why are women so interested in ...?

Question

if their partner is cheating on them? why don't they just leave if they believe he is?

hey, sasha, why is it a stupid f#$%ng question? at least give me something better than a stupid answer.

Answer 1

because some of us have more insecurities than others, what might seem like a sign of cheating, may not seem that way to someone else. in any relationship the thought of someone being unfaithfull is very open due to society today, cheating and divorce are so common. another reason is denial, some people rather not look at the truth and whant to believe that is not happening, and on yahoo answers peoples opinions might give them the slightest hope that it might not be really happening. and another thing, its very easy to say why dont you just leave, when you love someone its very hard to let go even if the person has hurt you terribly. its always easy to say you should do this or that, but put yourself in that persons shoes and just imagine how you would feel and react.

Answer 2

I dont think this is ALL WOMEN! I completely trust my husband and always have. Are you giving this woman a reason to think you are cheating? Or have you been a cheater in the past and she knows you were? Or you just found a very insecure woman to be with. Some people are the cheaters and then they think the other person is cheating as well, because they know they are. I think if you are not a cheater and you do not like what this woman is accusing you of than leave! Not all woman are this way!

Answer 3

Fidelity in a relationship is a two way street. It truly has to do with trust. I've been married for 16 years, my wife and I trust each other.

I think while we men tend to see things in black and white women tend to use "what if" statements a lot more. Also women in relationship assume if they are being cheated on that no one else will have they.. The pathology of this is the clinical diagnosis of "Dependent Personality Disorder"

Answer 4

Some women are very insecure. They may always feel their partner or any partner they have in life is cheating. This is a very sad thing. Women need to be secure in themselves. And she doesn't leave because she doesn't want to believe her partner would ever do such a thing. Its called DENIAL. and they just want it to go away.

Answer 5

LOL. Why WOULDN'T they be interested in such a thing? A woman isn't going to leave because of a simple "belief." That would be ignorant, who would do that? Proof is required before you leave someone, otherwise you're going to wonder the rest of your life whether you were right or not.

Answer 6

Nobody wants to believe they are being cheated on. In love our mind can sometimes play dirty tricks on us. I think women need proof before making a decision to leave or not.

Answer 7

They love the drama. If they KNEW he was cheating they would have to make a choice. Just assuming it means they have something to talk about.

Answer 8

They are naturally soft hearted than man; they believe and love peace. I believe when there will be a first woman precedent in US, the world become more peaceful than now!

Answer 9

yes most of the time they are cheating!!! but its best to find out for sure. there is still that chance you might be wrong.,and if one is married and have kids its best to make sure that he is and get that proof .there is kids involved .and there are also alot of insecure woman /men out there and they may think they are so its best to find out first.
,and i think at least 85 percent of the time or more .you will catch them cheating.

Answer 10

Some, not all, may want to find out that they are, so they can do the same without doing the deed first. Kind of like saying "Oh, you did it, now it's o.k. for me to do it. How do you like it.