How do i live positively in life, have just broken up with my hubby,i feel its the end of the world?

Answer 1

What you are feeling is natural, I know I have been through that , not boyfriend girlfriend but yes husband, and leaving. Its strange, how every break-up has stages that women and men go through. Being a woman, your in the early stages. This is what you do, if your into music listen to "Tony Braxton, Aretha Franklin" for some odd reason listening to there music, gave me strength to move on, oh and "Jill Scott (the early stuff) If your not into music, than write down what your feeling, and keep a journal, in a year you will look back and it will not have any affect at all. It is not the end of the world, and every woman deserves "someone to cherish,respect,value and love her" if that is what she wants. and you will be fine just take it slow,and cry ,cry,cry, until you can not anymore. You will be surpised the "strength will just come"

Answer 2

It is normal to be depressed after a loss of a loved one in your life. However, it is definitely, not the end of the world. If you concentrate on the reasons why you decided to separate, you will more clearly realize that you have made the best decision for yourself. Now you will be able to move on with your life and find real and lasting happiness with someone else. It is even better to be alone than with someone who makes you doubtful, uncomfortable and miserable. Remember to try to make new friends and keep your daily activities and thought-life free of old baggage that holds back your happiness. Best wishes.

Answer 3

As ridiculous as this sounds I sometimes wish that I didn't love my husband because there is so much out there for a single person. There's so much you can do now and ALL of it can be for you. Take courses. Go on stupid tours and visit other countries. Live like a hippie for a while. Make insane friends and just have a ball. It's wonderful to be single - just enjoy it. You'll find someone else I'm sure but don't mope around waiting for that to happen. Go out and enjoy every last second.

Answer 4

First concentrate on your skill , find a suitable place to work , if already working , change the place , where you residing right now .Life will take care of you if you allow your self to be with crowd , most of the time keep your self busy , if nothing else to do go to any health club get your body boost up by massages , you will find yourself in peace and able to thin positively , I am confident and sure .

Answer 5

damn a woman admitting they are sad after their husband is gone. if you feel that sad go back and make up, but if you think it's hard now wait till you see him with someone else.
and my god look at these answers above me and everyone wonders why there is so much pain and grief in this world love is something you hold on to even when the person is gone or did something wrong we are all humans and lady life sucks but sometimes foolish pride kills the human in all of us people will tell you to move on but hey maybe the feelings you have are heart telling you what to do

Answer 6

as you said, you broken up with him, that means you have a good reason and that is a positive start for a new life and not the end.

Answer 7

There's must be a reason for the breaking up, Did you leave him or the other way around? Let me tell you this if you broke up with him and there was a reason stand in that reason and start to live your live. May be this is what you were needed to start with the right foot.

Answer 8

countless situations love hurts and breaking up with someone we adore is amazingly painful a lifeless ringer for loosing someone we adore at the same time as they die it is the separation that hurts the diverse is we cant deliver the lifeless's lower back yet we may be able to deliver lower back the residing ones a minimum of we ought to continually attempt demanding if it dose no longer artwork we merely ought to cope we get use to each and every thing in existence and time is the merely healer you choose a closure in case you verify to flow on without a closure you'll under no circumstances get over her each and every in certain situations on an identical time after we've a closure we cant forget or flow on dont ever imagine that you failed it develop into her mistake at the same time as she desirous to misinform u yet you could continually forgive her all of us make mistakes make the right decision no one is appropriate sturdy success

Answer 9

Lucky Lucky you there,
You have broken up and thats a positive step in itself.
Just take it cool, dont go loking for new relationships immidiately,
Collect yourself, find yourselves, and think about what went wrong, what u did wrong, reflect on past, chart out your future, meanwhile, look for a job, settle down, have fun

Answer 10

Life goe on dear,Just know tomorrow waits on you but this time with a greater responsibility "To take care of your self and love yourself" You are equally important to yourself as you used to be , so love yourself the more, encourage yourself in the Lord because its only him who will never ever leave you, keep yourself praying , quit blaming yourself .

All the best