wat do u do... if things didnt work out with this guy u were into... n then u go tmarried to someone else... n then one fine day u meet the love of ur life again... n ur world comes crashing down n u dont knw wat to do with ur feelings...??? anyone gone thru this..?
wat wud u do in such a situation???
2006-08-10 08:58:31 · 11 answers · asked by babydoll 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, things didn't work out between you and the "other guy" before. Why are you so optimistic now that you have a really great guy at home that you care so much for that you actually married him? Is it that you just got into a rut and are seeking attention from the "other guy" because you actually seek excitement? I have been married for more than 10 years, so my advice is: Spice up your life with your husband. Do something in the bedroom that you have never done before, or something you haven't done since you were dating. Focus on what drew you to your husband. Things worked out with him!
2006-08-10 09:28:11 · answer #1 · answered by dzygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you asking if it's OK to marry a guy, just until something better comes along? Or until the guy you really wants decides to show up again? The answer isn't hard. Get divorced. You married a guy, and didn't love him. Love isn't a light switch, that just turns on and off all the time. If you loved the husband, seeing an old flame wouldn't cause "ur world to come crashing down" You owe it to the gut you married, to at least give him a chance to marry a girl that loves him, and isn't just settling.
2006-08-10 18:27:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing. You must have loved your husband to have married him. If things didnt work out between the "love of your life" before they are not going to work out now. What would you feel like if you found out your husband had posted this very same problem about someone he had been with before and just met again?
2006-08-10 16:23:23 · answer #3 · answered by The BudMiester 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you cheating on your husband? That's what it sounds like to me. What are you doing!!! Do you love your husband does he deserve this kind of behavior? You better tell him if you are cuz you don't want him to find out by another. I would never cheat I would break up with the person before I ever cheated on him. What is with all the cheating lately???
2006-08-10 16:17:54 · answer #4 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You keep your husband and have the old flame on the side. What is up with everyone asking questions that have an obvious answer. You are married end of story.
2006-08-10 16:16:36 · answer #5 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK - what is with all the lettering and no spelling. I couldn't make heads nor tails out of your question. better luck next time.
2006-08-10 17:13:50 · answer #6 · answered by RAINBOW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had that problem once upon a time...the ultimate answer is that you got married because you loved the man you were marrying. dont second guess that decision
2006-08-10 16:31:57 · answer #7 · answered by blackqueen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to say this....What the H e l l is with all these people that cant speak proper english? This is very frusterating reading all these questions that make no sense. If your going to live in the states people, please learn the darn language.
2006-08-10 16:07:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
be mature enough to stay with the one you married, and leave the past where it is.
2006-08-10 17:20:57 · answer #9 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not put all of your eggs in one basket!!
2006-08-10 16:03:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋