Marriage & Divorce - 26 July 2006

How can I talk to her about it?

2006-07-26 14:55:32 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

I fell for this married guy. I am married also. This guy and I don't spend alot of time together but he always tells me that he loves me. The times that we are together it is limited. He calls me and treats me all good. He doesn't do anything to disrespect her though. That's why our time is always limited. Do you think he really love the both of us. He once told me that if he was a single man he had no doubt in his mind that he would move me in with him.

2006-07-26 14:50:54 · 27 answers · asked by Ms. Cool 1

2006-07-26 14:49:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

she does just enough to make me think there is a chance and thats it
doesnt want to talk about it and says if it come to that it will do it by itself.

2006-07-26 14:40:52 · 14 answers · asked by tex 1

2006-07-26 14:38:44 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would you stay with your husband for your child if you no longer felt you were in love him. Even if he his the nicest guy in the world and worshipped the ground you walked on.At one point we were deeply in love but latley I seem to not feel anything.

2006-07-26 14:32:16 · 40 answers · asked by sunnyday 3

My boyfriend will be 52 in November and has 2 grown kids 24 and 21. The 24 year old is a boy and very rebellious. So rebellious that my boyfriend had to change his locks on his house so his son can't get in. I am in my early 30's and have no children and have never been married. I would like to have at least 1 child as I love children. My boyfriend has had a vasectomy and said if we were still together in a year he would consider reversing it. It will be 2 years in August and he has said we are getting engaged in August. He does not mention reversing his vasectomy but has stated that his grown children would be upset if he had more children. Why? They would still be loved just as much if we were to have a child. I am feeling sort of bad about this situation. I love him and he is good to me but am I making a mistake if I marry him?

2006-07-26 14:29:55 · 24 answers · asked by devinshell 3

My husband cheated and we have been trying to work it out, especially since we have a 9 month old son, but its only been a month since I found out, (i caught him), and he is already wanted me to be trusting him again? He says its done with he apologized and I just need to get over it...is this right? I feel like I need time to get past my hurt and he needs to earn my trust back? Is it even worth trying anymore with his attitude?

2006-07-26 14:26:50 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

I told my boyfriend that I wouldn't wait any longer than 19 for him to want to get married to me. That's only because we've been dating for a while and 19 is 1 year away. I'm tired of him thinking that it's ok for him to stay with me for a long time and only say that he wants to get married to me EVENTUALLY. What should I do?

2006-07-26 14:23:48 · 20 answers · asked by Curious&can'twait 2

2006-07-26 14:23:20 · 20 answers · asked by Jinxy 1

The girl is over all of the time now and asks for expensive gifts. Do you think my friend needs to accept this girl. She had planned for yhe perfect family with her 2 beautiful children and now she feels cheated

2006-07-26 14:18:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

She was arrested and charged with felony failure to appear 2 days ago for stealing money orders at work 5 months ago. When I asked her to come back to me she assured me that charges were dropped. I then asked her to marry me. I know i was foolish, but wow what a woman. This is not the first time she has lied and lied and lied. I mean I have no trust for her at all and I know for a fact this is her third time in jail sents I met her. I am not going to bail her out cause I don't have $20,000 bail moneys and don't want to waste my time. I guess I'm asking, should I stick with her or run for my life????

2006-07-26 14:17:55 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am shy, and he wants me to do it, but I dont know what to say or how to say it, what is a web site to give me some hints and how to get over my shyness???

2006-07-26 14:16:42 · 3 answers · asked by honey22252005 2

to stare down other women when he is with his wife. My husband does it all the time, especially checking out their butts. When we go out to dinner, he hardly makes conversation unless I start it, cause he is to busy looking..~~~ Why is this? Isn't this disrespectful to me, and himself. It really hurts. :-(

2006-07-26 14:13:39 · 20 answers · asked by Sunflower 3

2006-07-26 14:06:44 · 1 answers · asked by clair 4

Have any of you ever stretched the truth just a little bit to make a question more interesting? I know that I have, just a tad... in one of my other questions I said I was in love with another woman, because I was looking for advice about divorcing my wife because we are miserable. Actually, I WANTED to be in love with someone else, so I would have more of a reason to be out... some people gave some good answers, and many avoided the controversy that I engendered. I want to be in the position where there is someone else. Because now my wife has committed physical abuse against me, and I now have a reason to leave... basically, I do not trust her, although she says the cycle of abuse has been broken. This was the icing on the cake, the last thing to break what I had felt...

Anyway... now I want to leave her because I no longer feel safe. But I did stretch the truth just a tad. I apologize. But it created the feedback I needed.

2006-07-26 14:02:15 · 2 answers · asked by Bubbajones 3

In my last question I've posted(read the last 2 I posted first)I made him seem like a bad person he's not that bad of a person as I painted him to be.That time happen mths ago but still bother me at times.He's a good father&good provider he helps me with my 2 kids and his daughter from me he works,help pay the bills we do the family thing. He has his moments as for his anger but never hit me or my kids intentionally.The problem is he don't pay attention to me or whatever I do or be concern about me & he doesn't treat me like im his wife.We sleep in different rms which i've got use to and don't mind at times. I feel like im his girlfriend or roomates.I've try to communicate. Counseling may help but it has to be up to him.Im a good wife&mother I do what needs to be done and he says I make him Happy.I believe he loves me & I love him but i don't think we're in love with each other. I've express how I've felt but he seems to be inresponsive should i give him some time to think?

2006-07-26 14:01:27 · 7 answers · asked by emotional misstres 2

Have you been caught? If so how did they react?

2006-07-26 14:00:48 · 8 answers · asked by Emily 2

Can you tell me what causes someone to be so wonderful, give all their love to you, be the best at what they do, show you the ability they have to give you the moon and stars-then snap....becoming verbally abusive to they point you are afraid for your life? To the point, you want to leave and leave every material possession you have behind and never go back? please answer seriously-i am worried, and i am not joking around. Thanks.

2006-07-26 14:00:30 · 5 answers · asked by Elly 3

my husband told me 2 weeks ago that he loves me but not like he used to. ok, the first week i cried a lot and kissed his a**, i really love him. that didnt work he acted the same. ignoring me and being hateful. this week i have acted like i dont give a crap, walk around, doing normal things and hardly talk to him. 3 days of that and he was trying to hug me and says stop being so mean to me. im confused. i think he still loves me, but what do i do to get him to act like his old self again? continue to act like i dont care or what?

2006-07-26 13:52:56 · 21 answers · asked by ngwife 1

I've with my partner for 14 years and we've been married for 5. We've had our ups and downs over the years but for the last 12 months we've had more downs than ups. My hubby hates me doing anything that doesn't include him and is extremely jelous of my freinds to the point where a simple test message from my mate can cause a big row. He goes where ever he wants and drinking with his mates but I'm not allowed to do that without a big row the next day. I'm not saying that I want a single life but I do need to have a life and I do love my hubby but I'm not in ove with him. Recently, a guy I know has taken an interest in me. He's always asking my mates about me and at the moment he seems like the sweetest guy in the world. But I'm married...... So heres my choice, carry on trying to work it out with hubby or split and start again. There are children involved and this new guy is married bt having problems. Please help and be kind...

2006-07-26 13:52:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my man have been together happily for 4 years and after 3 kids we still have a great sex life,but i want to do something for him that will make him go wild and spice things up.. any suggestions? we have anal, oral, and lingerie.....

2006-07-26 13:51:11 · 7 answers · asked by angelsweetie 1

I am a 24 yr old mother of a 2 yr old. Been with the father for 7 years...engaged for 2 yrs. I love him and our baby and I am a very responsible mother, I have no regrets when it comes to her. Lately I have been fantasizing about being with other men and being single again. I was raised without a father so breaking up our home is the last thing I want for my daughter. Is it always right to stay together for the kids? I feel like I am missing out on life, there are so many things I want to do and I feel like im being held back

2006-07-26 13:48:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-26 13:48:18 · 2 answers · asked by chernobyl 1

When I gave my wife a 3-diamond anniversary ring for our 10th anniversary at a nice bed and breakfast, was it wrong of me to think I might get a hummer in return? That's all men really want for their wedding anniversaries, blow jobs.

2006-07-26 13:48:06 · 9 answers · asked by mayorofsteveville2002 3

He is very Catholic and I'm very Lutheran. Neither of us really wants to convert but how would our marriage work? Religion is important to me and our future family. How would we raise our children? What church do we get married in??

2006-07-26 13:34:31 · 10 answers · asked by MyrtleB831 2

2006-07-26 13:13:44 · 4 answers · asked by hotdesersand 2

The conversation is always the same,like a courtesy call,I could have been sick all day and never asks me how i feel.Will this do the trick?

2006-07-26 13:00:37 · 23 answers · asked by mexicanprincessinaz 1

2006-07-26 12:57:03 · 24 answers · asked by shygirl 2

and then he rudely said that " you're the one that always want to **** me...I don't..! " that hurts a lot.... he watch porns a lot and chat on line..... What would you do if you're in my shoes?

2006-07-26 12:55:40 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous