thinking about calling off wedding?

Question

ive been engaged for a month. But am already starting to doubt it. Should i call it off?

thinking about past relationship

Answer 1

If you really truly love your mate,then no. What you are feeling is normal and you are begiining to get impatient waiting for the day to get here. So you are starting to double guess your actions, thinking that maybe why its taking so long may be a bad sign and it should not happen. Youre probably also wondering if youre going to be good enough for your mate, etc. All perfectly normal and happens in all pre marriage periods. Occupy your mind with the preparations and time will fly and you wont have the time to think about it. Marriage is a big step in life and changes your current life style (life before marriage) and to humans is a scary thing. But also if, God forbid, this is the time to call it off if for some unforeseen reason you are sure this wedding should not go thru, than to wait til after the wedding..understand? Good luck on your upcoming wedding and congrats.

Answer 2

How long is your engagement? Have you actually set a date? If you're not sure, you can simply set a date further out into th future. If you don't feel better about it after having a specific date staring you in the face for a couple of months, you should probably call it off before everything gets out of hand.

Answer 3

Yes! If you have doubts at this point call it off or at least proceed with caution. Don't set a date and perhaps seek counseling if you really want to try to make it work. If not cut your losses and grow as a person for your self before you try for another relationship.

Answer 4

Thats normal its just cold feet. Maybe you should sit down and talk to your father or your best friend. Or even your fiance about what is bothering you.

Answer 5

CALL IT OFF!!!