I'm not a romantic person and don't like kissing...?

Question

I'm much more of a straight to the point kind of girl...foreplay is great but I love penetration...what should I do? My husband LOVES kissing and it just makes me uncomfortable and turns me off...it's not just him...I've NEVER liked kissing

Answer 1

First of all you need to talk to him about it. He has to respect honesty if nothing else. Why dont the two of you talk about something to replace kissing? This really shouldnt be a big deal. Different people have different styles.

~Rickeisha

Answer 2

Well you had better learn to LOVE to kiss. Always remember that whatever it is you don't do for your man another woman is always willing to do. And that's not a bad request to want to kiss you. And try this - while he is kissing you stroke him and think about the penetration. You'd better wise up girl, don't lose your husband over something that is so trivial. I mean you love him right? Marriage is about sacrifice. Sometimes you do things just because it makes the other person happy, and making them happy makes you happy. Kiss him more often either you will learn to love it or you will get used to it and it wont bother you so much. To me kissing brings the passion. No passion means the sex cant be great.

Answer 3

Think you are a lucky girl.
Talk to your husband. Most men prefer just going in without...
I believe he might just be trying to please you by all the kisses.
If you explain things to him he should be willing to have it staight.
You need the foreplay sometimes though so dont hate it completely.

Answer 4

My wife is the same way! She has never been a huggy kissy person. I like to kiss and snuggle, so it's been a compromise for us. I would like to give you my advice, but my daughter reads my answers, and I don't want her to see it. You can email me at my screen name on yahoo. Good Luck