2006-08-10 03:27:44 · 23 answers · asked by bitch1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he dont like 4 me 2 give him them.he wont allow me 2
2006-08-10 03:41:16 · update #1
Go on with your own life while riding out the storm wait to see what happens. There are reasons for which things happen to a mans neck like a childs grip, a to tight neck tie, a dull raisor, a peice of construction material may have slightly grazed the neck area, all these things may make it look like they are hickies but in fact they were not, these incidents I were there to witness these also happened over a long period of time and not just with one partner or have happened to men friends of mine... If you know for sure it is and he admits to it then ask him if divorce papers need to be filed. You could also ask him if he would like to be swingers if it's just the starnge he is looking for then YOU could arranged that as long as he is willing to arrange that for you, if it is love he's looking for then it's time to go. Good luck and best wishes...
2006-08-10 03:51:14 · answer #1 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if it is not from you. Then ask him what it is, it may be a total accident, though it probably is a hicky. If he gives you a lame excuse or acts weird about it then he probably was cheating. I would leave his ***. No matter what anyone tells you, if he cheats then there is something wrong with the relationship. There is a reason he went elsewhere, and even if you seem to work it out, everytime there is a problem he will cheat again. So if he is cheating let him go, save yourself the extra heart ache, if he cheats he does not respect u or your relationship and never will.
2006-08-10 10:39:41 · answer #2 · answered by TR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that sounds so familiar, lol...My husband (well soon to be ex), came home one night and had a massive hickey on his neck. He tried to tell me that it wasn't and that there was something wrong with me for belieivng that it was. He reallly took me for a fool bc I already had suspicisions prior to that and once I saw the hickey, I knew it was time to get rid of his ***. The final straw came when I checked his wallet and found some note from the skank he was messing with, saying "Hey sexy, i hope you think of me"...Needless to say that he lied about that too...all i can say is thank god for count dracula and her nasty lil hickey that she gave him because who knows how long this wouldve went on for if she hadnt and because it exposed the whole world of lies that my husband reduced our marriage too. If this is his frist time, and once confronted seems sincerely sorry for it then perhaps there is still a chance at working it out. However, in my situation it was not his first time cheating so I kicked his stupid *** out right there and then. It has been a hard process because as much as I hate to admit it, I do miss him on occassion but I will not allow someone to continue to disrespect me and treat me any less then what I deserve. You should also hold yourself up to the same standards and hopefully you will make the right choice. Take care and good luck...Oh i asked about the hickey question to and its under my questions if you want to check it out and see what others had to say about my situation...
2006-08-10 10:40:28 · answer #3 · answered by serenity113001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A hicky??? Time for a new mate. There could be a logical explanation for it, like he fell asleep in the street and a homeless person gave it to him while he was sleeping.
2006-08-10 10:55:03 · answer #4 · answered by yamaha bassman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest with you, you and your mate need to sit down and have a long talk. He needs to let you no if he's happy with you two relationship.It's not fair to you to be played.You need to ask, whats going on?and how long has it been going on? If he shows that you can't trust him,grab your bags and leave him alone.Other wise you will be facing some pain from your relationship.There's plenty of men out there that would treat you like the woman you are.
2006-08-10 10:36:58 · answer #5 · answered by star 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not married, but i'll probably try to work it out first. if i really can't (or he can't), and i find myself just constantly being suspicious of his actions or suffering more than being happy, then i leave him. but all in all, i'd probably give the marriage another shot. (unless this is not the first time this, or something similar, has happened). i'd give it another shot, but just one more shot. i think time will lessen the pain gradually, because the hurt is emotional. now if he hurts me physically, ah well, no second chances for that one.
good luck.
2006-08-10 11:07:11 · answer #6 · answered by kristina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is cheating, and probably either him or his chick wants you to know. Contact a lawyer RIGHT NOW and you can get all of that cheating bastards money because if he cheated they consider that his fault if you leave him and they make him support you and any kids that you have. Good luck
2006-08-10 10:33:35 · answer #7 · answered by kimberly b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he got bit by a rabid dog...
give him another hicky with a vacuum cleaner
2006-08-10 10:40:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring a boyfriend home too...and get rid of the husband.
2006-08-10 10:33:45 · answer #9 · answered by kw38man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, cut the crotch out of all of his pants...every pair of jeans, shorts, dress pants...all of them. Then kick his sorry *** to the curb and they be thankful to be rid of the jerk. File for divorce and take all his money....
2006-08-10 10:36:18 · answer #10 · answered by THP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋