2006-08-10 09:09:55 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wow. What constitutes more? Are you doing it daily? Twice daily? Three times?
Keep trying new things. Role playing. Hot outfits. Whatever it takes.
2006-08-10 09:12:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, seeing that the details are not described well in your question I'll answer several ways...... Age? a lot to do with mens sex drive. And how often are you doing it now? With todays schedules of people and there jobs, social life with friends and family or church if you are getting it once a week then your doing good. Is he a smoker? ALOT to do with sex drive. Smokers have less energy and sex drive. AND, dont be the one to always expect him to start something. Anyway just a few ideas on your question to think about.
2006-08-10 16:23:27 · answer #2 · answered by bugjuice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST YOU DO NOT SAY HOW OLD YOU ARE!!
DID YOU HAVE SEX BEFORE YOU WERE MARRIED AND HOW OFTEN AND WERE YOU DID IT
HOW DID YOU DRESS
HOW DID YOU SMELL
ALL these things are why we want to jump someones bone's
life's a rut if ya make it so !!!
remember why you dated in the first place...... i bet sex was good then
if all else fails get a female friend over pretend you just had sex with her if that dont work may be go with second answer in your post lol ...........good luck
2006-08-10 16:24:59 · answer #3 · answered by steelingpaul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Six months and you have problems already?? Did you think about this at all before you got married? Whats his problem? Has he always had a low sex drive? What was it like before you got married, has it changed since then or did you think marriage would 'fix' it? You need to talk to him and find out whats going on, without more info nobody can help you here.
2006-08-10 16:13:25 · answer #4 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sure you want to know? You might regret it. Stop reading now if the thought scares you.
Inside every guy is a deep seated fantasy that most are terrified to tell anyone, even their wife. Took me 7 years to confide in my wife. Funny thing is most of these fantasies are pretty tame...but not to the guy.
Careful with the dressing up thing or being too aggressive. Neither work for me. What you think is sexy & what he thinks is sexy are 2 different things.
He would love for you to be part of his fantasies, but he doesn't trust you yet. If you can coax it out of him...and indulge him, you won't be able to keep him off you.
I gave you fair warning.
2006-08-10 16:17:19 · answer #5 · answered by hellsbells 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You give no details. Are you having sex once a day or once a week? Were you having sex before marriage? Was his appetite greater then? Is he working alot? Under stress? What are your ages, 20-something or 50-something?
While I would think that you would be quite sexually active without knowing anymore I just can't say.
Why don't you ask him?
2006-08-10 16:22:59 · answer #6 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have only been married 6 mo and are already having these problems i think it would be in your best interest to work together to figure out what underling problem is causing the trouble remember the strongest trait to have in any relationship is communication because if you cant communicate it cant work
2006-08-10 17:44:59 · answer #7 · answered by lonly_male4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish you could transfer your libido to my wife.
attacking him at the door my give him a hint. dropping to your knees as he closes the door and unzippping his pants might just get his attention..
If he's not gay and your not a pig nature should take it's course. Do this as often as you want to. Is he on the computer a lot? could he be masturbating to internet porn? If so, his libido will likely be diminished... broach questions like "saying a friend found out her husband was doing internet porn have you done that? "
Talk about the fantasies you have, doing him here or there. and try them.
2006-08-10 16:19:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is one of the worse problems imaginable.
People only do what they are predisposed or compeled to do.
Personally, what's the point of sex if you have to compel the person to want to have it with you? And if they aren't predisposed to wanting sex with you, then all you can do is go without. What's the point in having a spouse if they are going to be your sex partner?
What does he say when you express an interest in sex?
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2006-08-10 16:19:34 · answer #9 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun dont worry and dont push, he is probably working hard to help support the bills and work could be stressing him out.When he comes home just sit behind him ,massage the shoulders ,give him little kisses on the neck and cheek and tell him how much you love him , some times men need to hear it as much as us women and need to know that you dont need to have sex this momment and you still support him.One day he will come home and sweep you off your feet again only cause you were there for him and didnt push.
2006-08-10 16:16:07 · answer #10 · answered by sht4brains4 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋