I BEEN WITH THIS GUY FOR ONE YEAR,HE NEVER TOLD ME HE WAS MARRY.I JUST FOUND OUT.WHAT SHOULD I DO.I DONT WANT TO HURT NO ONE. HELP ME PLEASE,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
2006-08-10 07:18:42 · 12 answers · asked by mlisa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You can't help who you fall in love with --unfortunately you fell in love with a liar and a cheater. Remember that any man that can cheat on his wife...the woman he promised to be faithful to....will cheat on you.
I know it hurts but if I were you I would get out--and fast. Believe me, in time you will find someone who loves you and you love and you will be happy you got out of this situation.
2006-08-10 07:27:14 · answer #1 · answered by vdubbchick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-06 02:42:48 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face it. If he kept it a secret this long from you he has NO intentions of ever leaving his wife for you. You are the one that will be hurt, he will go home to his wife. Get out now before you invest any more time with that cheater. I found out the hard way, that if they cheat on thier wife then they will cheat on you too.
2006-08-10 07:26:00 · answer #3 · answered by Sally S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would RUN and keep RUNNING from this man he has DECIEVED you by not being honest so now the question you have to ask yourself is can this man be trusted?also he is seperated not DIVORCED and you deserve better.And you must remember that KARMA is a MOFO what you do with this man will come back to haunt you.
2006-08-10 07:55:34 · answer #4 · answered by CaliMa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you didn't want to hurt anyone you should have done a little research on this man before you became involved. Don't you wonder where he is sleeping every night? Open your eyes.
2006-08-10 07:29:23 · answer #5 · answered by michiganwife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didn't know until he told you??? my gosh you should dump that person..... why you don't want him or his wife get hurt? I mean face it lady he lie to you and used you and now he knew that he screwed tht you will tell his wife. So what you have the power to tell his wife and wife need a woman like you to tell her and she will know. if no one knows then it not fair for wife to think she has a perfect marriage. and I think yoiu should do something about that and have him pay the heavy price for that crap he did to you. that stupid for him.
2006-08-10 07:41:08 · answer #6 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should break up with him because if you don't you will start feeling guilty cause now you know he's married. it's best to get rid of the problem now than wait later when the problem gets worse
2006-08-10 07:24:48 · answer #7 · answered by jdukenumber1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHATEVER YOU THINK YOU FEEL FOR HIM, IT IS NOT MUTUAL.
HE IS MARRIED TO SOMEONE ELSE AND HE HAS BETRAYED THEM WITH YOU.
WHAT DOES THAT SHOW YOU ABOUT HIM? hOW CAN YOU MAKE EXCUSES FOR HIM?
WHY WORRY ABOUT HURTING SOMEONE LIKE HIM? HE DOESN'T WORRY ABOUT HURTING ANYONE.....
WHAT HAS TO FALL FROM THE SKY FOR YOU TO SEE WHAT KIND OF GUY HE IS? DON'T YOU THINK YOU DESERVE BETTER?
WHAT IF YOU WERE HIS WIFE? HOW WOULD YOU FEEL ABOUT YOU?
YOU ALREADY KNOW THE ANSWER TO THIS....TRUST YOURSELF TO BE RIGHT.
QUIT LOOKING FOR OTHERS TO HELP YOU JUSTIFY TAKING NO ACTION TO PUT YOURSELF FIRST.
2006-08-10 07:29:14 · answer #8 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to leave his sorry a%% he will cheat on you too. If he can hold a secret from you for a year....whos to say there aren't other girl friends out there.....Be Careful
2006-08-10 07:31:22 · answer #9 · answered by babeusahot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it never occured to you to be a bit strange that you were never invited over to his house.....or the fact he couldn't spend any major holidays with you???? Give me a break.........
2006-08-10 07:29:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋