In my last question I've posted(read the last 2 I posted first)I made him seem like a bad person he's not that bad of a person as I painted him to be.That time happen mths ago but still bother me at times.He's a good father&good provider he helps me with my 2 kids and his daughter from me he works,help pay the bills we do the family thing. He has his moments as for his anger but never hit me or my kids intentionally.The problem is he don't pay attention to me or whatever I do or be concern about me & he doesn't treat me like im his wife.We sleep in different rms which i've got use to and don't mind at times. I feel like im his girlfriend or roomates.I've try to communicate. Counseling may help but it has to be up to him.Im a good wife&mother I do what needs to be done and he says I make him Happy.I believe he loves me & I love him but i don't think we're in love with each other. I've express how I've felt but he seems to be inresponsive should i give him some time to think?
2006-07-26 14:01:27 · 7 answers · asked by emotional misstres 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think that is just too weird and I think you totally don't like it but are afraid to get out on your own, Y ou can find someone else and you can find someone who will be a great step father, I would get out of that relationship, but that's just my own opinion I guess everything goes these days, but I dont think it is healthy for you or your kids. my advice is for you to go to a therapist on your own and get his or her opinion,it just sounds like an unhappy life for you and the kids. I believe they should see mommy and daddy being affectionate I am not saying they should be present during sex or anything sick like that.
2006-07-26 14:12:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is tired of not being treated like a man by you . Do you ever do anything nice for him ? He provides for you and the family ! Does he ever get to hear anything besides your nagging and complaining ?
2006-07-26 14:18:58 · answer #2 · answered by trollmannen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, give him time and then ask what does he think. Separate bed rooms is not a good thing. Try some romantic evenings.
2006-07-26 14:06:50 · answer #3 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is serious. You need to see a pastor and/or a marriage counselor. Ask you husband to help you to make this marriage better by seeing a counselor.
2006-07-26 14:06:52 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's had enough time to think.... and so have you. Good luck. Either settle for what you're getting or move on.
2006-07-26 14:04:05 · answer #5 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes give him time to process what you told him.Good luck.
2006-07-26 14:05:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not happy then it is time to move on.Life is too short.
2006-07-26 15:12:54 · answer #7 · answered by Katherine B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋