just split from long term partner and she starting with the mind games one min she loves me the next she cant stand me , she knows how much i love her and how much im hurting so why hurt me more?
2006-07-30 04:13:20 · 12 answers · asked by chubbs_m22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
buy the way i was her long time partner 5 years and we got a little girl 2gether
2006-07-30 04:24:44 · update #1
At first I thought maybe she was teasing you. The reason why she is doing it doesn't matter....tell her you don't need her crap and if she can't treat you with respect she needs to get out of your life. Sometimes the pain of not being with someone can be less than the pain of putting up with their crap. Good luck.
2006-07-30 04:21:11 · answer #1 · answered by Mav 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Its not mind games darl its how shes feeling right now.. She doesn't know what she wants why not just back off a little and give her time to decide without involving yourself and trying to make her mind up for her?
You just said yourself that she has just split up from her long term partner-- was that partly your fault? You gotta seriously give her some space cos theres nothing worse than trying to be with someone when they are on the rebound
2006-07-30 04:17:42 · answer #2 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear that. Keep in touch for the baby's sake, but cut her off. Don't let her do the push-pull thing with you. Men do play mind games, too, so I do understand what you are going through. Just don't give up on your daughter.
2006-07-30 04:29:03 · answer #3 · answered by Maitri* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean, but guys can play those games too. Maybe you both just need some space to work things out. Hopefully in time you will both either realise that you can't live with each other or can't live without each other. wishing you all the best.
2006-07-30 04:26:57 · answer #4 · answered by muggle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When people are insecure and afraid of getting hurt, they play mind games. They let someone get close to them, get scared and then push them away. It allows them to not get close enough to someone to have them really hurt them. It's not fair because the one playing the game isn't giving their whole heart, but it helps them to not be crushed when the relationship ends.
2006-07-30 04:39:12 · answer #5 · answered by torn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is, why did you play games with her and have children with her and date her for 5 years and not marry her? Seems to me you should've ended it long ago.
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2016-12-14 16:19:21 · answer #7 · answered by buchberger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, she knows how much you love her and she try to piss you off and hurt your feelings and good thing you endit now and make srue you take good care of your kids. and make sure being there for them don't care about other woman you been with.
2006-07-30 05:22:44 · answer #8 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women just do that kinda thing to make themselves feel like they have abit of control over u coz they think we try to be better at everything else
2006-07-30 04:31:11 · answer #9 · answered by gerald_kelly2004 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhhhhh guys do that too, ya know. I am sorry you are going through that but, yeah, she needs space. Just do your thing and dont be available and then we shall see who misses who. :)
2006-07-30 04:26:03 · answer #10 · answered by mustbekiddin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋