Ok, So my huby of 4 years and I have been heating things up in the bedroom.........welll he wants me to make him a video of me myself and I , I figure why the hell not?!? But he wont tell me exactly what he wants to see, and when I ask him if he really wants the video he gets kind of quiet and chuckles, turns red and says "Yeah, ido" so if he is being this immature about it should I tell him that when he can tell me what he wants and act grown up about it then he can have it? or should I just make it for him anyways?
2006-08-10 12:47:43 · 24 answers · asked by hewantsxxxvideo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I bet the real reason is that he doesn't want to tell you is that he wants it to be a surprise. If he has to tell you, it won't be. If I were in his shoes, I'd have one or two suggestions, but I want the rest of it to be you, you, you.
2006-08-10 12:53:12 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You will get all kind of answers to this one. But consider this. Your husband has the real thing right in front of him. What would he need a video for? Be very cautious about this and get some straight answers from him.
How much do you trust him? Could he have some buddies over sometime for a great time? Are you aware there are web sites that have movies that are amateur porn? Most are advertised as wife's who love to show it off.
I don't know you or him but this sounds strange to me so check it out. There is no way your husband should get red in the face when you ask about this.
And when would he watch this? With or without you. Check it out girl. You will be glad you did.
2006-08-10 20:10:01 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious he's shy about the idea and it kinda embarrises him to talk about it.
What I can suggest is to make him a video of what YOU want to do, not what he wants. Chances are, it will be just what he wants. Later, once the ice is broken, I'm sure he'll sugget more. Right now, he's squeemish about suggesting it.
What would turn most men on:
1) undress first, slowly, hands on body parts. Usually that will turn most any guy on.
2) Be suggestive- For example: Eating a bananna can be a sexy turn on to a guy if done slowly and lots of licking.
3) Tease your husband- You don't have to show all..make him want more. He can show his appreciation later in bed.
4) enjoy yourself.
5) Have him make a video of himself for you. Fair IS fair!
2006-08-10 19:58:55 · answer #3 · answered by Voice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go for it. Make a video of you doing yourself with your fingers then bring the vibe in. do a lot of touching, not just down there but your whole body. it'll give you a chance to explore yourself and when your hubby watches you doing that, knowing your enjoying it, he will love it. Add music to the background, light some candles. If you have a big tub, you could do it in there too. Having you wet while doing that will for sure get him started.
Just go for it.
2006-08-10 19:55:22 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he can't tell you exactly what he wants, make the video a how to for mowing the lawn, or cooking dinner, or cleaning the bathroom. That'll teach him. Next time he wants something specific, he'll learn to open his mouth and say it. I'm sure he doesn't blush when it's time to have an orgasm.
2006-08-10 20:09:46 · answer #5 · answered by *~*~*~~~His Angel~~~*~*~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, Sweetie!!! Please do not do this. Don't you know what happens after you tape yourself like that? Later on down the road, your child accidentally comes across it.....you might divorce and him take the tape with him and show all of his friends out of spite...goodness, anything could go wrong!!! Just tell him that if he needs to see anything on video to rent or buy a porn video!
2006-08-10 19:53:29 · answer #6 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, he is just shy and is kinda scared of your reaction if he is serious about it. Just set up the equipment, get the sexy lingerie, drag him to the room as a surprise and get it on. It will be SO hot for you two to re-watch it later on. And don't be shy about making a solo either. That will really turn him on.
2006-08-10 19:55:13 · answer #7 · answered by Jenny C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some alone time.
Set up the video camera.
Pull out some sex toys and lay them out all within reach of yourself on the bed.
Turn on said video recorder.
Forget it's there.
Pleasure yourself.
Send me a copy. ;-)
2006-08-10 20:15:21 · answer #8 · answered by mrpeabody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful! Those things can wind up in the darndest (if that is a word) of places and seen by people who you would never expect to see tread lightly!
2006-08-10 19:52:49 · answer #9 · answered by kuutiekat 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wathc some porn with the Man, watch his reactions. maybe that will lead you to some ideas about what he wants. Hopefully there wont be any animals involved.
Maybe he wants to see you with someone else?? Hell, I'll volunteer ;)
2006-08-10 20:01:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋