2006-07-30 05:14:54 · 12 answers · asked by THERESA C B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First I would sit down and talk to him and find out why he felt compelled to be with another woman. If the reason was a problem that I had helped create, I would want to try to rectify whatever was broken and heal both myself and hopefully him and the marriage. Fool me once, shame on you...fool me twice, shame on me. To go through counselling would help me become a better person and to prevent affairs from being pattern and will not happen again, whether we stay together or not. But I would try to understand why first before any action was taken.
2006-07-30 05:33:44 · answer #1 · answered by auntcookie84 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's so easy to say that one would divorce their spouse if infidelity occured. But until one is faced with that, they can't say for sure if they would stay or go.
I would like to be one of the ones who says I would leave. I would feel as though my husband didn't respect me or my marriage and I would want out.
But if I decided to try, I would force him to go to counseling. I would want to know why he cheated because their is a huge underlying problem.
2006-07-30 15:04:00 · answer #2 · answered by torn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife will end my marriage and will say why did you marry me? you know what Marriage is about? it about working it out and no easy way out. and you be sure damn to hell.
But I am glad I never cheat on my wife and hurt my kids. I never even think about it and I know marriage can be stress but two people need to work it out make it work.
I seen what my mom and dad both cheating on each other and all those years and Said to myself no way it will happen tome at all smiling.
2006-07-30 12:44:36 · answer #3 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very easy question, leave him no woman should put up with their husbands cheating on them. good luck!!
2006-07-30 12:40:59 · answer #4 · answered by *Krys* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce him, because if you don't have trust in a marriage, you don't really have anything. Also, I would worry about diseases he might have caught from the person who he cheated with. He could possibly have picked up a disease that would kill you! So, it's really a matter of life or death! Get rid of his a**.
2006-07-30 12:18:40 · answer #5 · answered by DragonLady 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Divorce him. Once a cheater, always a cheater. He will even cheat on his new girlfriend after he divorces.
2006-07-30 12:44:55 · answer #6 · answered by sparkles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have my bags packed before he had time to 'explain'. Without trust there is no love.
2006-07-30 12:34:11 · answer #7 · answered by Kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave him! I would always think about how he touched anouther woman and it would drive me nuts.
2006-07-30 12:31:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him to the curb.
2006-07-30 12:17:48 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ HeySexy ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd ask how long it's been going on.
2006-07-30 19:29:02 · answer #10 · answered by missing_something 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋