Been married for 7 years, texting is with someone from her work, she has always had a good repoire with men. She has sent fake text messages to try to catch me looking at her text messages on her phone.
2006-08-14 15:58:07 · 12 answers · asked by justinmylesstark 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you are not happy with this type of communication, then she needs to respect that. Suggest that she communicate with her work friends during work time, not while at home with you. You need to lay the ground rules, but not in the way that says "you can't talk to him" because she will just turn against you. If she doesn't respect your wishes, then you make it clear it will upset you and that it will affect your marriage.
Why not send some fake messages of your own?
2006-08-14 16:10:57 · answer #1 · answered by SmokeyGun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she has emotionally attached herself to someone else - which is the same as an affair without the sex. The reason is why? Attention, anger, depression or something else? As her husband, find out what she really needs from you without sounding accusatory. She needs to know that you are interested in her and your relationship.
2006-08-14 23:13:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rapport. And it's time to lay down the law. If she loved and respected you she wouldn't do something that makes you so uncomfortable. Any kids? Own a house? If not maybe it's time to say goodbye
2006-08-14 23:08:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u are getting vibes that tell u something is not right, got with ur gut and talk to her. Chances are u are right and she is going to or having an affair.
2006-08-14 23:04:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just likes the attention but it sounds like there is one hell of a trust issue
2006-08-14 23:03:07 · answer #5 · answered by jbabee22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're having the wool pulled over your eyes, Dude. She is up to something.
2006-08-14 23:05:26 · answer #6 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What bothers you about it? Just tell her, she's your wife... have to communicate and compromise. If she loves youand cares about how you truly feels,she will stop for you.If not....??
2006-08-14 23:06:26 · answer #7 · answered by ladyt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to trust her until she violates your trust. Believe me, I in the same boat.
2006-08-14 23:08:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I smell something fishy!!!
2006-08-14 23:01:51 · answer #9 · answered by jiffypop88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How rude and you put up with that???? Wake UP!!!!
2006-08-14 23:07:49 · answer #10 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋