2006-08-10 03:12:24 · 4 answers · asked by gary g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes I did. My wife was extremely upset and it took a couple of years to get back to normal. When she was finally ready to talk about it, I made a compromise with her. She kept saying..."what if I did it, how would you feel?" I had a sense that she was thinking of doing it to get even, so eventually we talked about it and I let her do it too. marks3kids at yahoo
2006-08-10 03:43:38 · answer #1 · answered by marks3kids 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you blame her? It all takes time, and that is all there is to do. Give her time to digest it all, get over the hurt and the anger.
Then once she has settled down, don't pressure her to talk, but ask her to talk. Then YOU have to be open and honest about why you did what you did and why she should believe that you wouldn't do it again.
If you want to do it right away.......write a letter...........that she can read and tear up or save, whichever she chooses to do, cause if she isn't ready to talk........thats the best option I can think of.
2006-08-10 10:26:03 · answer #2 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u repair...just be honest ...no need tell all the lies...wives only wants their husbands faithfulness. dont be a chicky monkey anymore. the best dish is a home cook fr a wife...get it?
2006-08-10 11:57:45 · answer #3 · answered by starsg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi I just caught my husband cheating.Its a very painful thing.Your wife is hurting trust me i know how she feels.We are tryin to work it out.You have to give her her space right now.Let her know u r sorry.And that u love her.Let her know that she is special.AND ALOT OF *** KISSING
2006-08-10 10:21:12 · answer #4 · answered by greyeyebeauty81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋