my husband and i have been seperated for 3 months (i found out he had been cheating on me b-4 and during our 7 month marriage with the same whore whom he is with to this day). I still talk to my mother in law and every time I do she tells me that he wants me to know that he "still loves me more than anything in the world" and "thinks about me all the time". Now why in the hell would he say such a thing when it was him whom chose to leave me for a piece of ***?
2006-08-10 08:18:12 · 8 answers · asked by kt 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He's been cheating since before the wedding? Why haven't you filed for divorce already? He has shown you his true colors. Get a lawyer, dump him and find someone who will love and respect you. You deserve it.
2006-08-10 08:25:30 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it is not your husband saying these things. i think it is more wishful thinking on the mother in laws behalf. She must like you a lot and she knows her son did wrong and she is probably thinking he will realize it. So in the mean time she is playing with your feelings. So that you will still think about him and hope he will come back. If he was cheating that long than I hate to say it but he was never really committed to you in the first place! I think since it is a short marriage you should stop talking to the mother in law. Do some of your own soul searching, join yoga or a group or hang out with friends. get him out of your mind and move on. you can do better than that! Why settle for something that has truly never been real?
2006-08-10 08:38:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mothers always tend to defend there sons... this is their way of dealing with the wrong their son has done, if they think oh he loves you blah blah blah then it makes it ok that he did this... best advice: stop talking to the mother in law about her son, if you have built a relationship and want to remain friends then thats fine but dont discuss her son and RUN, pull yourself together and dont look back. Waisting time on men that dont deserve you is exactly that A WAISTE OF TIME. chalk it up to a learning experience and move forward. if he has disrespected you this much then he dont deserve to have you.
2006-08-10 08:29:45 · answer #3 · answered by MrWrongallthetime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell your mother in law that you find that very difficult to believe considering his actions. She may be try to keep the peace between you 2. This is between you and him and I would explain to her that you appreciate her efforts, but the topic of wether or not he loves you still is not one your interested in talking about. This is also something you would need to hear from him, not his mother.
2006-08-10 08:26:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They never realize a good thing until it's gone. He's full 'o poo. You should ask your mother in law to stop relaying his messages for him. If he was truly sincere he'd tell you these things himself. BTW get yourself tested - just to be safe.
2006-08-10 08:43:27 · answer #5 · answered by NyteWing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that he can't see you, he realizes that you're important to him.
It's a very typical behavior. If he really thinks about you and loves you truly, he should've come home, asked for your forgiveness, instead of telling his mother everything.
2006-08-10 08:23:17 · answer #6 · answered by :D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So he can sound like a good guy to his mother.
2006-08-10 08:27:44 · answer #7 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he does think about you all the time... it could be true.
2006-08-10 08:28:09 · answer #8 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋