Is it there no longer around
2006-08-14 04:49:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Perhaps, you have'nt found the right woman. Maybe you need to re-evaluate the people you chose to have a relationship with. Good women are out there, you just have to look harder, be a little more cautious and sharpen up your senses. But, if you looking for the perfect girl, it will never happen, everyone has faults including me. Nothing will ever be 100% in this life. Look harder and re-evaluate, good women are out there!!! Good Luck!!!
2006-08-14 05:02:39 · answer #1 · answered by Yahoo Anwers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll ask you this. Do you have a guy friend you trust 100%? I have a few girlfriends I can trust, I have even had a few men I have trusted. My first husband said the only smart thing he ever said. "You only know someone as well as they let you know them."
I see myself as an honest person. What you see is what you get. I also see myself as having morals, values and standards. Yet I have lied and been dishonest. Maybe little white lies. But dishonest none the less.
I have cheated. Justifying it because he cheated first. I have lied and been dishonest after I have been lied to or deceived.
That was in the past. I share and am as open with my mate as much as I expect from them. Treat people the way I want to be treated.
I have been with someone that was 100% as far as I could see trustworthy and honest. Trust me that wasn't such a great thing either. He told me every move he made at all times, every thought and worse shared his opinion of my clothes, make up, family, breathe, weight, my friends, you get the picture.
So to answer your question. My last two husbands were pathological liars. It was frustrating and hurt. I chose to take more time to get my new guy. His mannerisms, personality, traits, know his friends and foes. and then chose if he is someone who is trustworthy. Don't give up
2006-08-14 05:04:03 · answer #2 · answered by Balou 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust is difficult to have at the 100% level. But my guess is that humans treat each other badly, so there has been some hurtful history they [the women you meet] have experienced. I trusted my husband when we were first married, naively, now I never trust him. He lies about the important stuff and tells the truth about the things that don't matter. Go figure.
2006-08-14 04:58:19 · answer #3 · answered by toolate4me? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to break it to you, but you can't trust any person 100%. And I feel the same way about men. I don't hate them - I just don't trust them. And the men I meet are basically good guys.
If you want 100% trust, get a dog. I'm serious. I trust my dog 100%, and I will never have a guy around again.
2006-08-14 04:56:57 · answer #4 · answered by theophilus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it's hard to find a man you can trust 100%!
2006-08-14 04:55:27 · answer #5 · answered by bellita_716 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it so hard to find a man you can trust 100%???
2006-08-14 04:56:35 · answer #6 · answered by bella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes they r still around, u just have 2 get to know people first. once u get serious about someone r even engaged and married. the 100% trust should have already been put in place.
2006-08-14 06:06:01 · answer #7 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to check into those that are no so attractive but have great personalities. Often it is the woman that does not stand out that is the best catch. Lower your sights and find someone that shares your interest in hobbies and travel instead of putting so much on their good looks. When the lights are out the images become unimportant and the mind compatibility is much more important than the sex.
2006-08-14 04:55:39 · answer #8 · answered by hardnose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same reason it is so hard to find a man you can trust.
2006-08-14 04:54:41 · answer #9 · answered by lavenderroseford 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People change over time. Never trust anyone 100%, not even your mum and dad
2006-08-17 20:17:25 · answer #10 · answered by Baby_Apocalypse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋