Marriage & Divorce - 26 July 2006

I am judgmental toward my husband and it seems like he can't do anything right. I know I am not perfect but I can't seem to get a handle on retaining any kind of tolerance or patience toward him. I feel like I married the wrong person-the right person being a man who tries to understand me, listens, communicates with me, doesn't get defensive or overly sensitive right off the bat, and a man with more of a postive, can-do attitude. I just feel like we are not matched well at all and both of our needs and wants have changed since we met 15 years ago. I feel I married him for the wrong reasons (security, stability) and that I would not choose him as a mate today. I struggle with these feelings everyday. We have been married for 9 years and have 2 children, 6 & 3. I am feeling lost and displaced.

2006-07-26 02:55:58 · 35 answers · asked by geneva 1

How many women out there truly have never experienced the ultimate orgasm or a normal orgasm?

2006-07-26 02:49:50 · 11 answers · asked by Cobra 5

Just found out that my dear friend's husband cheated & is moving out of their home. They are both good friends, and have a young daughter. What do I say to her? Looking for advice from folks who have been in her shoes--what did you need? Of course I'll offer her all of my support & any help I can give.

2006-07-26 02:48:39 · 7 answers · asked by snap 1

A man in his early 50's has sfound out that his wife 8 yrs his junior is having an affair. She now knows he’s aware but still continues.

2 teenage children knows it too and is not in favour.

Due to his son’s coming finals he does not want to cause disturbance in confronting the wife till the exam’s over.

Is it right to file for divorce or what should he do?

2006-07-26 02:47:56 · 45 answers · asked by dream_drifter05 3

2006-07-26 02:44:31 · 12 answers · asked by Nicky 1

I am referring to a situation where the husband is very abusive, irresponsible, selfish and cruel.

2006-07-26 02:43:24 · 37 answers · asked by Ines 1

i need tips about how can one be more creative in order to have a interesting love life; tips about what to wear in the bedroom, for example, about new tehniques of turning your husband on, about different love games, tips about seduction (even for the people who are married, why not) because i really want to keep my marriage in a continuous renovation.

2006-07-26 02:42:27 · 10 answers · asked by creation 1

She has a family of 4 . . .

2 teenage sons, one being in the upper secondary who is doing ok,

the other one out on bail for drug related offence and will be on trial soon,

the husband who is jobless and scolds her and quarrels with her almost everyday, has an affair with a Chinese National lady. Brings her home for the wife to see and is intending to celebrate the wife’s birthday and bringing her ( the girl ) along by his side.

the wife having trouble with the younger son, marriage and with hubby is feeling revengeful with husband, is having casual intimate encounters with almost every man she meets that agrees. Also introducing the men she meets to hubby.

What help does she needs to stop her revengeful acts that’ll ultimately hurt her physically and emotionally?

2006-07-26 02:39:29 · 9 answers · asked by superyoyogirl 3

I was caught cheatting about 4 months ago. we are engagedto marry next year. I know have grown since this happened and i have become a man and i will never cheat again.

2006-07-26 02:38:31 · 2 answers · asked by sxysmooth 1

I went out of town for business for two days and when I returned tonight I checked out the hubbies cell phone calls online and found he had called a cell phone number 34 times in 24 hours. It is a number I have never seen and about 30 of those calls were made between midnight and 6 a.m. and they were about 20 minutes apart. I am shaking mad because my suspicions have been up lately about his behavior. Feel free to reference my previous questions to aid in your opinion on this matter. He is a perpetual liar and have had serious trust issues for the last several months. This is obvious b/c why else would I be checking out his calls. He does not know that I do that and before I confront him about it, I would like to know what you guys and gals think is going on. He told me he did nothing while I was gone but have a few beers with a friend but when I casually ask him anything else he gets really defensive. What do you think is going on and what should I do next? Thanks!

2006-07-26 02:37:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-26 02:32:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

i just want to add that yes i love him but it is like it is not as strong as it used to be and we have two kids together. i have tried the talking thing but it does not seem to do anything i am just soooo......i also started attending chruch and praying to the lord,he does not partipate he does not want cousling but i have thought about the vacation see if that works and the things we fight about i never really know what they are about. I just dont know what to do any more should i give up i just want to scream

2006-07-26 02:32:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok...my boyfriend and I have been together 1 year today! We both know we will be with each other forever...but I want him to ask me to marry him. How can I get him to?? He's divorced and 33 with 2 boys, I'm 25 with 1 daughter... just to let you know where we stand in life. He told me before that he knows he will marry me one day, but I want it now. I never wanted to get married before, and now I do because I know I love him.I've never been married so I'm excited about it. So does anyone have any advise on how to get him to ask me??? He's asked me before when am I going to propose to HIM... and I said I won't.''''''' PLZZ LET ME KNOW'''''''

2006-07-26 02:31:45 · 3 answers · asked by dannysgrl 2

my name ssd b date28 may 1980 birth time 6.38 p.m birth place kalyan india

2006-07-26 02:31:30 · 6 answers · asked by ssd 1

I have a daughter living at home and i remarried 3 years ago to a lady without kids,my daughter fenished high school and went on to nursing school and is getting married soon and will have her own home but my wife can't stand my daughter she even tried to fight her ,but she will be gone in 2 months but my wife couldn't wate,so got a divorce sold the house and she lives with her father and my daughter lives with me for a couple more months until her wedding.I'm 54 my x-wife is 40. my daughter is now 20,Why does jelousy have to ruin a relationship.Why are women threatened by stepchildren,i raised 2 step sons and a step daughter and i love them as much as my blood daughter. I don't like the thought of growing old alone but it can't be helped,I'm not marring anymore.

2006-07-26 02:25:05 · 4 answers · asked by freshstart 2

brighten your world and the world of those around you?

2006-07-26 02:23:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

it's hard enough being a gay couple on top we have a 4yr daughter.Which makes it even harder to have an exciting sex life. I need help, can anyone help me.

2006-07-26 02:22:38 · 8 answers · asked by ur_scooby_snack 1

2006-07-26 02:20:52 · 19 answers · asked by sduhbls 2

i am 25 years old ,, and a 35 years man proposed to me ,, i am really happy and comfort with him ..
he's a great person , great charachter very caring , kind and loving generous , everything good is in him ,,but the problem that he was married before and he has 2 girls ..
my question is :
is this situation will be hard to live with in future , what are the inconvenients that may face me ??
plz informe me ?

2006-07-26 02:13:30 · 18 answers · asked by romeo4 1

My wife can actually have an orgasm while performing oral on me without any stimulation being given to her. Are any of you ladies able to do this also?

2006-07-26 02:13:24 · 7 answers · asked by Married Male 2

i mentioned the married word to my bf and he said that he would never get married again he
his first marrige was a .bad one what shoould i do . I love him to death

2006-07-26 02:13:19 · 4 answers · asked by whosurmamma069 1

we have been together for 10 years and have 2 kids. I found out in Feb 2006 that he was cheating on me. Well we talked it out and promised to change, blah, blah...But even though we talked things out, I can't forget and the pain is still there alot!! What should I do? This is driving me crazy.

2006-07-26 02:12:47 · 46 answers · asked by Jill H 1

is there such thing as the seven year itch? i feel like there is nothing between us any more. we have been togethter for seven years and married two but things are not the same anymore we fights almost everyday help please i dont understand it

2006-07-26 02:08:30 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

my girlfriend of 3 years wants a break from me, yet we have just moved into our own home and its the start of something great she doesnt want it any more just saying she needs time and space. im so gutted i really love her very much and want it to work i really want her to see im seriouse about her and us i want us to be proud of what we are

2006-07-26 02:08:19 · 9 answers · asked by donna.horlock@btopenworld.com 1

My wife of 3 years and high school sweetheart deccided to have a huge ongoing fight with me back in 05 , left my home to live on her own in May 05. Started another relationship rightaway and Now sued me for divorce. Any advice on my stand in the court..

2006-07-26 02:02:44 · 9 answers · asked by Nick V 1

2006-07-26 01:58:53 · 8 answers · asked by Rodney 1

The child is emotionally affected since he saw what happend between his parents(physically)...

2006-07-26 01:53:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-26 01:41:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

he still regualry emails her...i feel really bad about it. Is it normal. Ours is an arranged marriage, will it take time for the love to blossom?

2006-07-26 01:32:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ive heard it means that her body is negatively reacting and it would be impossible to get her pregnant.

2006-07-26 01:25:45 · 14 answers · asked by h nitrogen 5