I was once a high society call girl. I quit and moved to another city got married and now have kids. My husband has no idea of this and would divorce me in a heartbeat if he ever knew. One of my old clients found me and he has pictures of him and I having sex. he has threatened to show them to my husband. If I don't meet him for and afternoon of sex. What should I do.
2006-08-14 04:03:26 · 25 answers · asked by Froggy_45 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell your husband and hope for the best. If you sleep with this guy, it is cheating and I am sure it wouldn't be only a one time thing. It is a lose/lose situation. Talk to your husband and hope for the best. Good Luck!
2006-08-14 04:09:22 · answer #1 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is this old client married?...turn about is fair play......tell his wife. If he isn't....call the police and tell them there is a man trying to solicite you for sex........then talk to your husband...he deserves the truth..but.....that was your past......it should have nothing to do with your marriage now.......your not the same person as you were then. People take pictures all the time having sex with a partner. Just tell your husband he was someone from your past and now he is trying to blackmail you by making things up. Good Luck...and remember..people do change, its the ones who want to cause you harm that don't. Do whatever you need to to get rid of him.
2006-08-14 04:12:59 · answer #2 · answered by lisa46151 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the jerk you've contacted a lawyer and that blackmail is against the law. Do Not offer up more information to this man than is necessary. Don't tell him your husband doesn't know, and if you've already told him that, then you really do need to contact a lawyer. Be prepared that you might have to actually tell your husband, he may be a lot more supportive of you then you think. It's easy to look at the negative side of what he "might" do, but don't under estimate him. But be prepared. The best offense is a defense. Good luck!
2006-08-14 04:22:19 · answer #3 · answered by carolscreation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your husband that your "old client" is an ex boyfriend that went bad and the pictures are of the past. Tell the client to go f off. Also, let your husband know this guy is trying to make you feel guilty for doing something he wanted you to do in the past in the picture and won't leave you alone.
2006-08-14 04:11:02 · answer #4 · answered by missy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seriouly tell you husband right now before anyone does tell him and tell him that you were call girl and no long doing that and person using black mail v.s. you and so call the police and have them know about meet him afternoon and then when you go and see him and the police will take him down for blackmail and other stuff. and I think your husband need to know and He will need to understand that you had to do that to make the living... and You change alot for that and He should understand why.
If I was him I totally understand and Support you and would do anything for you. I hope he does know tell him before anyone tell him. Tell him didn't want you to know afrid that you lose him and I am not happy for what I did and That why I found you made me feel safe and have a wonderful kids.. so pls again tell him asap and be the first person to tell if you do believe me and he will trust you more if you told him first before anyone from now on smile.
Hope it make you safe for you and your family....
2006-08-14 04:26:48 · answer #5 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust in your love with your hubby and call the cops on the guys blackmailing you. Try trading e-mails with the guy begging him to leave you alone.
If your hubby really loves you, and you him. You will live through it. I just shelled out $10,000USD to someone under conditions that I'm not proud of. Guess what, my wife and I are separated anyway. Guess what else? We are working together to heal and hope. I love my wife more then anything, she loves me, which made things even harder on us, but we are trying.
Don't let this jerk direct who you are through fear and blackmail. You will only get in deeper and the end will hurt even more. Call the cops and tag the SOB. You will loose sleep and have heart ache either way, so why not take a swing at the SOB that's causing it all.
You are a success story whether you know it or not. You did what you had to do to get where you are. Why start back peddling now? You have honor and integrity, no one can take that away, you can only give it away. If your hubby really loves you, you both will heal.
2006-08-14 04:16:11 · answer #6 · answered by Thomas 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with everyone else here.....talk with your husband, pray, DO NOT meet with your ex client. One thing is, do u know for sure he has pictures or is he just lying to get sex? For another, you have sex with him one time, he will always be asking for more, because he knows he can hold those "pictures" over your head and get what he wants. DON'T do it. Call the police or lawyer.
2006-08-14 04:34:09 · answer #7 · answered by JFCHIRO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be honest and truthful with your husband. Whose to say that this client is going to continue to pressure you to have sex in the future. If this guy showed pictures to your husband, I would say that is something I did when I was young and stupid. You don't want to get caught in lies or adultry.
2006-08-14 04:09:14 · answer #8 · answered by Chaga 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he blackmails you and it works, when does it end? You will be at his mercy and this will probably not be the only time he does this. Come clean and hope for the best. Pray Pray Pray. Get a restraining order against him, too, so he can't come around harrassing you or your family. I would get evidence and have him arrested for harrassment, blackmail, whatever charges you can file against him.
2006-08-14 04:35:52 · answer #9 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what don't have sex with the asshole! As haed as this may be you either have to come clean with your husband or you have to tell him that this guy is a former "lover" that is harassing you. You could file a sexual harrasment suit/charge on him???
2006-08-14 04:14:11 · answer #10 · answered by Wally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋