Jackeline G
Level 1
my husband still has an affair and he denies it but i keep finding stuff?
he is emotionally and physically abusive, and six months pregnant, and his girlfriend sandra pazos knows it, i dont know if she instigates, i dont know what to do he dont live with me any more but he still show to the house,. can any of you help me or drop her a few words her email is spazos@gentexcorp.com. the police took report but havent done anything yet. and this hoar and him are still together, but he keeps coming back, i cant control situation . i hate this woman and him it ruining my life and my little six year old is confused. i do have an attrney fr divorce but is taking too long, please drop a hoar few words.
(21 minutes ago - 20 answers )
2006-08-10 10:33:07 · 14 answers · asked by Jackeline G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Leave his ***.....I will email her...but I think we could get in trouble...
2006-08-10 10:37:07 · answer #1 · answered by ERICKSMAMA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said your husband is "emotionally and physically abusive, and six months pregnant"> I find this incredible! He is a medical miracle and definitely a keeper, if only for the money to be made from a pregnant male. Get him some gigs on the talk shows quick, you only have 3 months left to cash in.
When the hype dies down, you should dump the sleazy dude.
2006-08-10 17:41:41 · answer #2 · answered by Jeffrey S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time, when you loose you way you go back to the beginning. sit down examine your self and see where an error was made and correct it. and usually divorce is only good for the parents but not the kids.Sometimes it take a 3rd party to get this done if you are a believer I'd refer you sharinglifetogether.com with Martha H. If you do not give up at least you will not regret because it will not be you fault but please try for the sake of your kids.
2006-08-10 17:54:08 · answer #3 · answered by J-M SEBA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay i don't know how much this will help but i have this friend, her dad was cheating on her mom for 7 years before she finally said she wanted a divorce and ten she moved out of the house with her kids and stayed somewhere else (i think california) for a little less than a year and then her husband actually found her location and asked her to come and he told her he'd stop .. and i think that he did .. i think he just needed to know that she was actually serious about moving out.. anyway .. hope it helps!
2006-08-10 17:42:49 · answer #4 · answered by carla h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry jackeline, but you have to have respect for yourself and think about your little ones (children that have nobody else but you to love them.) he is a snake and so is his ho, but making trouble with her or him will only make you look abusive, and besides you need to use that energy to raise and keep your kids healthy.......
I would say you need to leave, stay with family members or friends so you are away from the bad situation.
you really deserve better in your life/ but first you need to get away from him.
there was just something in the news where i live (hawaii) that a crazy guy who was fooling around on his wife~held them at gunpoint because she threatened to leave him~~(too late)
he shot her to death....
you cant heal or live a healthy life in an abusive household~~
get out and get counseling and find somebody better
2006-08-10 17:43:08 · answer #5 · answered by darkangel1111 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I think you need to quit letting him come back you have children to think about. So if he keeps hurting you its because your letting him. and you cant stay together for the kids. If he wants to see your children then make him wait till the divorce is final and have the courts set up visitation. but make sure you get every detail in writing or he will try to screw you over later on, but you cant take it all out on the other woman i would be more pissed off at him then her. Your married to him not her and there is no tellin what he is tellin her about the 2 of you . but personally i would take all of my anger out on him
2006-08-10 17:41:59 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Seriously Toots, you have a problem if he's 6 months pregnant!...And even a bigger one if you are 6 months pregnant. Now tell me, why in the fuc king hell did you sleep with him after all he's done to you?
2006-08-10 17:49:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to auntie danys here .. u ready? here ya go the best advice u eva gonna get ..put his s.h.i.t. outside n lock his sorry butt out, leave him a postit tellin him to go stay at that ho's house u r done with it u deserve betta than that dont know why u dient put his sorry behind out the first time they will always cheat once u let them stay
2006-08-10 17:37:43 · answer #8 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not question your husband! The man is free to do as he pleases. If he is having relations with another woman you should ask yourself what YOU did to displease him. Correct your actions and then MAYBE he hill abandon this other woman.
2006-08-10 17:38:11 · answer #9 · answered by rajjfahneen 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
WOW! First off, he only comes back if you allow him to do so. He can't love you if he beats and cheats. Please protect your children and just get the hell away. Good Luck and God Bless.
2006-08-10 17:38:32 · answer #10 · answered by vernise2679 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I don't know but good luck ..I havent had a situation like that before
2006-08-10 17:39:01 · answer #11 · answered by HaHa Thats Funny!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋