Marriage & Divorce - 30 July 2006

well you guys told me to run ,and didnt.if youve read my early posts you would know what im talkin about.after a year apart my wife for the lasts 2 months tryed to work things out with me.i got hard feelings for her again..then a few weeks ago she tells me were movin too fast and wants time for her self.basiclly ending things.it hurt again and i was sure it was because she went back to the other man she was with for the last 8 months.well tuesday i went over to her moms house where she was staying,knocked on the door and found her and some other guy i dont even know hurrying to get there close on...wtf!!!!! she opened the door and i went after this guy.she screams out its my new man !!!!!well she got me out the door and 2 hours later the cops were at my house.got arrested for tresspassing and hararessment.i feel my whole life is in shambles and not sure what way too turn.theres a order of protection now but i still cant believe she had me arrested eather..any advice would be helpful

2006-07-30 10:48:45 · 16 answers · asked by stabone315 2

We have been dating 3 months he does the following:

Starts arguments over stupid things
Throws a wobbly over silly things for example he thinks I always flirting the last tantrams was because I went to the man at the waitrose checkout and not the woman, so therefore I must be looking for a man to flirt with.

Does this get any better? He wants to marry and have kid and so do I, but not to a nut case, Can I help him, did anyone have a boyfriend that changed to act more normal?

2006-07-30 10:48:04 · 20 answers · asked by oceanwaves 2

I was in love with a man when we were eighteen years old. We got engaged but clearly, I was not ready. I suggested we date other people for a while to see if we both still felt the same about each other after a few months. He was dead set against the idea but I forced him into it. A few months later he got another girl pregnant. He gave me an ultimatum - either I marry him immediately, or he would marry this girl he impregnated. After thinking it over, I declined figuring that was no way to begin a marraige. It is now almost 30 years later and I regret that decision every day, as I was never able to fall in love with another man. This has depressed me my whole life, and I feel like I'm not living amongst other happy people. Did I make the right choice. or have I really wasted my life?

2006-07-30 10:46:23 · 10 answers · asked by mirish55 1

we are on the verge of separation but i dont know when to call it.

2006-07-30 10:42:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I can't divorce my husband because
a. I live in Malta and we have no divorce, but we can seperate.
b. I don't work so I depend totally on my husband financially.
c. My parents are both dead.

2006-07-30 10:33:41 · 28 answers · asked by jondavesnowy 2

I've hurt my best friend, my husband, and I'm so sorry, the look on his face is cutting through my soul like a knife, I never meant to hurt him and when I say that I know what I did was a choice and I made it but still hate what I've done. I don't deserve him, we've been through alot but he didnt deserve this. I dont know what to do...It's like something in me associates love with pain and I don't know how to seperate the two

2006-07-30 10:32:30 · 12 answers · asked by Completly in love... 2

why is it fathers of just daughters turn into softies?

2006-07-30 10:19:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've known him for 25 years and he is like my best friend, he is always there for me in emergencies, and I now live with him with my kids (by him) because of circumstances of hardship. Here's the problem, I have a boyfriend of 4 years. Him and my x are also friends and my x helps him in situations as well, but my current boyfriend has a problem with the situation whenever he is not around. I don't think there is anything wrong with my friendship to my x and I admire him for the way he treats me and my boyfriend. I think its a good thing to be friends with the father of your children and I think its healthy for them to be around. How could it be anything but good for them to witness. Another thing is other people always think it's "wierd" or they like to think dirty in the situation. I've been judged like that, although it doesnt really matter what others think, I'd like to hear a few opinions from outsiders .I was married for 9 years and my x is 15 years older.(if that helps) Well??...

2006-07-30 10:19:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

he lied to me about some things and not telling me alot about his ex girlfriend that he recently spoke to...first he lied she called him first when was other way around,and still sticks to his lie even dough i checked his phone and know the truth.and gave me no explanation on his shirt having girls parfume all over it...and everything happed while i was away for a week with our baby...i want to trust him but i have a hard time...i know he loves me and i should leave past in the past but how can i trust him in the future...also he gets mad if i touch his phone and tells me that is intruding of the privacy....we haddn't had sex for 3 weeks now and my gut tells me something is wrong but he doesn't want to talk to me...his excuse was he can't get it up wich never happened before....am i closing my eyes on something or...thanks

2006-07-30 10:16:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-30 10:09:50 · 13 answers · asked by Bob D 3

2006-07-30 10:00:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-30 09:55:00 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

been for a few drinks with special guy, he knows im holding back big time. im married but havent discussed it with him tho i think he knows. I thought we could just be friends but im getting feelings. Shoud i tell him or should i just stop seeing him?

2006-07-30 09:53:55 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

My son is four years old, and is disibled, now that his father and I are devoresed, and his dad has a new woman. he wont come see is son, are he say's he will and will not show up, what should I do, I cant see my son's heart broken any more. my son is very angery and they are thinking about putting him in the hospiteal. becasue of it,..

2006-07-30 09:47:59 · 8 answers · asked by cathryncsck 2

My friend's loser fiance broke up with her because he found out she wasn't a virgin. He never asked her if she was or wasn't he just automatically assumed that she was because they weren't sleeping together. They are both really young, 20 & 21, but he has had sex before. He told her that he didn't want to marry a woman who had been with another man. I think he's a total hypocrite. Guys what do you think? Do you agree with him (about not wanting to marry a girl who has slept with another guy(s)? Girls where do you stand on this issue? I don't know what to tell her, other than the obvious (he's a bastard), because she really feels horrible, like she did something wrong, eventhough she didn't deliberately keep it from him, the subject just never came up.

2006-07-30 09:46:15 · 8 answers · asked by Jade M 1

Im getting married and im 19. Im still going 2 collage even if i get married! But i dont know if i should get married..I love the man more than anything and he loves me but we cant deside if we should just wait or get married now...we have known each other for 5 years..(he was my bf in high skool)....i have a good job...i work at abercombie and im a designer...hes in law skool b/c hes going 2 be a lawyer! Should we get married?

2006-07-30 09:40:43 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

you do. i feel myself sinking badly into depression, progressively worse and i can't pinpoint anything but that as the culprit. i sort of feel like why bother trying in life because nothing can ever be good enough and whats the point of striving for a good life when it will always be brought down by this. is this a normal feeling? is this something that a lot of men deal with?

2006-07-30 09:36:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-30 09:26:51 · 31 answers · asked by John K 1

2006-07-30 09:20:55 · 15 answers · asked by indraraj22 4

What I am saying is, that imigrants want to become citizens of the U.S. to be with family or to get a better job, and by getting married to an american citizen it is a little easier. So if they did so after the alotted time, then they can get divorced. So do you believe that is why the divorce rate has increased?

2006-07-30 09:14:13 · 8 answers · asked by Skatie Jane 1

i met my boyfriend 5 months after he seperated from his wife, yet she treats me like i stole him from her, refers to me as the slut, but the worst is that she calls my baby son it or the thing. how can i get her to stop calling him names, without putting my boyfriend in a predicament? if he says anything to her , she withdraws him access to his kids. she will not speak to me directly and i should just let it go, but feel the need to defend my son. any ideas?

2006-07-30 09:01:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-30 08:55:03 · 26 answers · asked by pink2litle 2

I have a very very high sex drive and my husband doesn't .We have had several talks about it but he is still set in his ways. I'm 21 and he is 23 we are too young for this problem right?

2006-07-30 08:54:16 · 7 answers · asked by shay 1

My Husband use to be the kindest person I have ever met until recently...he is not cheating on me I know that for a fact1 The problem ishe thinks he is right ALL the time accuses me of not telling him things,when I do ! He tunes me out..says I talk to much ...I like to talk ...he is 9 yrs younger than me and there are things I do know and he does;nt....he treats me like a kud..I stay in my rm watch my own tv because he will not share in the living room...I really think yhat he hates me at times but other times he is his self..should I leave him ? I am Lonely ,Bored and at my wits end..we have no kids together ..I have 2 17 and 18 that do not live with us...so thats not the issue!

2006-07-30 08:44:55 · 13 answers · asked by zellawilks 1

2006-07-30 08:39:47 · 2 answers · asked by Sprout 1

2006-07-30 08:38:23 · 14 answers · asked by shay 1

2006-07-30 08:38:10 · 14 answers · asked by denisevans2003 1

and u really should not be.

2006-07-30 08:33:55 · 28 answers · asked by Lady D. J. 2

2006-07-30 08:33:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

he cut himself and said i did it and now i am terrified to call law enforcemnet

2006-07-30 08:31:44 · 15 answers · asked by denisevans2003 1