I share everything with my husband even the stuff that I had before I met him. I kept journals througout many of my teenage years. Going through my storage yesterday I found them and at first my husband wanted me to throw them all out but decided to let me keep them and put them in our truck to bring home. I didn't want to read them right now or last night, but when he went to do laundry he decided to pick one up and start reading it. He called me crying and upset. He appologized and told me that he read one of my journals which made him extremely upset and that he doesn't know if he can handle being with me any more knowing my past and how I used to be before I met him. It doesn't bother me that he decided to read my journal like I said I share everything with him what bothers me is that it upset him so much that he told me that he pictures someone else shen we make love and that everytime he kisses me he pictures things that I have done with other men. What am I to do?
2006-08-14 04:40:10 · 4 answers · asked by babe112083 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
give him time.
and ask him why he doesn't trust you, if you have never given him reason while you were together not to trust you then it really his insecurities that are the problem and not your past.
don't let him make you feel bad about your past if your didn't already. he has no more right to judge you for being who you are than anyone else, in fact he has less since he chose to marry who you are.
he will either get past it, or he is not worth keeping and will make you pay everyday for things that are really none of his business.
2006-08-14 04:52:18 · answer #1 · answered by jude D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE PAST IS THE PAST. Hes too feakin hyper. My husband doesnt worry about that stuff cuz he is so secure in his own skin that he keeps asaying hes adorable all the time. He knows how to turn on the charm. Hes an Aries!! He needs to relax. Real love can withstand this. Tell him you love only him and they dont matter anymore...
2006-08-14 11:47:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you marry a man - or a sissy fxg...you got yourself a real winner there babe!!!
2006-08-14 11:45:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whatta winer! Tell him to grow up! what is he??? 12???
2006-08-14 11:47:08 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋