my husband fnd a txt in my phne frm a frnd who ws mkng fun of the guy she was mad at it said "dnt u wish ur boyfriend was hot lke fast?, dnt cha?" so he took it as me hvng a boyfrnd whn i dont! and he wnt drop the subject he wnt listen to the truth frm me, and it hurts so bad. I hve explained myself and dnt knw wht else to do. we hve been married 2 yrs. i shldnt be dealing wth this. he has been mean to me . if i was hiding anything why would i let him c my phne? he has no evidence of me hvng a boyfriend its just plain stupid. i dont have one but he wnt listen to a word i say hes stuck on him being right and me wrong. please help me , i dnt knw wht else to do. I love him so much. it kills me inside to knw tht he doesnt believe me. the txt was a joke frm my friend nothing more.
2006-08-10 02:53:34 · 8 answers · asked by 86Angel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Men are very insecure. You just need to keep reassuring him that nothing happened. Have him call the friend and talk to her if he still refuses to believe you. Good luck hun!
2006-08-10 03:00:40 · answer #1 · answered by heatherdrake2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this: But often when one person in the relationship starts accusing the other for no real good reason, It usually means that the person doing the accusing is having an affair of sorts. Id start asking him about that and see where it gets you.
2006-08-10 10:00:10 · answer #2 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had found that over the course of my marriage, that every time I even talked to a guy at work, my husband would accuse me of cheating on him. He even sent a friend of ours over to the house to pick me up one day for something than had the nerve to accuse me of cheating with him. Well come to find out HE had been cheating on me and was feeling guilty... Check into it..
2006-08-10 10:05:09 · answer #3 · answered by Just Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the saying goes, " Who ever is the one that is accusing is normally the one who is doing the cheating", ya'll need to sit down and talk about this, even get your friend over there and explain this to him.....maybe that will help, but if he's anything like my hubby, it goes in one ear and out the other........but you can try to make him understand that is was all a joke........good luck
2006-08-10 10:02:18 · answer #4 · answered by SexeyMom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's guilty of having a girlfriend or cheating--that's why he accuses you. Just ask him if it makes his guilty conscience feel better by making you feel like dirt--see how fast he stops tossing out the accusations
2006-08-10 09:59:46 · answer #5 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i HATE TO SAY IT GIRL BUT i THINK THAT HE HAS ALREADY DONE SOMETHING WRONG. iT MIGHT HAVE BEEN AS BAD AS HAVING A G/F BEHIND YOUR BACK BUT SOMETHING ALONG THE SAME LINES. hE IS NOW ACCUSING YOU AND MAKING YOU FEEL BAD BECAUSE HE TAKES SOME OF THE GUILT OFF OF HIS SHOULDERS. IF YOU DON'T ALREADY HAVE ACCESS TO HIS E-MAIL OR CERTAIN THINGS ASK HIM OUT OF THE BLUE IF YOU COULD READ HIS THINGS AND SEE HOW QUICKLY HE CHANGES HIS TUNE.
iF YOU WANT TO PROVE HIM WRONG YOU CAN GET YOUR FRIEND TO COME OVER AND SHOW THE CONVERSATION AS A HOLE, AND THEN HE WILL HAVE NO CHOICE BUT TO PUT HIS FOOT IN HIS MOUTH AND SHUT UP.
2006-08-10 10:05:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
9 times out of 10 he's doing wrong himself. f u have given him no reason to be jealous its b/c he's guilty of something. u should be aware of him and watch out for the signs.
2006-08-10 10:02:33 · answer #7 · answered by Mike Dub 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he won't listen to you talk, write it down in a letter.
2006-08-10 10:01:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋