My husband wants to have sex everyday, and I like sex but sometimes after a hard days work I want to relax and watch tv or something but the minute I do relax or spend time with him he immediately wants to have sex. I am not complaining but just saying can I have a day or two without it maybe I'll miss it more, but I just keep giving it up so I never have to think he is getting it somewhere, but he makes me feel guilty when I say I am tired. Any advice
2006-08-14 15:48:20 · 11 answers · asked by Michelle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My man is out of town. Lucky you.
2006-08-14 15:53:00 · answer #1 · answered by kitty cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even as a wife you have the right to say no. And not having it but every other or 3rd day will not hurt him one bit. I would give my left arm to have it that often let alone every day.
Believe it or not there are men that are not that horny. But you seem to have one that finds you absolutely irresistible. I am sure if is not with you he is thinking about being with you.
However that aside you do have the right to have a break. And don't feel guilty fro feeling this way. You are only like 80 percent of the population, or more, so don't worry about it.
2006-08-14 16:15:08 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you are so beautiful that I have a feeling that no matter where you go men are going to come on to you. Don't think you can do anything about them doing that, but can put a stop to there advances with your response. Good luck. Maybe you can wear a wedding ring everywhere you go, and at least "some" of them will back off a little, sometimes though, that just makes certain ones want you more..
2016-03-16 22:23:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's testostrone, honey! Men, God Bless Them...and I'm so glad I'm not one of them. Being ruled by your dick is not my idea of a good time. Explain to him that you need time to build up some anticipation....then make him help you build up that anticipation. Mayby just letting him get close, like giving you a bubble bath, or a nice massage, or washing your hair would serve as a good substitute for a day or so. Then, you have to explain he has to work at it if he wants it....like taking you out, to bringing you dinner so you don't have to cook...or picking up his dirty drawers! You have to draw him a picture of what you want if you want his attention...like a football drill. Sometimes, men are just plain dense. Good Luck, my lady friend; paper train that man of yours!
2006-08-14 15:55:27 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you know how lucky you are?!? I would NOT complain about this if I were you.
FYI the more you have s*x w/ your guy the more you want it. Believe me it would only benefit you 2 if you give him what the wants all the time. Just play along.
2006-08-14 15:57:25 · answer #5 · answered by Bobbie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry he will find an alternative to sow his wild oats. It is a natural evolutionary imperative.
2006-08-14 15:53:49 · answer #6 · answered by fistfull-of-$ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that he can have sex every day, but it won't be as special if it occurs every third day or so.
2006-08-14 15:54:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is the way that they are built, you know that whole testosterone thing and plus, they love naked women.
2006-08-18 09:23:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because it in our jeans (get it)
2006-08-14 16:06:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u make us that way
2006-08-14 16:36:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋