My wife doesn't like to experiment sexually. What's the best way to get her to try new stuff?

Answer 1

Slip her a mickey and go to town!!!

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Answer 2

That's tough to answer. Some women don't like to be exposed in situations where they will feel uncomfortable. Such as acrobatic maneuvers and the such. Is she a heavy-set gal? That is often a reason why because they don't like to move around a lot and be seen in compromising positions. I would suggest that YOU initiate changes that are geared toward HER in the first place and she might be responsive to try other things when she sees that she likes it.

Answer 3

The best way is to tell her how great she is, build up her self- esteem and make her feel so beautiful.
Make her feel that you are so into her, not just when it's time for sex, but all the time. Talk to her, tell her you would love to do @@@ with her and tell her it's okay if she doesn't agree, we work better when we're not feeling forced into something. Just keep this up and I'll bet she will want to experiment with you in no time!!!!!

Answer 4

She's shy about it so be patient. Get her a little buzzed (not falling over drunk). Talk to her erotically and try to coax her into it. I don't know how long you've been trying, but my man's been trying for a year and a half and I'm finally experimenting sexually (trying new things).

Answer 5

Talk! Talk! Talk!. She might have sexual fantasies that she is too shy to share with you for one reason or another. She might be unwilling to share or experiment because certain things may be seen as "dirty" or "immoral" or "taboo". This may be because of her upbringing or erroneous information. She may also be unwilling because she fears being judged by you.
I would also recommend counselling if you can't sort something out that suits both of you (if she is willing). It may help. Make sure that whatever you do has the consent of both people.
I hope this helps you out :)

Answer 6

Try finding out why she doesn't want to try different things. Upbringing? Insecurities? Start small and don't overwhelm her with freaky porn or complex toys, ect. Start small with a simple discreet vibrator and some soft core porn. Then if she likes it and discovers her "inner freak" you can bump it up a notch. You could have her read some erotica and see what turns her on.

Answer 7

A little alcohol will loosen her up some, then while having sex simply introduce a new element slowly. Maybe it's a sex toy you buy for her, maybe a different position.

I know my wife was pretty timid about trying new things, then one day I bought her a vibrator and it opened new doors for us. Now she does anal, deep throat and a whole bunch of other new things in bed.

Answer 8

Find out what makes her wiggle waggle...if you can figure out what might excite her most...go there and she will lead you to another level...experimenting sexually sometimes takes experimenting with different methods of foreplay...you may have to ask her what she thinks is a turn on...it may be something totally out of the box from which you may have thought it might be...experiment and enjoy your efforts.

Answer 9

Make her feel very sexy and very loved.EXAMPLE:send her to an all day spa for a massage,manicure,pedicure,hair cut,color(whatever she wishes)and then take her out for a night on the town telling her how beautiful she is.She will want to giv eit a try just cause she felt special all day.Good luck God bless:O)

Answer 10

How do you get someone to do something (or anything) ?

You need their willing co-operation and that starts with communicaton (both talking and listening).

Sexual things must be mutual, agreed and wanted by both parties.

It part of loving :)