-08-14 16:49:28 · 10 answers · asked by cmac 3

I have been getting alot of pressure from my husband to have anal sex .We tried it last yr and it hurt and bled.And he didnt even get his penis in .He bought some asperin drops to try again.But I havent tried it again .Kind a turned off to it after that happened but would still like to .Any advice?yes we used lube lots!

2006-08-14 16:48:09 · 13 answers · asked by jessy 3

2006-08-14 16:38:17 · 20 answers · asked by mr_gynx 1

2006-08-14 16:36:37 · 23 answers · asked by KANDI_KRAVE 1

I am a single mom now and I feel used and don't see how I will seem attractive to men when I am ready to date again. Anyone been there done this?

2006-08-14 16:34:55 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

a man tells his wife he's leaving every time he gets really mad, but never does. she continues to do house duties, care for him and gives him his space without affecting what she wants to do. later he tries talking to her, nicely but can't admit he's wrong. she sort of feels sorry for him knowing he grew up without a man in the home and has had many failed relationships in the past. does it sound like he's staying out of obligation or because he is now learning how compassionate his wife is (that she can care for him in the good and bad times)?

2006-08-14 16:30:01 · 7 answers · asked by Skypride 2

2006-08-14 16:21:11 · 22 answers · asked by Lori T 2

They are not living together for the past 15 years and they both agree to get divorce but they don't know how to finalize it.

2006-08-14 16:17:31 · 6 answers · asked by LaChica P 1

I am going to be 17 in three weeks. and my wife will be 18 in two months. We live in Califrnia with her parents. We are expecting a child in three weeks. We went to vegas and our parents signed us over to be married. We have been told so many things. but we are still confused as to what our rights really are.

2006-08-14 16:13:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am considering marrying the man I love. But what is holding me back is the fear of divorce. Half the population is divorced, and marriages constantly fail after one, five, or even twenty years. What causes so many marriages to fail after so many years? What can I do to avoid it? I want to do this right... I may be young (23), but I do not want to be foolish.

2006-08-14 16:12:55 · 17 answers · asked by ubby05 2

Honestly for me i first had sex when i was 17 and now i'm 25, i have been with about 40.

2006-08-14 16:12:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 54 and my wife is 49. She seems to have absolutely no interest in sex. She is a night owl, and I'm an early bird, so we only spend one or two hours in bed together anyway. I've tried to explain my needs to her, but she's not hearing it. She doesn't understand why everybody is not like her.

2006-08-14 16:08:42 · 9 answers · asked by David S 5

you have an adorable and smart daughter who adores both of you so much. she loves this family.
you have a wonderful family and friends who think you've found the right man and live happily. however, the marriage is not what it seems to be. you settled with your husband but you think you no longer love him cos you both incompatible and argue a lot. nothing helps! you just stay and hold on as long as you possibly can cos you can't make decision right now. you're so confused. perhaps you both could be better as time moves on or maybe will get divorce one day. you completely have no idea!

Your husband is a family man who is responsible and cares about his family. you too! but you both have nothing in common, both temperamental, argue.. argue and only argue.
we try everything to work out this realtionship but things never get any better.

2006-08-14 16:07:55 · 28 answers · asked by #1 Girl -She's Bittersweet- 6

My soon to be sister in law is 13 years old. And I would like her to witness my marriage.

2006-08-14 16:05:08 · 2 answers · asked by xxxglitterbabyxxx 1

and then he hides it and lies about it.. What should I do Should I leave him because he is snecky and lies.. I caught him doing it one time. And there was a big fight its not that i mind the porn it is just it seems he wants to watch it by himself. Could this be me not doin something right (Im a Ninfo) So what more could i do

2006-08-14 16:04:49 · 36 answers · asked by scloflin 1

a good friend of mine is going through a divorce which seems to be taking quite some time. She has two children and now lives about 112 miles from her soon to be ex. she is dating other men and he is seeing other women. is it wrong for her to date without being legally divorced, should she put her life on hold until everything is finalized or go on with her life and continue dating?

2006-08-14 16:02:31 · 9 answers · asked by Skypride 2

Ok I've been in a lesbian relationship since I was 14 till now (20) With a wonderful lady, she's always been great to me and everyway, we had an increadable connection, never fought. I got cancer and she was there doing everything she could, more than expected, I asked her to leave me because I didnt feel it fair her doing this and not getting her needs met. she refused and insisted she wasnt building resentments. Well I got better and got raped at about the same time she was supportive when the rape came up but also very angery. Shortly afterwards she starts not wanting me to dress up or wear makeup, calls me stupid, gets agressive, not hurting but hitting out of anger hard but not hurting, she hates me spending time away from her, doesnt touch me and complains if I dont "touch" her every other day, she thinks my friends are brain washing me to think shes abusive, she finds every reason to not want me to hangout with them, but wont come out and say u cant see them, So is it abuse?

2006-08-14 16:02:10 · 7 answers · asked by the_blind_will_follow 1

Been married for 7 years, texting is with someone from her work, she has always had a good repoire with men. She has sent fake text messages to try to catch me looking at her text messages on her phone.

2006-08-14 15:58:07 · 12 answers · asked by justinmylesstark 1

2006-08-14 15:54:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

What can I do to keep my husband from hanging out with the other guys so much every weekend or maybe even he's got a woman on the outside I can't prove it but I have my suspensions. I wanna know of some old remedies I can do to him or give him that'll make him want to spend more time with me.

2006-08-14 15:53:49 · 3 answers · asked by teddybr 2

2006-08-14 15:48:42 · 8 answers · asked by purple_rose131 2

My husband wants to have sex everyday, and I like sex but sometimes after a hard days work I want to relax and watch tv or something but the minute I do relax or spend time with him he immediately wants to have sex. I am not complaining but just saying can I have a day or two without it maybe I'll miss it more, but I just keep giving it up so I never have to think he is getting it somewhere, but he makes me feel guilty when I say I am tired. Any advice

2006-08-14 15:48:20 · 11 answers · asked by Michelle 2

if u have a woman right there ...why watch porn?

2006-08-14 15:46:54 · 31 answers · asked by sweet75482 2

We've been married 32 years, the kids are gone, we fight all the time because I'm on her nerves. She tells me to get off her fuking back all the time. Had a fight tonight and she's in a motel room unless I want to talk and save the marriage. Otherwise, "she doesn't know what is going to happen next". Anyone want to chat and tell me WHY I should continue to salvage a relationship when it's always going downhill? It would be nice to talk to someone.

2006-08-14 15:46:43 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

One of my friends is a senior, in high school, and she is getting married, to a guy who just graduated high school. They been going out a year or two I guess. They aren't even old enough to know what true love is. I think they are each others first boy friend and first girlfriend. Should I just sit back and let them make there own mistake or should I put my two cents in about how I feel. Please tell me what you would do if this was one of your friends.

2006-08-14 15:40:49 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous