wife tells me she doesn't love me anymore, could 3 kids in 4 1/2 years cause this. we both have busy jobs and don't spend much time alone. but she says she doesn't have any feeling for me anymore and wants out. can some help
2006-08-10 09:25:20 · 8 answers · asked by pat379 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A full-time job plus children can make anyone very tired. And, it doesn't leave much time for the two of you to maintain and improve your relationship.
Make an appointment with a marriage counselor today and start working on your marriage. The children deserve it and so do you two.
2006-08-10 09:49:39 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not the kids, hon, it's everything. You just said it yourself, you're both so busy you don't have time for your relationship. If she wants out already, I'm not sure there's anything you CAN do. Have you talked to her, asked if she'll at least try to work on it? Ask her if she'll go to a therapist with you. But it may not work. Once you get to that point, it's pretty much over.
2006-08-10 16:33:10 · answer #2 · answered by I'm just me 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate to be the burden of bad news here, I can understand were you both are coming from, sounds to me you grew apart, that is sad. that's not what is supposed to happen, And 3 kids, no way they didn't cause your failures it was to two of you. If you can see to work it out, seek counseling.
hopefully not all is lost yet, talk to your wife, tell her how you feel.
good luck to the both of you.
2006-08-10 17:39:34 · answer #3 · answered by RAINBOW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you can blame the Kids! Likelt something to do with the 2 of yoiu together
2006-08-10 16:33:51 · answer #4 · answered by roags 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 kids in 5 years could kill you. Marriages go through this, it's perfectly normal. Now, be married which...means work on it.
2006-08-10 16:38:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the drive for money and things end most relationships. You both gotta put first what is most important - God and each other. Money cannot buy happiness.
2006-08-10 16:30:44 · answer #6 · answered by DesignR 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to get her to seek canceling with you ... if she don't and she is telling you that she don't love you anymore then it is just a matter of time .... sorry
2006-08-10 16:31:25 · answer #7 · answered by STEPHANIE S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get into counseling with her
2006-08-10 17:05:25 · answer #8 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋