Marriage & Divorce - 10 August 2006

2006-08-10 10:05:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My brothers won't have anything to do with me and my new husband. My ex-husband was abusive to me and the three children,and we had a restraining order for a year. I did meet my new husband during the time I was "Married"; he(my ex) lived down the basement and we didn't have sex for about seven years. My family goes out socially with my ex; they have even vacationed with my children during the time he had summer visitation. MY brothers will not even meet my husband. I think it is very odd that when my brother comes into town he calls my ex first so my kids, ex, mom, and he can get together. Frequently, I don't even know he is in town until my kids tell me Uncle Jim was at Dad's with grandma. During an electrical outage,my mother went to live with my ex. My kids (and I) wonder why my family never does anything with me. I've tried asking them if the divorce upset them, but they just bullshit me and say"We are just so busy". How do I handle this? I will not go back to who I was.

2006-08-10 10:05:08 · 15 answers · asked by Skye7112 2

2006-08-10 10:04:32 · 17 answers · asked by katyb 1

2006-08-10 10:03:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have been visiting my real father's family this summer for two weeks. i havent seen my father for almost seven years. i havent had any contact with him whatsoever. my grandma on my father's side told me i should write him a letter about how i feel and to see if he will write me back. i am afraid that this will hurt my stepdad's feelings. ya know make him think that i dont love him and that i9 think he doesnt do a good job as a father. i want to talk to him about it but i am worried. should i talk to him about it or keep it a secret?

2006-08-10 09:59:24 · 6 answers · asked by I Love You.....♪♫♪ 3

He said that he had not been in love with me for at least a year, and that he still loves me. He said he didn't leave me because he thought that I had done too much for him (I have been working at McD's and putting him through school so he could join the marine corps.) He is now done with meps and in dep.
He said that he "emotionally cheated" on me with his ex-girlfriend from high school (his first love), and doesn't remember if they kissed ("If I did it was instinctual"). They went up into the hills together to look at the stars and he told her her loves her. He hasn't even seen her for 7-8 years, until 2 weeks ago.) He claims that he is not sure if they are going to start dating, but I'm sure he is. When he left last night, he went to her house and talked with her and then "slept in her car". She left her boyfriend of 4 years (long distance relationship) to be with him.
He's offered me financial support but he hasn't had a job in 2 years and hurt his back.

2006-08-10 09:55:24 · 12 answers · asked by all_the_answers 2

2006-08-10 09:53:50 · 9 answers · asked by belmo 2

How would I go about stripping for my husband? I mean I need like every little thing that I need to do. Any suggestions, tips, techniques would be really really appreciated. I have never done it before but would really love to know how.

2006-08-10 09:53:16 · 7 answers · asked by Fordwomanpregwith1st 1

Why would a guy do this to someone he is supposed to love and cherish?

2006-08-10 09:45:26 · 9 answers · asked by Fleur de Lis 7

For example back in the day, women traditonally stayed home and took care of the house and kids, and the divorce rate was much lower. But now more and more women are working full time. Do you think that this is what is causing higher rates of infidelity, particularly in the workplace where having an affair is relatively common? Are co-worker relationships with the opposite sex damaging to a marriage?

2006-08-10 09:41:33 · 14 answers · asked by juju 3

Most of my conquests have been married chicks.

2006-08-10 09:37:46 · 20 answers · asked by jack 2

Do you like it when your partner says I love you during sex, how do you really know if they love you or what you are doing for them?

2006-08-10 09:26:01 · 34 answers · asked by missing_something 2

wife tells me she doesn't love me anymore, could 3 kids in 4 1/2 years cause this. we both have busy jobs and don't spend much time alone. but she says she doesn't have any feeling for me anymore and wants out. can some help

2006-08-10 09:25:20 · 8 answers · asked by pat379 1

i m married for 8 1/2 yrs happily..just tht never felt attracted towds husband.i recently met a guy on chat room and i feel very much attracted towds him...i can't think sm thing else ...am i cheating my husband..it has made me miserable i think I m falling or rather i hv fallen for this guy..wht should i do?

2006-08-10 09:21:50 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have never been with anyone else and am about to get married. Sometimes I wonder if I am doing the right thing. I love him. He's been around the block and knows I am the one for him. Sometimes I just wonder if maybe I should have dated other people besides just him. If he is "the one", feedback??

2006-08-10 09:16:31 · 30 answers · asked by limeallure 3

I haven't been bugging him for help nearly as much, but today he's in a funk and I don't know why. So guys, what depresses you? Or what can I do to cheer him up? And please save the nasty comments, I'll report you.

2006-08-10 09:16:24 · 9 answers · asked by acholtz@verizon.net 3

i don't want to believe that marraige is a trick women created to get half a man's stuff when the relationship is over and all the the man stuff while the relationship is going on so they can sit on their a##es and do nothing but feel in control and secure in their lives while the man is bustin' his hump. can you change my mind?

2006-08-10 09:14:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

If your fiance tells you she missed her exam because it was a rainy day and traffic was bad and on getting to class she found out exam was over,she decides to call the professor there and then.professor on listening to her told her she could come to his house to take her exam that day.would you break up with your fiance for agreeing to take the exam in his house.

2006-08-10 09:11:24 · 11 answers · asked by mo 1

2006-08-10 09:09:55 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am getting married to my fiance on the first of september and need a romantic idea to make the day special. I used all my own up persuading her to marry me!

2006-08-10 09:01:58 · 27 answers · asked by a_kind_of_magic69 1

O.k me and my ex husband have not been together for almost two yrs...I left him because i found out he was cheating on me when I was 3 months pregnant..I know i'm always gonna have feelings for him and all because we do have 2 kids together and we were together since i was 14 yr...But now that he has a new Girlfriend and they will be moving in together this month I feel so Jealous...I don't want him back or anything because we are better off not together..We do talk about 4 times a week and sometimes when he calls me it's to tell me how bad things are going with his girlfriend..I don't hate her because she had nothing to do with my marriage problems But i really don't want to hear about them two being together or what there plans are....I two have someone else and as much as I try not to be Jealous of my Ex husband new girlfriend I can't help my self...Please help!!!!!

2006-08-10 08:59:24 · 33 answers · asked by ?Whiskey Girl? 4

wat do u do... if things didnt work out with this guy u were into... n then u go tmarried to someone else... n then one fine day u meet the love of ur life again... n ur world comes crashing down n u dont knw wat to do with ur feelings...??? anyone gone thru this..?

wat wud u do in such a situation???

2006-08-10 08:58:31 · 11 answers · asked by babydoll 1

Say the adult man in your life, who has been a good man all his life, was molested as a child and just recently started to go to counselling for it. He decided to start counselling after he became recently aware of CONTROLLABLE thoughts of molesting other people the same age he was when he was abused. Besides this, he is aware of little other lasting trauma from the sexual abuse.

How much of this would you want your man to tell you about? Would you honestly leave him at some point if he told you about his thoughts about young people? This is a serious question and no, I am not talking about myself.

2006-08-10 08:56:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

why do so many men love pam anderson please all the men in the house explain to me why in gods name do you worship her aside from the big plastic boobs.please explain it to me my hubby has recently aquired a pam addiction please help i want to understand cause honestly i dont get it

2006-08-10 08:55:02 · 13 answers · asked by angelina_mcardle 5

Ok! I asked an early question and got many good answers. Let me clairfy my situation. I am forty she is forty one. Married 17 years. Two children 12 and 14. I finally woke up from many years of being a workaholic. I fell in love with her again. We do not fight at all. Living together is like roommates that dont talk at all. No sex or affection. She will not go to marriage counsueling. She says the more I push her to go the less she will think about it. She has finally gone on her own on therapy. She says also I am very controlling. I have let her go for several months now without a holding her back. No questions period. Now it has been 8 solid months of emotional hell for me. I cant seem to function. Do I stay or do I drop the bomb of "Either we work on this or we sell the house and go our seperate ways". Friends tell me this is your last resort. She has told me she does not love me as a husband and does not care for me!!! Help!!!

2006-08-10 08:54:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

for 18 years we have one child, how is the best way to divorce her?

2006-08-10 08:49:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife and I have an interesting ongoing debate. We both agree that married women cheat as often as married men, but that women are far better at covering their tracks. However, I would argue that women are far more likely to cover for a cheating friend than a man would.

For example, we have a married couple as friends. She always had a monthly girls' night. But her friend Cynthia would always call the husband, to tell him that his wife was on her way home. Now, his wife has a mobile phone. Why wouldn't she call him herself? He's come to me with this problem. Personally, I think she's cheating. My wife says not necessarily so. What do you thnk?

2006-08-10 08:47:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Your wife tells you that she invited her parents for a two week visit and they are staying in your home. The two weeks happen to be during your vacation. By the way, your in-laws don't like you.

Do you:
A. Move
B. Get a divorce
C. Bake them a laxative laced cake while they are there.
D. Take your wife out to dinner while they are there (without them) then call the police and tell them someone has broken into your home.

E. Lay around in only your shorts and belch and pass gas.

Or do you just say "Yes dear".

2006-08-10 08:46:22 · 4 answers · asked by Joe 6

i mean, if some girl is looking and want to get married, will she prefer older, equal of younger than the age of the girl looking...

2006-08-10 08:44:09 · 39 answers · asked by Sona 1

he lied to me 3 times we agreed to not see other people but when i got home from work he was having sex she was sucking his dick and i asked him what was he doing and he tried to lie and the next morning he wasn't there he was gone his stuff weren't in the drawer i ask my self where the hell did he go and i called him on his cellphone and i said i forgive him for cheating on me i'll give him as much chances as he wants cause i love hime as much as possible and i was cying while i said that to he said he love me and that night i could not sleep i finally close my eyes and have a dream that he was having sex with a nother girl i woke up and said what the hell

2006-08-10 08:37:45 · 23 answers · asked by Mz.SouljaGurl 1