Marriage & Divorce - 30 July 2006

i've been married for 6yrs now, and three weeks back i started communicating with him, so now im dreaming of him!! but i like my husband WHY THIS DREAM????

2006-07-30 05:56:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife left me 3 years ago when I was over seas serving my country. I’m still having a hard time moving on. Her thoughts and memories never leave my mind, I think of her all the times. I still love her very much, and dream of her often. Some days I get up in the morning and don’t know how I can make through another day without her being here.

2006-07-30 05:56:12 · 12 answers · asked by Ray 1

My fiance was divorced in 2002. Directly after the divorce was final, her ex-husband and her agreed that they would split the money left over from the sale of their house and pay off the joint debt, which was credit cards. The remaining money was to be used by each of them to pay off their individual credit cards. My finace did hers but now she is getting calls from a creditor telling her that her ex-husband never never paid his off.

Because we live in California, the ceditors are trying to muscle my fiance into paying for the debts he didnt pay.

In fact, HE gave the creditor her contact information and told them to call her so they could get paid.

Does anyone have any advice?? Thanks in advance.

2006-07-30 05:55:57 · 25 answers · asked by Denver R 1

My wife has decided to seperate from me, taking my 2 year son with her. I relize now that she is leaving what the problems are between. Should I let her go and work on the issues we have while seperated or should I fight to keep her here with me? I am stationed in Germany in the military and she is going back to the United States.

2006-07-30 05:52:57 · 36 answers · asked by Ron f 1

I have decided to now tie the knot, i am latino, and my partner is Italian, i also have a friend who is black and she is married to a white guy, people seem to have a problem with this...i mean what buisness is it of theres whether to judge or not, love is colour blind...do any of you out there believe this?

2006-07-30 05:40:50 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

To me, a married one who cheats seeks for something better than what he/she already have. It cant be for something worse, logically.When told to go to the other better side, yet he refused. Why?

2006-07-30 05:35:49 · 33 answers · asked by DiL 3

What do you do as a mother? Do you consider it a job? What would you expect for pay if you could get compensated?
and the top 5 things you do as a mother.

2006-07-30 05:34:18 · 8 answers · asked by rdhedhottie 5

I am crazy about him and can't imagine us not together, I've toyed with the idea of broaching the subject of marriage, but am afraid that it might change us, and not in a good way. We get on so well and are compatible in so many ways and I don't want to jeopardise that. What shouild I do?

2006-07-30 05:26:37 · 4 answers · asked by liltinyone:-) 1

i love him and hes a good guy hes not a violent sort of person should we try to fix this or move on please help me

2006-07-30 05:21:04 · 17 answers · asked by starrlphippslphipps2 1

Okay I know what it's supposed to be but what exactly is a first love? I've had boyfriends before but never loved them. I thought I did but I now know I DID NOT. I'm married now and love my husband very much so would he then be my first love? I know this may seem like a stupid question but I think I know what a first love is but just want to make sure. Thank-you

2006-07-30 05:20:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

and bathing the child, putting them to bed. is it wrong to think i deserve a meal or 2 cooked for me once or twice a year.

2006-07-30 05:15:46 · 32 answers · asked by 1meanmama 2

My husband & I have nothing in common anymore. We don't have anything to talk about except our son or household matters. Right now, our 8 yr old son is gone for the weekend & I'm so bored I can't stand it. I'm thinking that in a few years when our son is old enough to move out, it will be like this at home all the time. I'm panicking. My husband is in another room watching a boring documentary on TV. Do I have reason to divorce him? Or am I just being shallow?

2006-07-30 05:15:45 · 20 answers · asked by DragonLady 1

2006-07-30 05:14:54 · 12 answers · asked by THERESA C B 1

My ex left me 7 months ago (after 20 years of marriage) and now he has a girlfriend. Even though he has only been with her for a few months he now wants our 2 children (12 and 19) to meet her. I asked him why and he said that "it was serious" and that she was a part of his life. Both children refused but now he's starting to pressure them again. I think it's far too early for them to meet her. Am I right?

2006-07-30 05:11:22 · 9 answers · asked by Lotte T 3

My husband and I have been married for 2 years, we have been together for 4 years. We have a 2 year old daughter and he is a wonderful father. My husband and I have not been intimate in over 2 years. He says it is because I gained so much weight (30lbs) during my pregnancy, I am 5ft 6in (I was135lbs before) and he isn't attracted to me anymore. Needless to say this has put a major strain on our relationship. We go through the usual fights and make-ups like any marriage but I recently found out that his father cheated on, and divorced his mother because she gained weight during her pregnancy with both my husband and his twin brother. I have asked him if he still loves me and he assures me that he does, he spends time with me and is always very sweet, the only thing that is missing is our intimate relationship. I have recently lost over 20lbs but still that is not enough. Should I shut my mouth and live in a sex-less marriage? Or, should I give him an ultimatum....Intimacy or get out?

2006-07-30 05:05:24 · 24 answers · asked by lopezjri 2

2006-07-30 05:01:00 · 9 answers · asked by THERESA C B 1

My wife and I have been together for 12 years and I have to admit I was very negligent in taking care of her needs for a few years. I was selfish and preoccupied with my own issues. She sought out someone else to take care of her sexual needs. I found out about it and initially got angry and she was remorseful but it spurned us on to counseling and I realized it did not need to destroy our relationship. In fact, with time, she told me more about what happened and her desires (that she could not communicate to me before due to my ignoring her)..and it adds to our sex life. We even use it to excite each other now and then. Weird? I don't think so. She needed a little more "aggresiveness" in the bedroom. A couple of long silk scarves, a bed with posts and some acting skills can do wonders!

2006-07-30 04:45:13 · 13 answers · asked by cm 1

would that not save a lot of broken mariages and the resulting suffering of children?

2006-07-30 04:43:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband's ex-wife is constantly calling us with her personal problems. When I answer she either hangs up or starts crying saying it's an emergency and that she needs to talk to my husband. (It usually ends up being that her lawnmower won't start or the kids made a big mess in the house.) He gets upset, but tries to stay civil with her because of his kids.
The last time she called, she and I got into and I told her that she needed to stop this, that she's not his wife anymore. She told me that she doesn't care because she has a NEW boyfriend. Yet she keeps calling...
What should we do?

2006-07-30 04:35:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-30 04:31:49 · 19 answers · asked by bayliss_ryan 1

My X called off our engagement last week but did it over the phone...Don't you think it should have been done in person? I'm having a hard time dealing with this...

2006-07-30 04:26:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i would i say is my love is true and i will proof that i like her and will wait for her

2006-07-30 04:25:27 · 3 answers · asked by ? 1

he never told me i found out when we split now i am worried about my boys he is taking me through the courts but i just dont no what 2 do

2006-07-30 04:21:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got the police report of which the allegation was unsubstantiated. Now I'm battling with him on custody and need to proof to the court that he made the report with malicious intent. How can I get the identity of the person reported the case ? With Sheriff or DCF, my attorney isn't doing anything on this issue.

2006-07-30 04:14:51 · 16 answers · asked by gshock 1

just split from long term partner and she starting with the mind games one min she loves me the next she cant stand me , she knows how much i love her and how much im hurting so why hurt me more?

2006-07-30 04:13:20 · 12 answers · asked by chubbs_m22 1

How do I know if I am still in love with him or just still *care* about him??? What do I do??? I think about it alot.

2006-07-30 04:01:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-30 03:56:23 · 18 answers · asked by lovesugarkisses 4

what does it mean when a partner tells the other partner that he or she has done damage to the relationship?

2006-07-30 03:55:47 · 6 answers · asked by mo 1

My brother has been married for a little more than a year now. He is a calm, quiet, hard working, ambitious, rather of a rebel, and when he is at the computer you can't tell if you're alone in the room or not, he just sits there.
Anyway he married this very thin girl, who I think is crazy. Firstly when I am viziting them she sometimes acts like a child and sometimes she treats me like a child (he's my big brother). When she is acused of something wrong she always finds someone else to blame. She gives the impresion that she wears the pants in the family. She always offers me food but I always refuse, and she always insists and I have a hard time declining her offer.
She always takes things to serious and doesn't take a good joke or can't make a joke. I think she's too paranoid and she a talking machine, she never lets people make a point, I don't think she has many friends, she makes unfunny jokes and when she talks all you want to do is to hope a asteroid will hit you. What is it?

2006-07-30 03:51:19 · 14 answers · asked by Faust 5

in a failing marriage with 2 young kids, i care for my husband but no longer love or wish to be with him

2006-07-30 03:44:10 · 19 answers · asked by blondie 3