Marriage & Divorce - 10 August 2006

2006-08-10 03:27:44 · 23 answers · asked by bitch1 1

What song help you the most when you were going though a heart ache situation? Mine was..."Stop Crying Your Heart Out" by Oasis....what was YOURS?

2006-08-10 03:27:42 · 8 answers · asked by carolscreation 4

Wife gave a man a ********(oral sex) last year after a party in which she was drunk. She seems remorseful and has made a 180 change in her life. She stopped going out and she now attends church regularly. Should she get a second chance>

2006-08-10 03:26:05 · 58 answers · asked by Confused 1

ha. this is getting like a soap opera. this is in response to various questions.

no, i have never been unfaithful to her. i've looked at other women, but never, never, never touched or even hinted at it.

i don't believe she has been unfaithful.

she has lived with an eating disorder all her life, had an alcoholic father, lost her mother at an early age and was in an abusive relationship for about 11 years. currently she controls her weight with laxitives and bulemia and binging.

she owns her own business but it is controlled by her father. she works about 2 hours a day and thinks that is very overwhelming to her. from time to time she works maybe 3-4 hours total and that is WAY too much for her and expects to be pampered by me.

I think it's ridiculous that she doesn't work an 8 hour day and feel sometimes she's a puss and doesn't have the right to complain about working an extra hour or two.

i try to treat her good, but then there is always something i haven't done.

2006-08-10 03:23:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

When me and my husband get into an argument he using profanity and says very mean things towards me. I very rarely raise my voice to him. Things have never ever taken a physical turn and I never see that happening, but sometimes words can hurt more than fists. After we are done he apolagizes for what he said and says he doesn't know why he reacts that wa and he wants to stop, but after three years I don't see a change. How much is to much and should I do something about it?

2006-08-10 03:19:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

The specifics are that my wife and I were seperated (not legally) six years ago.While we were apart, I began looking for a house to purchase. The mortgage co. had my wife sign a quit claim deed because the future of our marriage was unclear. She later moved in for approximately five years. Now she has moved out and we are possibly facing divorce. As far as I know, the quit-claim deed is still in force. Can she legally get around this deed and if so, how?

2006-08-10 03:13:19 · 3 answers · asked by Phil W 2

2006-08-10 03:12:24 · 4 answers · asked by gary g 1

... who was unable to support me (by being there for me in times of neeed) because he's been in the army for three years (in brittian) - and we only broke up in January - has decided to call me and talk to me like I'm his best friend!!! And we haven't spoken or had any contact the whole time we've been apart... (he chose not to!) Now, he's got a new girlfriend (only three months after we broke up he started dating her) and he's decided to talk to me about their problems?

How mean is that - when he knows I still love him!

Then he says that I shouldn't call him because she's a very jealous person and he'll call me whever he wants to... But we should be mad at each other or hold grudges - he wants to be friends?

Honestly - I still love him very much and it hurts my feelings when he talks about us (he does talk about the past and all the fun times we had...)

I don't think this is fair what should I do?

2006-08-10 03:11:41 · 54 answers · asked by Chellie 3

Something happened to me yesterday. Can you guess what it was? HINT: life change

2006-08-10 03:06:38 · 18 answers · asked by sonny 2

I was dating a man who had a few insecurities about us. He was afraid of getting close to me because he had been hurt in the past. I have this extremely sarcastic exterior and I was constantly saying sarcastic things to him, reminding him of the insecurities that he had (such as his age). When we were together, I contantly asked if he was happy with me instead of enjoying the time we shared. Sometimes, I found it hard to sit still around him too, so I had to get up and do something. Even in the mornings I would wake up before him and just leave (I went to vaccuum out my car) without explaining to him where I was going. I should have just stayed in bed with him, but I didn't.

I was also sweet to him and did everything for him. I took him to baseball games, car shows, etc. And I always gave him massages when he wanted them. I did say sweet things to him as well.

We broke up and now I wonder, did I push him awayand why? Is there a way to make things right between us?

2006-08-10 03:05:00 · 16 answers · asked by torn 3

so my wife takes the cell phone and comes home last night from shopping and tells me immediately upon exiting the vehicle, your boss called and women have called the phone all day.

later on when she had unpacked her things and the kids were asleep, i asked her about this and wanted to talk about it.

she accused me of being a child reacting as if he had been told he could not have a new toy to play with.

I'm a grown adult and was given the phone to use at work as part of my business. i'm not sure what to say to my boss, my wife says i can't have the phone because she can't control who calls and who i call.

so this went on into the early morning and i was tired and ready for bed and she kept asking me why i couldn't understand her point. (See previous posts about going through my desk, etc.) and i told her she was acting crazy.

wrong thing to say. she's now talking divorce, hatred, etc.

she's not crazy, but i just don't see her behavior as being rational.

????HELP

2006-08-10 02:57:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

she's talking divorce, don't touch me, this has changed our marriage, i'm not sure i want to be married to you anymore.....

i asked to pray with her last night and she said she was doing her own praying.

i spoke to our ex-pastor yesterday and discussed this and he felt she was wrong and said if a husband is given a phone to use at work, that's legitimate for work and she should understand.

i also asked him about women coming into my office and he said it was fine unless i shut the door and i always keep the door open.

i've invited my wife to come for lunch, coffee, etc. and to help me move my office when the time comes, so she can see all my stuff and feel comfortable about it.

i went to a counselor at work and he said i should not even have llet this go on this far.

i don't want a divorce, i don't want my children taken and i don't want to work each week just to pay her child support.

any suggestions/ Please pray.

2006-08-10 02:57:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

wont it make you late for the church ?

2006-08-10 02:57:21 · 21 answers · asked by delboy 1

my husband fnd a txt in my phne frm a frnd who ws mkng fun of the guy she was mad at it said "dnt u wish ur boyfriend was hot lke fast?, dnt cha?" so he took it as me hvng a boyfrnd whn i dont! and he wnt drop the subject he wnt listen to the truth frm me, and it hurts so bad. I hve explained myself and dnt knw wht else to do. we hve been married 2 yrs. i shldnt be dealing wth this. he has been mean to me . if i was hiding anything why would i let him c my phne? he has no evidence of me hvng a boyfriend its just plain stupid. i dont have one but he wnt listen to a word i say hes stuck on him being right and me wrong. please help me , i dnt knw wht else to do. I love him so much. it kills me inside to knw tht he doesnt believe me. the txt was a joke frm my friend nothing more.

2006-08-10 02:53:34 · 8 answers · asked by 86Angel 2

I'm much more of a straight to the point kind of girl...foreplay is great but I love penetration...what should I do? My husband LOVES kissing and it just makes me uncomfortable and turns me off...it's not just him...I've NEVER liked kissing

2006-08-10 02:53:17 · 4 answers · asked by Kitten 4

And in January I met this great guy,but he is wanting to get married and I am scared,What do I did?

2006-08-10 02:52:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was given a cell phone at work and came home with it and my wife was upset because she felt it was another way for my work (which is very unobstrusive so far) to keep a tie to me.

She's been very jeolous of the job and has come to my office to go through my desk and papers because a lady stopped her one day shopping and said she had visited me in my office several times. It was a high school friend of my wifes and although it was a business meeting, my wife was very upset over that. This situation has caused the jeolosy.

back to the phone. the phone had belonged to another worker and last evening a lady sent a text message to the phone and it sounded kind of provocative. my wife hit the roof. she kept the phone with her and said she was going to call this woman and find out if she knew me.

while my wife had the phone with her my boss called and some other women called the phone.

she wants me to give it back and say i can't use the phone.

what should i or can i do.

2006-08-10 02:51:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex-husband and I met 21 years ago and married very young and had two sons together. We split 7 years ago and I've been remarried for 6 years. My husband and I have no children together. He is 12 years older than me and has older children and several grandchildren. We got together almost immediately after my ex husband and I split, and immediately after he and his wife split ( He was married for 21 years to her). I am realizing now that I am not in love with my husband, although I do love him dearly and do not wish to hurt him. I still love my ex husband. He is begging me to come back to him and for us to be a family again. Also, I desperately want more children, which I cannot have with my current husband because he had a vasectomy.
My husband knows I am not in love with him, but he doesn't know how strongly I feel about my ex, only that i still have "feelings" for him. I feel like a rotten person and i don't know what to do.

2006-08-10 02:43:29 · 13 answers · asked by diana 1

2006-08-10 02:40:08 · 24 answers · asked by whatanutta 2

Why are the men in sitcoms or on TV portrayed as idiots while the wives are portrayed at saints? Are men really this dumb? Do real women think men are really this dumb? Do women really enjoy seeing men treated this way? I watch TV and want to beat my head against the wall because men (in my opinion) are not this dumb and women are not saints (no slam on women meant here). Men and women are just "normal" with different and individual quirks. Please don't think I am saying men are better than woman. I am just saying men and women are about the same except on TV.

Example from TV would be like Everyone Loves Raymond (wife is always pissed at Raymond because he is so "dumb"). I actually can't stand the actress that plays Raymond's wife because she is such a wench to him in the series.

2006-08-10 02:37:13 · 9 answers · asked by Fishgutts 4

I am small breasted and often wondered if my husband would want bigger ones. He states that more than a mouth full is a waste and this way he can indulge all at once. Is he only being nice, or should I enhance?

2006-08-10 02:35:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

the other day my husband left his cell phone in my car. Someone called and when I answered it they hung up...it was one of those calls that you know someone else is on the line but after saying hello a couple of times they just hang up without saying anything. I didn't recognize the number but it was local to where my husband works. I am sure that I over reacted when I asked him about it, but he said it was probably just a wrong number, then I said...ok lets call it back and see who it was for sure...he said ok, then when I asked to see his phone to get the number to call he refused to let me look at it....he brought up another time when a guy called my phone and it was a wrong number, (but it really was and the person calling actually did say something) I guess what is really bothering me is that they didn't say anything, and that he wouldn;t let me look at his phone. Am I over reacting?

2006-08-10 02:33:44 · 8 answers · asked by red 1

2006-08-10 02:29:40 · 15 answers · asked by whatanutta 2

2006-08-10 02:25:53 · 0 answers · asked by cornbread_38ct 1

I found that my husband is hitting one particular porn site multiple times. This is not the first time and we have discussed this in the past. This time when I found the site, I asked him and he flat out denied it. After I told him how I found it and would be more than happy to show him......he stated he had a "weak moment"...what four times in two days???? Is this just a "man thing"??? Someone, please help me understand!!!

2006-08-10 02:21:30 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am living in a family of 4 in India. We have a servant of 15. She has good projections. I have just entered college. In schiool I learned many things about sex. once or twice, She has seen me masturbating. I made her promise that she will not reveal to others about it. She was not curious to know what I was doing. Now she has grown up, I fear she may like to know more about it or tell the elders about my act. What shaal I do? - Can I speak to her openly and try to seduce her? OR Shall I go for it when she sleeps showing her essentials (may be intentional)?

2006-08-10 02:07:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Any suggestions on how to approach this. Just wanting to know where the other person stands before relationship gets too involved.

2006-08-10 02:07:53 · 3 answers · asked by !@#$$ 2

Opinions everyone, should your spouses needs and wants come before your parent's needs and wants?

2006-08-10 02:07:25 · 15 answers · asked by Kitten 4

I have to babysit him constantly,he really is a good man but he cant do anything unless I am there to direct him,I feel like his babysitter instead of his wife,any suggestions?

2006-08-10 02:06:15 · 18 answers · asked by TAMMY M 2

2006-08-10 02:03:57 · 6 answers · asked by Omar 1