i know of few men that beleive sex toys are not supposed to be used in a married household. but what could make them believe that it takes away from them? if the woman in the relationship wants them and the man doesnt, how do they compromise?
2006-08-14 16:49:28 · 10 answers · asked by cmac 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She needs to insure his ego is not damaged and that is hard to do if toys are needed to get off. That points directly at his inability to get the job done. Teach him to do better and if toys are still needed keep them where he will not find them.
2006-08-14 17:01:16 · answer #1 · answered by mr conservative 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's sad that some guys don't want sex toys in the bedroom. If they would only give it a chance, they will find out that the toys will increase their excitement too! I have enjoyed it, as my wife is into the toys in a particular setting. I can't say too much here because our 16 yr old daughter reads my answers. If you want to know more, contact me. Good Luck
2006-08-14 17:03:37 · answer #2 · answered by marks3kids 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in general, men don't want to feel replaceable, so toys in the bedroom can make them feel insecure that you don't find him able to satisfy you completely. if he can understand that it's heightening the experience and that he is the most important toy, you may find that he lightens up. try calling him on the phone while you are using a toy and tell him that you are fantasizing about him ;)
2006-08-14 16:59:05 · answer #3 · answered by Eos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys just want to have sex and are not into toys, besides, toys are mostly for women.
2006-08-14 17:11:43 · answer #4 · answered by WestCoastin4Life 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't like toys in the bedroom? Heck, my bedroom looks like Toys R Us!
2006-08-14 17:05:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The poor little boys (underscore 'Little") feel more than a little insecure, don't they? They are terrified their GF will prefer Mr. Dild/ than them...Pitiful male ego. Find youself a man who knows what he has, and one who has plenty...you will not be getting that nonsense. he will join in with the party. Good luck
2006-08-14 17:00:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insecure about their size maybe. They want to feel like only they could pleasure you. Nothing could replace them.
2006-08-15 09:33:04 · answer #7 · answered by RJLightning 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe is a male ego thing, also when you have kids you need to hide them well.
2006-08-14 17:01:46 · answer #8 · answered by 1001Questions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy him a pocket pussy or some butt balls im sure he'll come around
2006-08-14 17:22:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have a problem with it
2006-08-14 17:51:08 · answer #10 · answered by TOPKICK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋