Marriage & Divorce - 30 July 2006

We are just starting to plan our wedding in Mexico. I would like it to be at the Riviera Maya (Cancun, Playa del Carmen, Cozumel, etc) as it is convenient and cheap to fly there from Europe. Do you know any good hotels/venues to organize it in? Other ideas are very welcome. Cheers.

2006-07-30 13:03:10 · 5 answers · asked by BlackCat 2

My wife of only 1 month has lived with us 1 week after we have been married. She says that Im mean for not wanting her here. I only want my wife, to enjoy her. What should I do? I don't feel respected or acknowledged when it comes to the way I feel.

2006-07-30 12:58:47 · 14 answers · asked by touchemupent 1

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2006-07-30 12:52:30 · 10 answers · asked by NOIR 2

My husband keeps telling me he is not happy with me because he is not getting enough sex. I am very depressed. My anorexia/bulimia have returned and I feel tired all the time. My baby will be 11 months old in a week and I feel guilty because we lost our health insurance March 31st and he needs to get more shots. I did apply for New Jersey Family HealthCare and I keep calling and sending papers. Social worker says it should come through soon for just the baby, not for us. My mom had a stroke and my dad has altzheimers and I have to keep going there to help. Brothers say they will help but don't. Husband has no work with his union and is doing side-jobs. We are behind on our rent and landlord sold house and new owner raising it a few hundred dollars. Phone may go off soon which would end the computer. My older son is drinking and nasty to me. Husband wants more romance and for me to initiate but I am not feeling it. Why can't he see that I am dying on the inside?

2006-07-30 12:43:37 · 10 answers · asked by New York Mama 3

married 4 17yrs have had bf for last 3yrs hubby good provider but we have nothin in common married in name only bf is younger luv him with my heart but my mind says security bf tired of waiting for me but being that hes young doesnt quite have the financial stability as hubby but he is a hard worker makes me feel special and many qualities ive never seen b4 in men what should i do? bf 25 im 37 ...am scared of the unknown i guess

2006-07-30 12:28:12 · 14 answers · asked by betty c 1

Cheated, Lied, tried to lower my self esteem, neglecting his responsiblity to our kids!......... Im sick of always being nice, I took him back after he cheated and now he leaves me alone w/ 2 kids and no money, while he spends it on himself!!----I am angry. should i go that route?

2006-07-30 12:27:55 · 42 answers · asked by this is me... 2

Feelings

I only want to love you
And give you all of my Heart
I know you’re out there somewhere
But don't know why were Apart
I'll give you my Life
All that l have to give
I wish l knew the answer-
On where it is you live
I wish you knew the Feelings
My heart has just for You
It hurts to know you’re out there
And there’s nothing l can Do
I see us in my Dreams
But you never have a Face
So how am l to find you?
When l search from place to Place
I wonder if you’re hurting
And if you feel the Pain
From the love you've never gotten
By the person that still remains
My dreams of you are real
And times when l awake in Tears
Because the dreams l have of you
Bring you nothing-but love and Cheer
But the one that l dream the most
Is when l think of us and Cry
For all the love that l have for you
Will go with me,( Alone) the day that l DIE


By Cobra

2006-07-30 12:15:52 · 34 answers · asked by Cobra 5

2006-07-30 12:15:32 · 14 answers · asked by JB2000 1

In other words- disappears for two to three months and comes back to you unexpectedly? Can it be that he has found someone else in between when not seeing me?

2006-07-30 12:13:59 · 54 answers · asked by msraylanda 1

For 2 years I worked 1 full time job and 1 part time job to put my husband through college, so our daughter would have a better life. Now my husband is doing really well for himself, and just to keep my sanity I work 3 12 hour shifts a week at night. Since I have taken this job, my husband seems sooo different. Although, I have offered to quit my job. We have been married 4 years and together for 5. From watching my parents' relationship (there never was much love there to begin with but they have been marreid for 25 years) I never wanted my marriage to be like that, but slowly it is becoming that way. My husband is hurt and giving us a "trial period" until he packs his bags and leaves. He says things need to get better and I dont show him that I love him (which i admit i go through my routine and somtimes i forget to stop and take time for him). I hate that i hurt him and I love him more than anything, but he says words mean nothing. What should I do to keep from losing him?

2006-07-30 12:11:27 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband cheated on me and i took him back everything is wounderful now but i just cant stop think about what he did to me how wrong it was and sometimes i fill like doing it back to him and i know thats wrong how can i more on and forget about it it been 6months already

2006-07-30 12:03:49 · 16 answers · asked by queenbee 1

i gave my wife everything she asked for even though i had a mistress really i was taken money from her to give to my wife even though she's still with this man i still give her money because i love her so much. Is it wrong to free load off my mistress and give my wife all my money ands most of hers?

2006-07-30 12:01:26 · 11 answers · asked by Sir Gentleman 1

2006-07-30 12:00:50 · 18 answers · asked by Timothy G 1

It seems like I am the one that is always initiating sex, and when I do-he often doesn't want to. I have left it up to him to initiate it but I have had to wait up to four days! He has always been that way, even when we were dating, we have been married for two years. Could this be because I am overweight? He is also overweight.

2006-07-30 11:47:57 · 20 answers · asked by Mandie S. 1

I am 23 and my husband Is 21. We've known each other a long time but married for 1yr. I want to go out and do things and i feel like my husband would rather play video games or the only way we can go out is if we hang with a friend. We can never agree to do anything together and when we hang out together its the same places. For example I would like to go to salisbury beach to see my family he doesnt want to go because my younger siblings will bother him and i know its annoying but I live with his family and thats annoying I feel like we can do anything together. Sometimes i feel like giving up.

2006-07-30 11:42:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you were messing with a married women and for some reason now you feel like crap and know its wrong and you want out. How would you tell her or should you just leave her alone.

2006-07-30 11:38:55 · 38 answers · asked by Jack J 1

My wife told me she did not talk to this guy on the phone. The phone bill came and it shows that she has. I wondered this cause he texted her phone to. I got her password and found out that she has e mailed him and told him alot of things I dont like. He is married and is in the army and so are we. She told him that she wanted to do things to him. Thats what I got from the e mail. I talked to her and she said she is in iraq and she was just talking to him flirting and she loves me and wants to be with me. She said she is human and she was just flirting cause she was in iraq but some of her emails where before iraq. I love her to death and I am crazy about her. What should i do?

2006-07-30 11:34:13 · 11 answers · asked by kinghillery 1

My wife told me she did not talk to this guy on the phone. The phone bill came and it shows that she has. I wondered this cause he texted her phone to. I got her password and found out that she has e mailed him and told him alot of things I dont like. He is married and is in the army and so are we. She told him that she wanted to do things to him. Thats what I got from the e mail. I talked to her and she said she is in iraq and she was just talking to him flirting and she loves me and wants to be with me. She said she is human and she was just flirting cause she was in iraq but some of her emails where before iraq. I love her to death and I am crazy about her. What should i do?

2006-07-30 11:33:45 · 37 answers · asked by kinghillery 1

I have been having an affair with one of my employees for a year & we both planned to leave without spouses knowing but my wife found out and is very sad cause I've decided to move on after 16 yrs. Wife says it is humiliating and hurtful for me to hook up before final decree is it wrong or just my wife harrassing me?

2006-07-30 11:33:12 · 15 answers · asked by John D 1

ive been engaged for a month. But am already starting to doubt it. Should i call it off?

2006-07-30 11:25:24 · 5 answers · asked by KLL 2

Mine are Boo Boo & My Love.

2006-07-30 11:24:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

She doesn't feel "comfortable" about us kissing. She has said that she's self consciece about her breath since she smokes.

I think that since I'm unhappy it makes me "lazy" cause I have no "fuel" to keep me motivated to do things that may make her happy and also have nothing to look forward to (such as an intimate and passionate night). I think that she resents me for not being the "husband" she expects me to be but yet she's no where close to being the ideal wife for me either. I just think she doesn't like/love me enough to give me what I need to make me happy.

She's often bitter but a woman obviously has a need to be satisfied sexually from time to time so sex (as seldom as it may be) is not a problem but she will not share a nice intimate kiss with me.

If someone had told me that I would marry someone that I could not kiss on a regular basis I would say they were crazy but this is exactly what's happened.

We've been married for 5 yrs and have a 3 & 5 y.o. at home.

2006-07-30 11:16:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got together with my bf about 3 years ago while he was dating someone else. They broke up and we began dating LD, he was in NJ and I in MD. Almost a year into dating officially he asked me to move in to his new house and I did. Things have been hard for me trying to find a steady job w/o a degree in a wealthy area of Ivy grads therefore paying my "rent" and half of the bills has been sporadic. For a while I was fine, then took about 5 months to get stable, then got downsized. That was 6 months ago and I just finally found a longterm job with a 3 yr contract. Also, I finally was awarded financial aid so I can complete my degree. I got a signing bonus and a very hefty salary making my money issues obsolete. I found all of this out on the day my boyfriend decided that hes tired of all the fighting about this and he cant be with me anymore. I dont move until Sep 1 and want to do what I can to turn things around before then. Not a miracle, just enough to give him a reason to try

2006-07-30 11:15:44 · 12 answers · asked by fyrecrackercass 2

2006-07-30 11:07:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-30 11:05:41 · 23 answers · asked by project08 1

my x and i r seperated but we want 2 remain friends for the kids ireally don,t think it,s possible evertime i,m near him he acts like nothing has changed

2006-07-30 11:03:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

when i left my Xboy f he started to stock me everywhere and call me none stop craying , started to act crazy coz he was so in love with me , i never went bk to him so he started to threatning me and wanted to kill me anyways , its been 2 years i know he is still in love with me ,, , i hated him so much b4 , but now im starting to miss him so much , im thinking to go back to him and agree to marry him coz he asked me billions time , but im not sure .what to do ?

2006-07-30 11:02:37 · 5 answers · asked by STRANGE_CHIC 1

2006-07-30 10:54:45 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Tell me about your memories of you true love.

2006-07-30 10:51:58 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

in germany they pay no taxes and an american law can not be inforced in germany.therefore he does not pay. he works on a military base as a civilian. does anyone have any ideas?

2006-07-30 10:51:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous