i gave my wife everything she asked for even though i had a mistress really i was taken money from her to give to my wife even though she's still with this man i still give her money because i love her so much. Is it wrong to free load off my mistress and give my wife all my money ands most of hers?
2006-07-30 12:01:26 · 11 answers · asked by Sir Gentleman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the fact you even attempt to justify your actions in anyway, clearly states you are an amoral s.o.b. with no feelings for anyone but the little man between your legs ! why bother trying to justify your actions ? just be honest as long as "LITTLE JOHN" is being satisfied you don't give a **** who gets hurt or where the money comes from !!! if you were a real man you would leave them both and stand on your own, and swear never to cause anyone else the pain you have felt ! but that takes a REAL MAN ! It's much easier to be a winey little victim !
2006-07-30 12:50:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is it exactly you hope to accomplish here? You have your cake and are eating it too. You have a keg of TNT here and it could go off ant minute. Why dont you just divorce your wife and move on? I see four peolple getting hurt here instead of 2 and is it worth it. There is no reason imaginable for having your mistress pay for your wife. Time has come to make a wrong better and divorce your wife, then do whatever with your girlfriend. Very simple but you have to be a man to do it.
2006-07-30 12:12:47 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your wife is seeing someone else and you vice versa why are you still giving your wife the dough? You might as well spend some on the mistress. So if you guys divorce you might wind up giving her alimony! If you truly love your mistress let it be known.
2006-07-30 12:06:19 · answer #3 · answered by msraylanda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife lost your love the minute you have a mistress. Giving her money is just a small compensation.....thanks for nothing.
2006-07-30 21:14:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, buddy. That's real wrong. Marriage and misbehavin' don't mix. Unless you're misbehavin' with your own spouse. You gotta lotta work to do.
The best example of a good husband is one who can provide for his family without the help of his girlfriend, mistress, OW, whatever ya wanna call her. Really, where's the honor in that?
2006-07-30 12:12:14 · answer #5 · answered by divabylaw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relies upon on the guy and the marriage. My ex-spouse became/is in basic terms a destructive guy or woman. i became committed to the marriage yet after 7 years, i could no longer take it anymore and commenced making plans my go out. It so surpassed off I met somebody else and after many months I became emotionally related to her. We did no longer have intercourse yet emails/telephone calls etc. I did tell her i became in love together with her even however i became nonetheless married. i be responsive to she often questioned if i became intense and my in basic terms experience sorry approximately is that i did no longer go away me ex quicker yet i attempted to do what became terrific. A twelve months later I married the different female. we've been fortuitously married for 8 years and characteristic 2 little ones jointly so each so often it does ensue...
2016-11-03 08:09:55 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you think? Sounds like your wife is using you. She left you for another man who doesn't seem to be able to support her the way she wants so she goes crying to you about money problems and you sucker you are give it to her behind your live-in girlfriends back. So what is going to happen when the girlfriend finds out? I hope you have someplace else to live!
QTI
2006-07-30 12:14:56 · answer #7 · answered by qti36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get back together. Sounds like you deserve each other.
2006-07-30 12:44:54 · answer #8 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you start your affair first or did she?
2006-07-30 12:08:11 · answer #9 · answered by newgenre1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR JUST WRONG PERIOD.. U SERIOUSLY NEED TO GROW UP..
2006-07-30 12:48:40 · answer #10 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋