i don't want to believe that marraige is a trick women created to get half a man's stuff when the relationship is over and all the the man stuff while the relationship is going on so they can sit on their a##es and do nothing but feel in control and secure in their lives while the man is bustin' his hump. can you change my mind?
2006-08-10 09:14:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm sorry you feel this way. I'm a housewife and my husband and I have been married for13 yrs and alll good at that. So please don't think al women do is go after you, I my case I cherish my man. He is the king of our apt, Ha. you get the picture. Not all women are out to get a man for material things. There are still a few good ones. It would be shame if you lived your life afraid to build memories with that special lady and have precious children with. Then grow old together and laugh about the younger stuff you did together. this is what life is all about as far as I see it. I truly don't think you believe marriage is a trick. please reconsider why you feel as you do? Chances are you got hurt and it can be painful. that's why you have to be so sure who you marry. It isn't all that bad. well I've said enough, the rest is up to you. life is to short to be unhappy and alone. good luck to you. I hope I hepled you out!!
2006-08-10 09:53:09 · answer #1 · answered by RAINBOW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am amazed that you found a woman who thinks she can sit around and do nothing. All the married women I know have a paying job, do most of the child care, house work, and cleaning, and get very little thanks for it. I think men are far more spoiled and lazy as spouses than women, in fact. Not every one of them, but in the majority of cases.
If you have such lousy luck with women that the only ones you attract are lazy and want to rip you off, I'd urge you to remain single. I have to wonder what it is that you are putting out there that is so repellant to good women, though. I think bright women are picking up on the fact that you really don't like women at all. You might want to consider some professional counselling to help you figure out what your real issues are. Maybe you'd do bettter dating men?
2006-08-10 09:40:02 · answer #2 · answered by homebuyer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing you've never walked a day in the life of a woman. Let me tell you that the work at home is just as hard as the work that you do at your job. The difference.We don't even get paid!!! Now thats annoying as hell. Sometimes there are things that are being done in the house that men don't even notice they just think it stays like that.......like dusting or somethin. Things get dusty but if a man doesn't see it then a man doesn't consider that its been cleaned. I hope you learn to have more respect for women. Because one day when your like 85 years old a woman will be takin care of your old ***!
2006-08-10 09:20:39 · answer #3 · answered by Nikki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody can change your mind, and nobody should try. With your attitude, there is no hope for any reasonable relationship. So, just keep that chip on your shoulder. That way, you needn't worry about giving women anything, or having some woman get anything of yours. You can keep everything. And die a single, wealthy, lonely old man. Does that sound like the life you want?
2006-08-10 11:00:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like most moms I start working the minute I get out of bed at 6:30. I don't stop until I go to bed at 11:00. My husband who works all day comes home and rests from dinner time to bed time. Are you married? If so how much housework do you do? What about dinner? Who cleans up after dinner? Are there kids? Who takes care of them? Every man reading this should give their wife/live-in girlfriend a big hug and a thank you for all the work they do. Then call up your mom and thank her for all the work she did for you..
2006-08-10 09:45:24 · answer #5 · answered by cranky_gut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound a bit bitter.......I don't think women think that way at all at least the minority of us. Some where down the happy trail of marriage things became like a war, and get even perhaps in her mind. But no it's not a trick, unless you are 90yrs old with millions of dollars and your wife is a 20 year old stripper then I would say she married you to get you for all you were worth.
2006-08-10 09:22:07 · answer #6 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both need to start acting like you did when you were chasing each other. The honeymoon is over but not the marraige. Remember what it was you did to get this person to care for you. (works both ways). Then you have a chance to save and make this work, instead of being another statistic.
2006-08-10 09:21:26 · answer #7 · answered by lilmykey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT who the hell taught you that first we work ok we have to cook take care of the children and cleann up while yall just come from work eat take a shower and go to sleep well the thing is we do more than you think just givei t a shot and you will like ti thats how i was too with men but i was wrong
2006-08-10 09:19:56 · answer #8 · answered by crazy4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, not all women are like that, and in some cases, it's men who are the ones who sit around all day doing nothing. In my case, both my parents work themselves off, and they help each other out. All you need to do is find a woman who knows how to earn her own living and isn't a greedy you-know-what.
2006-08-10 09:26:00 · answer #9 · answered by Smiley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It s not just us women. There's alot of us women that are going through the same thing right now. Be careful on who you blame.
2006-08-10 09:23:44 · answer #10 · answered by furbee_4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋