If your BF or Husband goes to a massage parlor where they offer the happy ending (Hand Job) is that considered cheating? They aren't doing anything. Simply getting all their muscles massaged, so does it count?
2006-08-10 10:07:16 · 20 answers · asked by rab2344 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You're a pig!!
2006-08-10 10:16:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay...is the bf or husband just GOING there? You said "they aren't doing anything"? Are they getting a hand job or not?? If they are just GOING there...why??? That is just stupid. And "getting all their muscles massaged"...please. It is something physically initimate. Go home and have your wife or gf do it for you!!!
Regardless, anyone knows the ONLY reason a man goes to a massage parlor is get "the happy ending" and yes it is cheating. Would you like your wife or gf to go to a day spa and order the "happy ending" as well??
2006-08-10 10:21:08 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is a happy ending simply getting muscles massaged? Any kind of sexual gratification from another person stranger or not is cheating! True and professional massage therapists don't massage that muscle
2006-08-10 10:31:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, hand jobs are sex acts, so I would consider it cheating.
Reverse the roll, would you want your wife to get a massage and then have her "happy ending"? I don't think you would like the idea of another man touching your wife "there" would you? The same should go for you.
Here's an idea: Why don't you and you wife/girlfriend massage each other and give each other a "happy ending"? It would be great for the relationship. :)
2006-08-10 10:18:42 · answer #4 · answered by Elizabeth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That all depends on what you're wife thinks. I think it will probably escalate beyond that at some point. Pretty soon the hand thing won't be enough. Next it will be oral, then divorce. And everyone will not live happily ever after.
You need to tell your wife what you want.
2006-08-10 10:16:45 · answer #5 · answered by pcgirl2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well only you think its ok for your your wife/GF to get a nice boobs massage by men in a parlor..
2006-08-10 10:16:05 · answer #6 · answered by jheel04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely. How would you feel if your wife was getting massaged in all the wrong places?
2006-08-10 10:14:49 · answer #7 · answered by mergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you think.
If you are doing something that you won't tell her about, then its cheating. It is being dishonest because you are lying by omission - you are not telling her something deliberately because you really know that it is wrong.
So it involves dishonesty, inappropriate contact with another person, and disrespect for your woman - all of these are quite clearly traits of a cheater.
2006-08-10 20:03:19 · answer #8 · answered by Jeremy D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. firstly, he has no reason to go to such a place as I will massage him and secondly, no one sees his package but me!
2006-08-10 10:12:34 · answer #9 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dang I didn't know these places existed where are they located? lol no realy I am sorry to break this to ya but yes this is cheating.
2006-08-10 10:11:51 · answer #10 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that is cheating...What if your wife or GF was getting fingered and she was enjoying it Would you think that's cheating?? Think about it
2006-08-10 10:14:31 · answer #11 · answered by ?Whiskey Girl? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋