he still regualry emails her...i feel really bad about it. Is it normal. Ours is an arranged marriage, will it take time for the love to blossom?
2006-07-26 01:32:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
then stop doing for him...he needs to focus on your marriage...
no matter what you have done for him it hasnt stopped him from talking to her...he needs to give up his past and work on his future and your his future...arranged or not... it's not healthy for you to have to sit by while he talks to her..and are you sure it's just emails? dont feel bad...he needs to feel bad...you are not the only 1 in the marriage..it will never go any further if he doesnt drop his past...
2006-07-26 01:44:14 · answer #1 · answered by RebelsGirlDixie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In an arranged marriage you get what you are given. You need to talk to him about his feelings...maybe he does not want to be in the marriage with you. If it is arranged it may mean that he isn't interested in you like that.
2006-07-26 09:23:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are not writing is the nature of the e-mails. Are they flirtatious? Are they just friendly? It is not impossible to be good friends with old flames, though it may seem unlikely.
If he still 'writing' to her in a friendly way, let it go. Maybe he needs a little competition. Maybe you need to 'write' to some flames of your own.
If it's the alternative, drop him. You don't need a replica of the Prince Charles-Camilla Parker-Bowles story on a smaller stage here. Either he is married to you or he isn't.
2006-07-26 08:55:47 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow I didn't know arranged marriages still exist in this country.. No one can predict the future... Maybe you should try to talk to him about how you feel and find out how he feels.. then decide together how and where your marriage is going
2006-07-26 08:51:06 · answer #4 · answered by cinsaint1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have an arranged marriage.Sounds like he didnt want it and really wants to be with his ex flame.Im sorry for you because you have been put into that position.Ask him if thats how he feels and if that is is there anyway you can get out of the marriage.I dont know i know not that much about arranged marriages
2006-07-26 08:46:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel sorry for you. Love can grow, but first he needs to resolve his feelings for his old flame.
Have you seen the movie, Monsoon Wedding? It is a good story for a situation like yours.
I wish you the very best.
2006-07-26 08:37:17 · answer #6 · answered by sahel578 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In an arranged marriage you get what is given.In your case a hubby who likes someone else.You can't make someone love you.I have one word for you, threesome?
2006-07-26 08:36:12 · answer #7 · answered by Just S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear that you most be sad about it , when its arranged married you have no choice even he doesnot love you, maybe he has feelings for his ex , or maybe they are just good friends i hope it so , i hope you guys can totaly understand each other. its better if you ask him clear about it.
Good Luck !!
2006-07-26 08:50:53 · answer #8 · answered by Dayan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋