My wife cheated on me recently but we have gotten over that. We are in our late 40's and she told me today that she wants me to help her find another person to help spice up our sex life. She says it will be sensual only and no total sex involved. I am interested but don't know if it will spice things up. Does anyone have experience with this?
2006-08-10 11:04:43 · 10 answers · asked by brokenhearthubby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well...i can tell you that swinging is fun..ive tried it..but you can only do it under certain circumstances...being...couples have to have absolute faithfulness...no going behind eachothers back and swinging...have to have lots of trust...if you cant trust her dont bring other people into the mix for fun...then it wont be fun if she gets a taste of it and wants to taste more..without you...
2006-08-10 11:17:16 · answer #1 · answered by magickitty0621 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are on the same level and trust each other then go for it. Sometimes you have to try things to make it work. Obviously, since she cheated she is looking for spice. If you want to keep her, it would be better for you to spice things up with her, instead of forcing her to cheat. Go fo it, but make sure there isn't any jealousy or doubt. Good Luck
2006-08-10 12:35:20 · answer #2 · answered by marks3kids 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to www.adultfriendfinder.com This is a site that has free chat rooms that will have lots of people there with swinging/threesome experiences. There are also adult personals that can help you find the right match for what you are looking for.
My personal advice is if she wants to spice things up and you aren't comfortable bringing in someone else then buy a sex swing. You can view a picture of it here; http://www.pleasuremenow.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&ProdID=2591
I hope this helps :)
2006-08-10 12:27:49 · answer #3 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 22:15:04 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay away from this. Bringing a third person to an already rocky relationship might be a bad idea. I never did this but my good friend has and it ended her marrige. Things were never the same. Good luck.
2006-08-10 11:09:27 · answer #5 · answered by Queen of Kings 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It had better be 100% consensual on both of your parts or this will not work at all. If you have any apprehension bas things will happen. It doesn't sound like you have a lot of choice...either do it or your wife will stray. You have a lot of personal refelction to do brother.
2006-08-10 11:13:34 · answer #6 · answered by Alex B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is talking about bringing another woman in, go for it.
If she only wants it to be another man, dump her becuase she is only out for herself. The guy just may be the man she cheated with.
2006-08-10 11:14:22 · answer #7 · answered by Tyler Durdin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eeeee Gads!!! Huh, she is trying to absolve her guilt!!! She is trying to manipulate you. God did not have "threesomes" in mind, pal. What is the matter with you??? Spend some money on marriage counseling.....you are both sick!
2006-08-10 11:09:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we havent but some of our friends have n they liked it but alot of stuff comes with tht ..like jealousy n rules n all so be careful
2006-08-10 11:08:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,but you should see if you could find another women that would be willing.
2006-08-10 11:09:54 · answer #10 · answered by rodney m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋