My wife of only 1 month has lived with us 1 week after we have been married. She says that Im mean for not wanting her here. I only want my wife, to enjoy her. What should I do? I don't feel respected or acknowledged when it comes to the way I feel.
2006-07-30 12:58:47 · 14 answers · asked by touchemupent 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You ought to wait until her boyfriend moves in with you to decide what you want to do..
You must be pretty dumb.. Get rid of the third party. NOW.
2006-07-30 13:02:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't deal with friends living with you. Not for long periods of time anyhow. It's truly disrespectful for your wife's friend not to give you time to enjoy being newly married. Tell your wife how you feel. Tell her it's not that you don't like her friend, but you would like time with just her alone. If she doesn't see what the problem is, try setting a time limit.. like say the woman has 1 month or less to get back on her feet or find another place to live. That is more then enough time for a single, child free person to find other accomadations. Good Luck!
2006-07-30 20:04:02 · answer #2 · answered by Mary J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her u dont mind her staying but u need to come up with a limit to when she has to leave, that u married ur wife, to live a life with her, not to become a hotel for all her friends, tell her u want to share in the bliss of just u and her, eventually u'll have kids one day and u wont have the alone time and u'll wish that u took advantage of it when u had the chance.., a few of the keys to a healthy marriage is mutual respect, understanding, and compromise.. so its time to compromise, ok , ur friend can stay but u and i have to come up to an agreement when she must be gone by.. 1 month 1 week whatever.. then she has to respect u enough to hold to it.. ur not a built in hotel..
2006-07-30 20:04:25 · answer #3 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the is no way easy out on this one. i would talk with the friend and ask her if you helped paid one month rent on a place if she would mind leaving. Your wife would at lease know you are willing to help her friend. Tell your wife later on down the road maybe it would be OK; but for now you want her all to your self.
2006-07-30 20:05:06 · answer #4 · answered by butterflyfrills 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your wife that a man and a woman need 1 year together before they move someone else in. this friend has to go.
2006-07-30 20:03:52 · answer #5 · answered by Ms Berry Picker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all who is he by any chance he is not cheating on Ur wife?
why did u marry her?
she said that u mean for not wanting her there. means trouble be careful she mait divorce you for money or something else
she has no trust in u
2006-07-30 21:09:15 · answer #6 · answered by Edvard F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try seducing the friend maybe a threesome and if not...maybe your wife will get jealous and kick her out.
2006-07-30 20:37:19 · answer #7 · answered by manonfire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you married the wrong woman.
2006-07-30 20:00:05 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her sexy the other womans legs are or how good she cooks.... she won't last long lol
2006-07-30 20:02:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure if I completely understand your question
2006-07-30 20:02:41 · answer #10 · answered by R C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋