Marriage & Divorce - 10 August 2006

Ihave a question let say you know ya love this man and he ask you to marry him would u marry him he still has great feelings still loves you you still have strong feelings for him too you have a child he not seen this child it been 10 yrs still exctied about seeing his daughter you know it love

2006-08-10 13:21:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

we live in PA. just to screw with me she went after child support, even though i have primary custody(3weeks with me then 2weeks with her), and pay all health and daycare costs(in my home, by nanny)....even during her 2 weeks. she really only bears the cost of feeding them dinner during her 2weeks. will she get support....or can i? i make twice her income.

2006-08-10 13:14:40 · 7 answers · asked by beechjb 2

We have 3 kids together and he told me out of the blue he wants a separation and is moving out next week. How do I heal a broken heart? I am completely crushed by his decision and don't know what to do. Help?

2006-08-10 13:09:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

He does not have the password to get onto the internet.

He used to keep books around in various places.I found them all. He would get up in the middle of the night to move them around so I wouldn't find them. But I did.
I haven't seen any proof of existance of any porn at all in about 2 years now.

He used to be so engrossed with porn that he would be late for work, late to pick me up, late for dates, late for everything. Or he would just forget.

It wasn't just the porn that I didn't like, it was what it did to him. Now when he's home alone I can't help but wonder if he is still sneaking although I have never found anything since he trashed his stash 2 years ago.

Am I being way too paranoid?

2006-08-10 13:08:40 · 11 answers · asked by Kelly T 1

Sometime later in the marriage?

2006-08-10 13:04:39 · 17 answers · asked by Gane 2

A year ago my boyfriend(my husband now) cheated on me with my very own sister. my heart was shattered into million pieces. it was the most painful feeling i've experienced. and yet we found our way back together again. he asked for forgiveness and promise me he'll never do it again and i'm the one he really loves. i even forgave my sister for betraying me. a month after the affair we got marrried. it's almost a year now i think he's having an affair again with his ex girlfriend. i saw text messages that they're talking again i confronted him he told me it's just some stupid text and stupid conversation after we had a huge fight. he said he doesn't talk to her anymore but there's this gutt feeling he's lying. what should i do? i love him so much and i have this probelm of letting go. i don't have the courage. please give me a little inspiration.

2006-08-10 13:02:51 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Falling In Love OR Staying In Love....think about first!!!

2006-08-10 12:57:22 · 7 answers · asked by ? 3

Can someone please define what cheating truly is? With this whole computer age sex etc...cyber space online dating what the hell and of course the real deal what gives?

2006-08-10 12:48:49 · 14 answers · asked by kuutiekat 1

Ok, So my huby of 4 years and I have been heating things up in the bedroom.........welll he wants me to make him a video of me myself and I , I figure why the hell not?!? But he wont tell me exactly what he wants to see, and when I ask him if he really wants the video he gets kind of quiet and chuckles, turns red and says "Yeah, ido" so if he is being this immature about it should I tell him that when he can tell me what he wants and act grown up about it then he can have it? or should I just make it for him anyways?

2006-08-10 12:47:43 · 24 answers · asked by hewantsxxxvideo 1

I have no issues with porn. I want to get a movie that would be fun to watch together. Any suggestions?

2006-08-10 12:46:58 · 9 answers · asked by Lady in Pink 3

2006-08-10 12:44:26 · 13 answers · asked by John B 1

What was your reason for doing so? My husband and I have just got back together after being separated for 8 months. I would like to renew our wedding vows but he can't see the point of it!

2006-08-10 12:40:42 · 13 answers · asked by Sue K 1

Within 18 months my kids have seen their parents divorce, mother, date, remarry, have a baby and are getting ready to change schools for the second time. Also..miss them terribly...every other weekend and a day or two now and then does not make up for the day to day contact. How do I cope?

2006-08-10 12:32:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i say "new" becuase i never really talked to her before and now im getting hitched to her son. so i feel like theres a big distance between us.

2006-08-10 12:29:15 · 10 answers · asked by emjay 4

Especially when they are "serial cheaters", and been caught in the act multiple times.

2006-08-10 12:25:40 · 21 answers · asked by Nuni 1

When a women goes through the change of life a lot of things change,So i get another divorce

2006-08-10 12:22:14 · 6 answers · asked by toolman 2

does a piece of paper matter

2006-08-10 12:22:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

im staying here at my mommas house and i live with my fiance. this is the first time we've been apart since i moved with him. i miss him terriably.what should i do to have a good time without missing him. like what would you do?

2006-08-10 12:11:33 · 10 answers · asked by Finding happiness 2

My husband left his phone in the car last year. I looked at his text and picture messages and saw something very disturbing. I was sure that he was cheating. Yesterday, he left his phone in my car and I looked again. I am positive that he his cheating. One of the messages was from a woman that read "when can i see you again, want to taste you". There is no mistaking that right? Should I tell me that I know?? Should I just ask him straight out??

2006-08-10 12:08:06 · 48 answers · asked by tspoon 1

2006-08-10 12:06:06 · 30 answers · asked by Kenya M 1

First of all I don't really consider it cheating, a man has the right to do as he pleases. A woman should NEVER question him, it is an abomination! Secondly, most time men chose to take another lover it is something the woman has done to drive him from the bed. Why do woman not recognize this?

2006-08-10 12:03:44 · 31 answers · asked by rajjfahneen 1

2006-08-10 12:01:07 · 9 answers · asked by Lovable in nc 2

Married 2 years we have 2 childrens but have been together for 8 yrs almost 9 just recently bought a duplex not really worth more than 80k in his name only what do you do?

2006-08-10 11:58:33 · 4 answers · asked by kuutiekat 1

I think he is confused about what he wants in life, we are only 21 and have dated since we were 16 on and off. we are about to have a baby but I want to get married because I love him just not sure if he loves me!

2006-08-10 11:57:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-10 11:57:52 · 7 answers · asked by gege_auria 1

Another one need advise mostly from married or fully committed and experience ones no bias intended but this also involves two children from previous relationship. You see I have been in this relationship for 7 years. After two years I started to see bad reactions from his mum after where as if I call she would hung up on me or call at my house and harass who ever answers the phone. I could never figure out why she did it but after some thought I said maybe she feels I am taking her son away and she was jealous. I accepted it without telling him what was going on because I assumed it was a phase she was going through and it would pass. It has gotten worse and this is 5 years it has been happening. Earlier this year I got really upset and had about all I could take so I gave him back all his stuff so as to let him go back with his mother for me to have peace and save my sanity from then until now it’s uncomfortable because I feel I made a mistake we still talk and stuff but he acts different and not so loving him mum realized we still talk and she has told some of his family that I call and slam the phone in her ears all the time which is not true but actually the opposite. He now says that all I talk about is the same situation and he is tired but hurts also as I do but I am somewhat tired too he says his feelings are the same but I feel as though he thinks that he’s in a situation where he has to choose and as he said he is confused but for me I can live with his mother not harassing me but I don’t think she will accept me being involved with her son I don’t know why because I have done nothing wrong to her ever and I don’t have any thing bad in my past or in my lifetime so to speak

2006-08-10 11:42:29 · 11 answers · asked by pudding heart 1

2006-08-10 11:41:38 · 11 answers · asked by cleo_catra4 2

My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 1/2 years. We are both 27. Three years ago I moved 3 1/2 hours away from my family to be closer to him. We are buying a house together. The problem is he hasn't proposed. All of our closest friends have gotten engaged and been together a lot less longer than we have. We have a good relationship with the occasional fights like everyone else. Lately I feel like it's never going to happen! I'm waiting for it and I've become obessed with it. I feel so bitter b/c I do everything for him and I feel like I deserve the committment. He tells me he doesn't have money, but I don't believe that. Please help!

2006-08-10 11:38:55 · 15 answers · asked by Annie One 2

I am in late 20's and my wife is in mid 20's. I am really perplexed with my wife's response in copulation. She says she doesn't feel much pleasure in penile intercourse.She says she even doesnt feel anything inside but while finguring she clsoes her eyes and after 5 min.s she hold my hands and stop doing anything. When I ask her have you reached to your peak she just smiles and says I dont know??--And I feel totally confused..
We both love each other too much and have deep level of understanding in all other things.
I feel I am totally normal, last enough (say 30 mins) during copulation and even my wife says my organ looks good to her...
My question is " Is it normal with gals tht they dont pretty much feel penis inside there organ?? Do I oe she need some medical help?? and how can i judge that a gal has reached to her peak?
I request you not to make a fun of me. Its a sereous prob with me.
~I thank all in advance who can give there valuable inputs.

2006-08-10 11:37:17 · 26 answers · asked by sadityas 2

My husband went away on a 3 day business trip. He usually calls me at least 4 times a day during a cigarette break, etc. He called at noon yesterday and that was the last I heard. I called him at 10:40 p.m. and he said that he and the guys he's staying with just got back from the bar. But...he sounded funny, admitted he was drunk and there were NO voices from his co-workers...it was really quiet. He always calls me intermittently when he's gone and he seemed strangely quiet. I ended up hanging up. He was calling me first thing this morning around 5 am and has called several times since...saying "he's sorry" "please talk to me" etc. but I won't answer.

I don't trust him, for good reason, and he knows it. That's mostly why he calls so frequently...because of our trust issues. He has never "full blown" cheated on me before that I KNOW of...but he's lied about similar stuff.

He's on his way home...what do I do???????? What do I say to him?? I'm afraid he'll just lie!!!

2006-08-10 11:31:12 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous