Marriage & Divorce - 26 July 2006

I am a middle aged male, married for the second time and still cannot understand why both females have a lack of desire for sex.
What frequency of sex or desire to have sex do you consider normal?

2006-07-26 23:57:44 · 16 answers · asked by Trakreppa5 2

I have found this to be an incredibly fun and affectionate activity. I am wondering if you feel the same way.

(Note: The tickling must be consensual and there must be trust and respect between both parties to insure comfort and to make it work. Serious answers only please)

2006-07-26 23:48:38 · 7 answers · asked by mgctouch 7

Surley you do not need a ring or a chance to say that you are "married" to share your life with that special person?

I have freinds who have been together 25 years and feel no need to get married whatsoever. Also most couples who get married end up being divorced within the first 5 years.

im Not critisising marrige, Just interested to see what you all think?

2006-07-26 23:43:43 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

We are always bickering at each other. I am in the US Army so we didnt ever get the chance to date really. We never lived together until we got married. I am having thoughts that maybe we are not ready for this and we should seperate now instead of the heart break later. Can anyone help me with this?

2006-07-26 23:06:12 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-26 22:57:24 · 15 answers · asked by bongcs 2

2006-07-26 22:54:49 · 17 answers · asked by CACHE 1

said his wife died and we got married i month ago i came to know the truth and he says there was no marriage between him and the wife coz they were always fighting,they didnt have children together,met his parents and they also never disclosed it,i need your advice,should i leave him and also seek a divorce ,he has already filed a divorce with his legal wife and we are also legally married though i may not count it legal since he blackmailed me, Help

2006-07-26 22:52:29 · 8 answers · asked by GACHERI 1

2006-07-26 22:44:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

A few days ago we were at her family's house and she was like she always is, verbally and physically abusive. Putting me down over small trivial stuff. She is always punching and kicking and biting (lord knows i have enough scars from THAT), but what finally happened is she slapped me in the face with a scorching hot spatula. I dont remember doing it, i was so mad, but i punched her and broke her nose. I do remember beating up her dad cause he jumped me for hitting her. I was arrested for what I did, but she wasnt?? Ive put up with her abuse because I love her to death and I dont believe in hitting a woman no matter what she does. I dont know why I did it that time cause i dont remember anything but pure anger for a few seconds, and I agree with the decision to arrest me, and whatever punishment follows. What should I do? I love her more than life itself, but I may have ruined it between us.

2006-07-26 22:36:40 · 10 answers · asked by Randy 1

i have no

2006-07-26 22:31:36 · 14 answers · asked by shahroukh 1

2006-07-26 22:24:51 · 21 answers · asked by Tina M 1

about my future, life, family, work , etc

2006-07-26 22:23:15 · 4 answers · asked by susi 1

I broke it of with the woman I thought I would marry because I realised I could never rely or trust in her its been months now and still feel i made the right descision but still havent moved on. help me!

2006-07-26 22:16:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well i duuno why but i like elder gals, tho' being 28 myself still single, still get attracted to elder gals than me, and mostly the divorsed ones..........sux with me i duuno wots wrong wth me?

2006-07-26 22:01:30 · 4 answers · asked by Jay 2

2006-07-26 22:01:06 · 6 answers · asked by Lera 2

2006-07-26 21:56:47 · 15 answers · asked by pelashgi 2

what if your relationship was break, then suddenly after how many days / years your partner come back. will yoou accept it and start again? in what way?

2006-07-26 21:46:57 · 16 answers · asked by jen 1

How will you know if you can love again?

2006-07-26 21:42:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a problem with preejaculation when i did sex with my wife,is there some one who can help me phsicologicaly,don't tell me to take Viagra or any other medicnes.

2006-07-26 21:31:51 · 11 answers · asked by yen 1

I have been thinking of swallowing him behind my husbands back. Im not sure if I should tell my husband afterwards though. should I?

2006-07-26 21:29:41 · 27 answers · asked by Lera 2

Hi, I wish i can get divorced, my husband and i have nothing, not one single thing in common, we live in two different worlds, but he dosen't want to divorce me, i wish i was in America, i would just pack and leave, no not even pack, but just leave get out of this, but unfortunatley i'm not. i feel like i'm in prison, and i didn't do anything to deserve this. i feel like i have no way out. i want to go to college continue my education, work, and do something in my life, everyday that passes i feel that it is wasted. i'm not a party girl, i hate drinking and smoking, i love healthy life, i go to the gym, i lived half of my life hungry to keep my body in this shape, i eat a bite of chocolate every one month or two, but now i feel what the hell, yesterday i kept eating all night, and then i didn't feel satesfied so i grabbed a bottle of wiskey, and kept drinking and smoking till maybe three am, i was drunk i barely could reach the bed, then i slpt like a rock.

2006-07-26 21:19:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is anyone out there in love with someone that you cannot stand?
I'm wondering if this really exist.

2006-07-26 21:18:05 · 10 answers · asked by DUMMY 2

what I mean is that I see that the women who don't show that they care alot about thier spouse ,boyfriend ect... and are more mean to them like out of 100% of thier affection give 10% have men who are so in love and show so much affection to them do men really not want a women who cooks,cleans,is faithful,and asks them how they are doing and genuinely cares for them ?? My bf sees this as just me being controling if I ask him to call me if he goes somewhere after work or if he decides out of the blue to go do something in the car for a few hours and I ask him when are you coming in I am bossing him I have a sister in law that is so mean to her hubby she slaps him around and dont cook or clean he works doubles just to do stuff for her she gets masages and he waits on her hand and foot what am I doing wrong???

2006-07-26 21:15:10 · 8 answers · asked by GITRDONE 1

So today was the my 6 year anniversary with my boyfriend...and I woke up at 5am got all dressed up, went to his favorite bagel place and bought him breakfast and then showed up at his place for an early breakfast in bed suprise. Then he went to work, while he was at work I tidied up his room and even dropped his roommate off at the airport. While he was at work, I also decorated the place to set a romantic mood, prepared a nice meal and even put his present on the bed with a very nice letter telling him how much I love him and care about him. Once he came home from work, he had a hot meal, gave me a hug and a kiss, opened his present and then we had sex of course....but when it came time for him to give me a present or something all he gave me was a card, which said that he loved me and that was it....and I am very upset. I did so much and all he gave me was a card...am I wrong for being upset?

2006-07-26 21:13:45 · 20 answers · asked by Strawberry 3

2006-07-26 21:03:53 · 14 answers · asked by yanti 1

Any good suggestions? It's coming up in August. Thanks for your answers.

2006-07-26 21:02:49 · 16 answers · asked by Pregnant lady 2

Military personnel, divorcees, widowers, retirees, senior citizens, or expectant fathers.

2006-07-26 21:01:54 · 5 answers · asked by Chuck Dhue 4

2006-07-26 20:59:02 · 4 answers · asked by Chuck Dhue 4

after some years in a relationship...

2006-07-26 20:54:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I wrote a few weeks back about my verbally/emotionally(have been physical 3 times by choking me over the years, last time was 4 years ago. I have been with him for 12 years, married for 8. we have 2 childred a daughter 6 and a son 4.
He has called me every name in the book including fat *****, stupid ************, weakist link, lazy, useless etc. He does this in front of our kids and they cry or like today they hide. I feel like this marriage is killing me and i haven't left yet. He always never takes up for me when it comes to his family(his father and borther bothe cursed me out and he says good because he doesn't like me either). I cry almost ever other day. He is not going to counseling with me tomorrow(picked a fight today because I ate some of the kid's food). He isn't going to go so my question is do you think I have done all that I can? I'm going to therapy alone right now. I just don't want to feel guilty for breaking up my "family". We can go over to live with my mom. Help

2006-07-26 20:42:23 · 23 answers · asked by Veronique 3