What was your reason for doing so? My husband and I have just got back together after being separated for 8 months. I would like to renew our wedding vows but he can't see the point of it!
2006-08-10 12:40:42 · 13 answers · asked by Sue K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think renewing your vows depends on why you separated in the first place. It was important to me, but not my husband to renew ours after a separation. To me, the old vows had been "broken" and needed to be respoken and made again. It took my husband a while to really understand this and why it was important to me.... After all, your vows and your "word" are very important. We are going to do it on a cruise soon with our children there.
2006-08-10 12:50:08 · answer #1 · answered by dianne 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My friend was married for 18 years and went through a rocky patch. She then decided that they should renew their marriage vows and went back to the place where they got married and had the same best man there etc. 6 months later they separated and are now divorced. Be careful, it can be like a band aid. Just enjoy each other and be thankful that we managed to get back together and work had on your relationship without contrived things like renewing your vows. Good luck.
2006-08-10 22:07:41 · answer #2 · answered by jaygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I renewed my wedding vows after seven years cos we got married in a registry office. It made our marriage seem more special and revived the romance it was also a lovely day
2006-08-10 19:14:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the first 6 months we reached a point of total honesty during a real bad fight. It hurt like hell but it's what saved our marriage. Because of that we renew our vows every year by memory. 9 years and still boinking like bunnies.
2006-08-10 12:45:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My parents did after being separated for a year too. My dad is a very special person and felt that if it would make my mother happy to do it then it should be done. He might not see the point in it but should at least consider how you feel about it!
2006-08-10 12:44:37 · answer #5 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my husband and I are planning to do it. we havent been separated or anything like that. we just want to do it to reconfirm our vows, plus the first time was in front of a judge and we'd like to do it with a pastor and have our families there this time.
2006-08-10 15:10:24 · answer #6 · answered by nicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its a great idea....My husband and i are planning to renew ours on our 10th anniversary...I think its a great way to show that the love is still there and your really committed to each other.....Its a great idea go for it!!!!
2006-08-11 02:29:56 · answer #7 · answered by spoiledrotten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah...last December while cruising the carribean... it was our 25th Anniverary and dispite all the jokes it was great...I screwed up my lines just like in the wedding all those years ago!!
2006-08-10 13:11:16 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah we done it after ten years its now been 19 yrs HELP LOL
2006-08-10 12:58:07 · answer #9 · answered by thfcdaza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-08-10 12:44:19 · answer #10 · answered by caddy girl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋