well you guys told me to run ,and didnt.if youve read my early posts you would know what im talkin about.after a year apart my wife for the lasts 2 months tryed to work things out with me.i got hard feelings for her again..then a few weeks ago she tells me were movin too fast and wants time for her self.basiclly ending things.it hurt again and i was sure it was because she went back to the other man she was with for the last 8 months.well tuesday i went over to her moms house where she was staying,knocked on the door and found her and some other guy i dont even know hurrying to get there close on...wtf!!!!! she opened the door and i went after this guy.she screams out its my new man !!!!!well she got me out the door and 2 hours later the cops were at my house.got arrested for tresspassing and hararessment.i feel my whole life is in shambles and not sure what way too turn.theres a order of protection now but i still cant believe she had me arrested eather..any advice would be helpful
2006-07-30 10:48:45 · 16 answers · asked by stabone315 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Only advise to you now is stay away from her or you will be in more trouble with the law. Is it or will it be worth being locked up for? Now you have to make the wise choice to leave her alone and move ahead with your life.
2006-07-30 10:56:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just be thankfulthey didnt charge you with assault and battery or even something more serious. Your charges are minor misdameanors so you will probably get probation, restitution for any damage done and court costs. A slapon the hand considering what you could have got. Hopefully, now you see where you stand with her exactly. Sorry, but its over and time for you to move on. Youre not the first nor the last this has happened to, but at least you can chalk this up to experience and live to tell about it. Now, I hope you invested into a really good pair of running shoes, so after your court date,put them on and get going. Remember this, now that she has a restraining order against you, and with these pending charges, you get anywhere near her and I promise you, you will do some jail time and its no longer worth it as you will gain absolutely nothing from it. Good Luck
2006-07-30 18:00:17 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If we give you advice will you listen and try it? You ignored everyone before.
You should be able to see by now that you will not get back together with her. Why would you even want to? You don't know where she has been, who she has been with, or what diseases she may have!
Would you please listen and go to a lawyer? Cut the ties now so you can get going on a new life! Lots of people make mistakes in love and regret that, but you seem to want to keep making the same mistake.
Go to counseling. It is not just a good idea, you may be required to because of the protective order. Counseling helps you to understand why you are having trouble letting go, and what to do later.
2006-07-30 17:59:34 · answer #3 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes..even if it hurts, you need to let go..but the first thing you need to do is "love yourself"......Nobody deserves less than they're worth...so, by looking for people that are not worth it...you become a non worth it person as well.........Keep going and clean up yourself from that experience, start over and forget all about it........sorry you have to go thru so much to learn....life's no marry go round......good luck
2006-07-30 17:58:44 · answer #4 · answered by maru_artmarina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel you little bit I almost got arrested for beating up my b/f *** for lieing on my 5 year old son saying that he gave him a hickey on his neck. Boy i tell u I whoop that mothua f**cka *** for almost 2 hours good thing i left when i did, because his sister had called the police on me.
2006-07-30 19:52:46 · answer #5 · answered by 2Hott2Touch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you didn't listen on the other advice, why should we waste our time now trying to give you any more? You should have picked up enough from that incident to go on with your life, and he could have filed, NOT her. You did jump for him, right?
2006-07-30 18:07:55 · answer #6 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude. Ain't no chic in the world worth going to jail for.
Sometimes you just have to let go.
2006-07-30 17:51:49 · answer #7 · answered by Gypsy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude you're a MORON...the fat lady has song on your parade and when that happens...IT"S OVER !!!
You broke the law...you invaded another persons house and privacy....You really are a dumb a$$!!
2006-07-30 17:53:06 · answer #8 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't put your hand on the hot stove twice little Buddie... stop getting burned in life and get it right the first time.. or don't and keep going to jail... you "choose"
2006-07-30 17:57:45 · answer #9 · answered by weldersteve29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y should we give u advice for AGAIN? u aint listen then and aint gonna listen now. u stuck chuck deal wit it.
tftp
2006-07-30 17:58:09 · answer #10 · answered by tapthisphatazz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋