I get sick of the way my man misbehaves. Bickering doesn't solve anything, and I am not one to withold sex. How do you deal and punish someone for doing something stupid.
EX. My boyfriend seems to think it is okay to drive wrecklessly with me in the car. I drive with him to work occasionally and for whatever reason he is always late. Today he drove 90 passing people. He was in such a bad mood I knew I couldnt say anything or he would take it out on me. He honked at someone and took stupid cuts that I knew wouldn't even get him there faster.
When your man lets his temper get to him, or your woman does something stupid how do you punish them? Communicaiton isn't always an answer. Is there something that you do that makes it clear wahts going on?
2006-08-14 04:32:45 · 12 answers · asked by Poestalker 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Punishment is the wrong word/attitude. Do not get in the car with the idiot; he doesn't care enough about you or himself or others. Pack your bag and move out and move on. You don't need this crap. He's acting out because you allow it. Find some "balls" and make it clear....clean up your act or I'm outta here!
2006-08-14 05:11:11 · answer #1 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time, when my husband gets angry with me, I don't have to do anything, not even fuss. Because he usually punishes himself. example, he was driving me to work one morning, showing his a**, I didn't say a word, on the way home he hit a deer and almost totaled our only vehicle. He was not hurt, just his pride. I got lucky when I found him. I don't have to work as hard.
Now with my ex-husband, I tried everything, and nothing worked. I am like you though, I will not hold out on sex, because that is punishing me too, and if I feel like he did something wrong why should I be suffering also!
But a lot of people will say if you are old enough to get married you should be adults and that you should not punish one another. But I look at it not as punishment, but guidance. If they want to be with me forever, then there is certain stuff that I don't want them to do over and over again. As I am sure there are certain thing they want me to stop doing also, I am not perfect by any means.
2006-08-14 11:46:59 · answer #2 · answered by sweetpeachiebear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have the right to punish other people; and if he's making you that crazy, what are you hanging around for? Just what are you trying to prove?
Life's too short to waste time trying to "get even" with people you think have done you wrong....
2006-08-14 11:52:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't punish another adult...that's silly! When we have a issue, we talk about it, but then that turns into a small wrestling match and then...well it always ends up as fun for both parties!
2006-08-14 11:44:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds horrible, but I would make him feel really guilty about it. Tell him how much it hurts your feelings and you just don't think you can deal with it anymore. Tell him that you don't do it to him, so he shouldn't do it to you. Making a guy feel guilty works in a lot of situations.
2006-08-14 11:42:28 · answer #5 · answered by Trish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in your case how about when you do the laundry put extra bleach in his whites and cut short the rinse cycle or take one pair of shorts out befrore the rinse.. That will really give him a great case of jock itch.
2006-08-14 11:42:04 · answer #6 · answered by hardnose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, are we dating the same guy! That sounds just like my finace. I just give him the silent treatment and wait until he chills out.
2006-08-14 11:38:38 · answer #7 · answered by orionsgirl76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you got a little boy who has temper tandrums - send him to a timeout....what a baby you got there....ssheeshh...get yourself a real man !!!
2006-08-14 11:39:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to punish someone you love. Maybe it is time to re-evaluate your relationship with this dude
2006-08-14 11:42:32 · answer #9 · answered by Wally 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
who's in charge in your relationship? if its him there is not much you can do.... if it is you then i suggest taking away certain priviledges like for example....if he drives like a maniac in the morning...he can't watch t.v. or be on the computer that night.... that sort of thing.......
my husband spanks me or takes away priviledges whenever i have done something wrong...and it works for us...!
2006-08-14 11:40:25 · answer #10 · answered by myheartisjames 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋