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2006-08-10 08:11:26 · 22 answers · asked by Mz.SouljaGurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't think that with a one line question anyone out here can give you any kind of good advice. Why are thinking of divorce? What has he or you done that you feel would be enough to divorce over?
2006-08-10 08:17:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Under what circumstances would you decide that is your only choice.
Personally I think divorce is so over rated now. What ever happen to the vows, through sickness and through health till death do us part. You see people going through marriages like they go through socks these days... What are we doing so differently these days then what our grandparents did. You see older couples married for 50 years and still counting. Now these days if you see a couple married 7 years people wonder how they are doing it.
Personally I have never been married, but I still stand strong to those vows. I pray that it will never come to a divorce for me and whom ever I marry. I can tell you though that I will do what ever is in my power to save my marriage if it comes to such a thing.
I live with my boyfriend, have been for over a year. I have learned a lot about the things he does that I don't like and things that I do like, same for him too. I believe in living with someone for over a year before you decide you want to get married. That way you get to know each other in a different way. I think if you can live with a man/women for over three years and still find yourself falling in love even more every day then you will beable to stay married for a long time.
People need to start getting to know the person they want to marry sometime in the future in more personal ways, such as living with them for over a year before they rush into marriage. Maybe that will lower the divorce rates by half.
2006-08-10 15:47:35 · answer #2 · answered by tiffanyncalifornia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the circumstances. I always believed the only reason you should divoce is if your spose has been unfaithful to you or abusive. Other than that I think that divorce should be left out.
2006-08-10 15:53:18 · answer #3 · answered by jinxy84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long did you say your wedding vowes were good for? Doesn't it say something about UNTIL DEATH DO US PART! If taking a vow means that little to you- end it and move on. But consider how many lives that you will be affecting by this decision. I hope you at least have a reason for leaving: adultry, abuse, something other than "i feel out of love".
2006-08-10 15:20:50 · answer #4 · answered by Lady in Pink 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only you can answer that question. Take lots of time to make a decision as ther eis no going back. Best of luck.
2006-08-10 15:16:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
be very sure, divorce costs alot of money and try to go through marriage counseler to see if it would work out
2006-08-10 15:18:50 · answer #6 · answered by Newlywed 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to get ur answers from within yourself and not a bunch of people..who could careless if your happy or not!
Due to some will give you some bad advice.....trust your instinicts and not our answers!
2006-08-10 15:15:58 · answer #7 · answered by Sugar_Plumzz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only if you have explored every option to try and save the marriage.
2006-08-10 15:15:32 · answer #8 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what your heart tells you to do, but do know that you made a vow before God and you know what you said, but hey to each its own
2006-08-10 15:17:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think it will better your life in the future.
2006-08-10 15:37:15 · answer #10 · answered by Rebecca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋