Marriage & Divorce - 10 August 2006

After living together for 23 years, the last three being married. An affair was the last thing I expected from him. Annoymouse letters in the mail to me, giving me details of their relationship, Late night phone calls from her wanting me to come and get him because she was done with him (how degradeing, emmbarraced, and most of all hurt).He stuck to the same old line. We are just friends, I don't want that girl. After losing my job over this and being arrested, and moving out for 2 months, He assured me it was over and he only loved me and wanted me back in our home. I was scared to come back and was very insecure, but I did. Almost a year went by and now she is playing games with me. If he sees her at the local club, she will dial my home number and hold the phone out so I may here their conversation or leave notes where ever our car is parked so we know she was there. What should I do? leaave him or stay and fight.?

2006-08-10 11:27:48 · 10 answers · asked by tears gone 1

2006-08-10 11:26:11 · 6 answers · asked by blk man luvs pussc 1

2006-08-10 11:18:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-10 11:15:10 · 8 answers · asked by Me 1

Lately he only want to do things with his daughter or alone and seems to exclude me from things he knows this bothers me yet says i am irrational or too emotional when i confront him . Is this a bad sign? I feel strongy that being a couple means wanting to be with each other yet still giving space when needed but not ALL the time

2006-08-10 11:13:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance recently walked in and announced that she didn't love me, didn't want to marry me, and wanted me to move all my things out. This was totally out of the blue and she acted like I cheated on her or something.

We have been together for 5 years and have always had a perfect relationship. We were getting married in a month.

She started dating someone else almost overnight and I'm totally baffled. Do you think she's dating him just so she doesnt have to think about me? How do you start dating someone so soon?

She is younger than me (23) I'm 27. I've only talked to her a couple times since we split and she tells me she still wants me to be a part of her life and that I can "call her anytime." But, I feel like... you left me, I'm not going to chase you.

Other stuff plays into it too. We both just graduated from college and got career jobs. Was it just all too much to handle at once? I have so many questions, but no answers.

I'm devastated and I don't understand.

2006-08-10 11:12:01 · 31 answers · asked by untrepublican 1

all of his movements when he touches me are fast and ridged instead of slow and sentual,,,there is not enough forplay and he cums to quick...he says he is open to learning but i am not sure how to teach him. When i do get close to cumming he stops action suddenly ( I think because he thinks that i came when i didnt) WHAT DO I DO?

2006-08-10 11:06:57 · 31 answers · asked by bryanna g 2

2006-08-10 11:05:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife cheated on me recently but we have gotten over that. We are in our late 40's and she told me today that she wants me to help her find another person to help spice up our sex life. She says it will be sensual only and no total sex involved. I am interested but don't know if it will spice things up. Does anyone have experience with this?

2006-08-10 11:04:43 · 10 answers · asked by brokenhearthubby 1

where is your dream honeymoon?

2006-08-10 11:01:47 · 14 answers · asked by jamescoffman1978 2

Mine was at his mothers house outside on the hood of her car with the guy next door watching.

2006-08-10 10:50:33 · 19 answers · asked by louisiana_red_rose 1

should i get a divorce or not? my husband cheated on me and lied about it he said he only did once but today he said he did 3 times!

2006-08-10 10:49:58 · 38 answers · asked by LYNN 1

She handed it to me and said "Here wash this." Does your significant other have a good sense of humor?

2006-08-10 10:47:46 · 11 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

do men feel sory for women? respect women? do they love women or just sex? do they expect women to serve them?

2006-08-10 10:44:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

do men geel sory for women? respect women? do they love women or just sex? do they expect women to serve them?

2006-08-10 10:43:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend was insecure about many things such as the age difference between us, and if I would end up leaving him in a few years for someone younger. How could I convince him that his age doesn't matter and I am commited to him?

2006-08-10 10:42:43 · 6 answers · asked by torn 3

Women who have affairs with married men are called a mistress, but what about a guy? Seems kind of sexist to me if there is no name for guys like that.

2006-08-10 10:42:08 · 42 answers · asked by trekool_pinay 2

2006-08-10 10:37:09 · 47 answers · asked by D B 4

I find myself wondering about my bf past relationships. Should these things bother me?

2006-08-10 10:36:54 · 25 answers · asked by honeyluv_2010 4

Jackeline G
Level 1
my husband still has an affair and he denies it but i keep finding stuff?
he is emotionally and physically abusive, and six months pregnant, and his girlfriend sandra pazos knows it, i dont know if she instigates, i dont know what to do he dont live with me any more but he still show to the house,. can any of you help me or drop her a few words her email is spazos@gentexcorp.com. the police took report but havent done anything yet. and this hoar and him are still together, but he keeps coming back, i cant control situation . i hate this woman and him it ruining my life and my little six year old is confused. i do have an attrney fr divorce but is taking too long, please drop a hoar few words.

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2006-08-10 10:33:07 · 14 answers · asked by Jackeline G 1

Ok...I talk to a guy online thru emails only, we talk about both of our marriages and problems and sometimes flirt (nothing serious) He is in his 40's me in my 20's we just talk but could my husbad look at it different?? I know girls over react when guys say "we were just talking" do guys do the same....I'm very faithful to my husband I just need to know if I crossed the line...

2006-08-10 10:33:07 · 58 answers · asked by ERICKSMAMA 5

we both puertoricans i half german and half puertorican
sh ein military so i dont see her that much every 1st times she it hard i know it get tight if no acction for a while but im to big for her any type of sex and it make me self consues

2006-08-10 10:32:09 · 36 answers · asked by yosoymatiu 1

sex with my husband after we seperate (7 yrs of marriage; mutal agrrement of seperation; 1 child; still love each other)....

2006-08-10 10:27:28 · 7 answers · asked by Mrs. G 1

the couple have an open marriage. they discuss him wearing a condom when he is with other womyn to which he AGREES.
he: not once. not twice but three times he did not.

she: did not include him in something HE thought she ABSOLUTELY without a doubt, no way on God earth she could not have known, she should have included him. she did not think she it was mandated or that EVERY knew except her. and as it turns out it does seem to be 'debatable' in that there seems to be no CLEAR right or wrong answer.

he insists his transgression is no more serious than hers.
she insists that his is more so.

tell us what do you think. and possibly why.
i feel the key rests on ONE key element ....

2006-08-10 10:25:13 · 5 answers · asked by bi2unicorn 3

he has told me about a old girlfriend and that he was cheating on her with another girl that was living with them along with her husband. He has said that he will not cheat on me but if he does he will tell me himself right away. So I have found myself checking his email to see who is emailing him and who he is emailing. Nothing has turned up... Should I be getting married??

2006-08-10 10:24:26 · 8 answers · asked by angelagozz 1

My wife has started contacting an ex boyfriend she was seeing him a few years ago and i found out due to text mess on phone that was incriminating preety sure she cheated she denied i had no proof so accepted her answers and said as long as u dont contact him again.She left her email open and i checked it and she has emailed him he hasent tried to contact her in 2 years the emails told him how im this and im that and all our problems which married couples have money etc she says she loves me and will always be married to me no matter what but the emails tell the opposite story i cant believe some of the things she is saying mostly untrue he has replied with if your not happy you should leave i can almost see him smirking rubbing his hands togethrer thinking im in you guys will know what i mean its a case of tell her what she wants to hear im sure it would be the same for him if they were married It sucks wjhat should i do.Please no silly answers

2006-08-10 10:23:50 · 10 answers · asked by sacamento3 1

2006-08-10 10:19:46 · 14 answers · asked by charro0295340 1

he is emotionally and physically abusive, and six months pregnant, and his girlfriend sandra pazos knows it, i dont know if she instigates, i dont know what to do he dont live with me any more but he still show to the house,. can any of you help me or drop her a few words her email is sandrapazos@gentexcorp.com. the police took report but havent done anything yet. and this hoar and him are still together, but he keeps coming back, i cant control situation . i hate this woman and him it ruining my life and my little six year old is confused.

2006-08-10 10:10:52 · 21 answers · asked by Jackeline G 1

If your BF or Husband goes to a massage parlor where they offer the happy ending (Hand Job) is that considered cheating? They aren't doing anything. Simply getting all their muscles massaged, so does it count?

2006-08-10 10:07:16 · 20 answers · asked by rab2344 4

i have been married for 2yrs to a guy whom is 11yrs older,while i am in my 20s i dont deny for being sensitive...for these past few mths i noticed that he prefer a girl wif big boobs,pretty face and good figure gal(which i do not have). but why go for me at the first place?? he start to collect alot of porn clip on his phone,local hostess having sex...it upsets me a little,he told me he likes to watch them doing it... yesterday we had a big fight and he didn't come home while i waited for hours. i dont noe if there is still any point of staying when our sex life is so much affected...what should i do???

2006-08-10 10:05:44 · 42 answers · asked by nisha depressed 1