Marriage & Divorce - 10 August 2006

2006-08-10 08:27:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

if yes, how do u handle this kind of situation?---
esp. in cases that you don't have any plans for children yet,
but your married...

2006-08-10 08:25:09 · 4 answers · asked by i crave yours 5

When we started dating she told me she was a virgin. Later she confessed that she had been with one guy, who forced himself on her, and it was no more than him inserting. I was OK with that, even though I did threaten to whip the dudes A$$. One night I was at her house and woke up to her crying she had written me a letter telling me that she had sex multiple times. Its not the sex that bothers me, its the fact that she lied to me 2 times now. Later I found out that she had done some heavy parting @ college and would take guys back to her dorm, what happened there I do not know. I confronted her on this and she said it wasn't true. Well I did a little research and found out she lied again, I have emails as proof (Unless the emails were lies) I dont know what to do. I am not upset over the fact that she is not a virgin, I am upset that she lied to me. I have offered her many chances to fess up to ANYTHING that might come back to hurt our relationship. Do I stay or do I go?

2006-08-10 08:24:02 · 52 answers · asked by chadmichaelwarren 1

It seems thay my love life has gone to crap...I really have no desire to make love becuase it's too much of a chore to get my wife ready..(she needs this to get here going and I need that)
It seems we cannot communicate(she rehashes things over and over and I can't stand to talk about one thing for 60 mintues when It can be summed up in a minute)
Lastly, I met a girl that actually makes me feel appreciated. I haven't been intimate with hre becuase i'm married but I'm really confused to wether try with my marriage or give up...Any opinions?
thanks

2006-08-10 08:23:28 · 7 answers · asked by shazbot 1

if their partner is cheating on them? why don't they just leave if they believe he is?

2006-08-10 08:22:42 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been in a relationship for 8 years and have 1 child together and 2 from previous marriage. Not married just living together. There is little or no communication and do not seem to have much in common anymore. Main reason for staying together (my perception) is for the kids. He is in denial about our problems and shows no interest in trying to resolve our issues. Find myself looking at other men lately...is it over?

2006-08-10 08:19:18 · 10 answers · asked by lips74 1

my husband and i have been seperated for 3 months (i found out he had been cheating on me b-4 and during our 7 month marriage with the same whore whom he is with to this day). I still talk to my mother in law and every time I do she tells me that he wants me to know that he "still loves me more than anything in the world" and "thinks about me all the time". Now why in the hell would he say such a thing when it was him whom chose to leave me for a piece of ***?

2006-08-10 08:18:12 · 8 answers · asked by kt 2

i have been with my boyfriend for a yr in a half and i love him more than anything he tells me he wants to stay with me forever and i want to be with him forever to he means everything to me and i know i do to him he would never do anything to hurt me but hes going away to college everyone talks about us getting married and i live with him.

2006-08-10 08:17:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

anybody else think his stuff is stupid and uncalled for? i mean who wants to see questions like his stupid crap all the time?

2006-08-10 08:15:22 · 12 answers · asked by chevy 5

2006-08-10 08:12:49 · 31 answers · asked by corona8181 1

2006-08-10 08:12:41 · 14 answers · asked by wpsso 1

should i

2006-08-10 08:11:26 · 22 answers · asked by Mz.SouljaGurl 1

Did this ever happen to you? It was so stupid, but I'd say like 6 times over the years, we are being intimate, and we start to fight. Usually it's about dumb stuff, but we start yelling at eachother and one of us usually walks out of the bedroom and we don't finish. I don't know why, and it's both of us doing the fighting. Has this ever happened to you?

2006-08-10 08:10:01 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-10 08:09:08 · 88 answers · asked by ShineOnYouCrazyDiamond 4

I am a forty year old man with two children. My wife is one year older. Several months before Christmas I was very unhappy on how I had been as a husband and father to my children. I was a workaholic and only cared about my needs. I was never happy and always complained about how bad things were at home and the office. Well, I changed all that and told my wife I was going to be different. Things went bad a few months later. She became distant and cold. No sex period also. She told me that she could not carry the load any more and she found a new life in working-out (running). She told me that there was no one else or an affair. She also says I am very controlling. Now it has been 8 solid months that I have let her go somewhat. I have slipped up a few times but will not go to marriage counsueling. We do not agure or fight. We are just roommates. How long do I stay. I feel like crap!! She is in therapy now by herself only. She will not disucss it with me. How Long?????

2006-08-10 08:07:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

What does woman like when in bed? I understand they want story telling and create a loving environment. But can any man or woman share good experience? sequence or techniq is even more appreciated

2006-08-10 08:07:25 · 4 answers · asked by WiseJ 2

If you did, help me by telling me what you did, how you accomplished it. I want to help my husband understand we have a beautiful future together, we just need to rebuild a bad relationship. We love each other, but the lack of time, and other problems made him believe there's no saving us. He says he wants a divorce even though he loves me.

2006-08-10 08:03:21 · 23 answers · asked by Nina E 2

I'm not talking about sex. Just things like hugs kisses and just...intimacy. We have been married for thirteen years, and have two children who are both preteens. I used to love the fact that she was not too needy. I still love the fact that she is very independent. I however am a hopeless romantic. Any ideas?

2006-08-10 08:02:25 · 15 answers · asked by jeff b 2

I have been seperated from my wife for 4 years. Now that the divorce is being finalized I really want to be over her, but I've never stopped loving her. It was hard on both of us, but she's the one that ended it. We still talk and are on good terms. She lives overseas now.
While I have been on a few dates over the past few years, I haven't met anyone I really care for or have even slept with.

Any suggestions?

2006-08-10 07:54:55 · 13 answers · asked by AnswerBot 4

Everyone has had this happen, I guess. So what was it for you?

2006-08-10 07:53:44 · 14 answers · asked by ? 3

I have had several failed relationships due to the fact that the guy just wants what he can get. Im at the point of having NO feelings for any guy that i come in contact with in any way. im beginning to think that men are just dogs.

2006-08-10 07:37:39 · 24 answers · asked by suzannebandy 1

I was wondering what you do when you get into arguments? How do you resolve problems with each other? How do you stay calm during arguments? How do you get your point across to your partner without sounding rude or judgemental? I have been having problems with my husband, they are not huge issues, but we have a hard time communicating. We will go to councelling but would like that to be a last resort, or at least try some things before. How do you communicate in a positive way with your partner?

2006-08-10 07:35:56 · 48 answers · asked by tmac 5

2006-08-10 07:34:57 · 31 answers · asked by Big Chris 1

What I can give my husband for our 1 year anniversary? Any imaginative people with a creative suggestion?

2006-08-10 07:31:14 · 5 answers · asked by 031708140503 2

Sometimes I feel I got married a little young at 21. What do you guys think.

Dr Phil out.

2006-08-10 07:29:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-10 07:19:59 · 54 answers · asked by i crave yours 5

I am having an affair with a guy that is 38 I am only 26. He tells me he loves me and I am amazing all that crap...why is he doing this? I don't want to be with him or anything but he started saying things that made emotions get involved I wasn't expecting. What should I do? I am feeling guilty, I've never done anything like this before, my husband and I were split when it started but are now thinking about trying to work it out. Why can't I just let this guy go and forget about him. He has me wound up.

2006-08-10 07:19:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance had two ex-wives, both of them were cheaters, and lastly one of them still carry his last name. I am hesitant to take his last name because I feel it doesn't make me unique because two other woman degraded it! I asked why did his last ex-wife keep his last name and he said it was the only way she could still have a part of him even though he divorced her, she's also a dead beat mom who gets perks out of calling during obvious times when we're spending quality time just to cause me discomfort! What would you do?

2006-08-10 07:18:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I BEEN WITH THIS GUY FOR ONE YEAR,HE NEVER TOLD ME HE WAS MARRY.I JUST FOUND OUT.WHAT SHOULD I DO.I DONT WANT TO HURT NO ONE. HELP ME PLEASE,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

2006-08-10 07:18:42 · 12 answers · asked by mlisa 1

Is it possible to be able to fall in love with someone from just talking to them for 10 minutes?

2006-08-10 07:14:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous