I don't buy that line with the phone. While I know how irritating it is to have someone check your phone (My ex did because he was paranoid, not because he ever had reason to) he shouldn't freak out, either. If my fiancee answers my phone, or plays with it, I really don't care. There isn't anything for him to find, which we both know. Now, if someone has reason to be paranoid (which I guarantee your husband does) of course they're going to go ballistic. Let's look at this here
1. Women's perfume
2. Lying to you about who he talks to
3. No sex
4. Doesn't want you touching his phone
Yes, those are four LOUD signs that there is something going on that shouldn't be. Sit down with him, and try to talk to him. If he still won't fess up, there's no point in staying, because you can't work on something he won't admit to.
2006-07-30 10:33:03
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answered by Anonymous
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No, you're not closing your eyes; you're simply refusing to see what your senses reveal to you. A husband that calls ex girlfriends isn't just passing the time, or making a mistake while attempting to order pizza. As for getting mad about his phone, well you already caught him lying about who called whom, so getting mad hopefully will keep you from catching him the NEXT time he calls. Trusting him should be easy. Simply have a lobotomy. That will be necessary, cause only a woman lacking brain function would trust this guy. You have two choices- Live with a cheater, or get a divorce. Sorry, but those ARE your choices.
2006-07-30 10:33:32
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answered by Anonymous
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You desire it to return to how it was once? Was he well with cash as soon as upon a time? Did he no longer lie as soon as upon a time? Or used to be he unhealthy with cash long ago whilst...and possibly you simply did not realize he used to be telling lies? You are not able to believe a liar. It rather is that practical. You will spend the leisure of you are lifestyles considering if the matters which are popping out of his mouth are a lies. And some thing you could have joint in combination like bank cards, expenditures hire and so forth that do not receives a commission will spoil you are credit score ranking at the side of his. Whether you are the spender or he's. Bad credit score is NOT anything you desire. It will give up you from shopping a residence someday, getting a mortgage and so forth He will carry you down in additional methods than one. Think lengthy and rough why you desire to forgive him...and why you desire to stick with him.
2016-08-28 15:30:29
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answered by Anonymous
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If he is like that with his phone then obviously he is hiding something. Especially if ya'll are married. It's time for him to open up and confess are say what's on his mind give him an ultimatum As long as you continue to take it the longer it will be until you're happy again. Like a lot of men on here say men get bored and hes probably looking for some spark with ex's or even new women so If I were you I would confront him and see where his mind is...Good Luck
2006-07-30 10:29:59
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answered by classy chic 3
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He's cheating on you and playing you for a fool. The fact is you can't trust him for a number of reasons. He does not belong talking to ex-girlfriends, how the h*ll did he get perfume on is shirt, and any normal guy would be running to the doctor if he could get an erection to have relations with his wife. Lose the jerk, in a hurry. He's already left you for someone else, he just wants to stay living in his house. P.S. get yourself tested for HIV and STDs. Do NOT have sex with him. If you still have doubts now, hire a private investigator who will prove things for you.
2006-07-30 11:27:25
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answered by Mr. Grudge 5
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You are definitely not seeing what is plain to see here. Be careful there is a fine line between trusting someone and being a sucker. His attitude about the phone is an indication of nothing other than having something to hide, if you don't have anything to hide there is no reason to get upset about it is there? He's trying to guilt you in to buying the line of crap he's trying to feed you. This is a marriage and everything about him is information you are absolutely entitled to, I bet he thinks knowing what you are up to is his business doesn't he? He can't get it up my butt, no guy on earth is going to have this problem and NOT do something about it. Honey I hate to tell you this but you need to seriously start preparing for the end of this relationship.
2006-07-30 10:24:30
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answered by dappersmom 6
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The first thing YOU have to decide is if you are capable of forgiving him? So many wives or husbands want to jump out of a good marriage because they feel they have been betrayed in one way or another. Communication has broken down and must be restored. Yes, he may have done something but if you want to save your marriage you MUST put this incident in the past and move forward. Tell him you forgive him and NEVER EVER bring it up again for any reason! He is saying what he is because he feels as though you are going to continue to throw this up in his face.
In actuality I still talk to several different women I have dated in the past and even one of my ex-wives. My wife knows I do and is not threatened at all by them. She knows them personally and they have been guests in our home.
should you want more information about this, please contact me and I will write to you in return.
2006-07-30 10:36:59
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answered by pinelake302 6
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No, you don't seem to be closing your eyes, but you aren't doing anything either. He's doing what he can get away with while making you feel like it's your fault that things have tension in the marriage. He's like any other guy when he's cheating, and he's not going to explain himself & you better not ask him too.
2006-07-30 10:46:05
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answered by msthinkpositive 5
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no one can tell you how you can start to trust him again. that one is on you. you either do or don't. and trust me, a gut feeling is usually the best one to go on. you have to decide whether he is worth all this stress you are going through, and to me, it doesn't sound like he is.
2006-07-30 14:00:59
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answered by Arianne 2
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HOW LONG MARRIED, HOW OLD IS THE BABY. MAYBE THE BIRTH OF THE BABY HAS DONE SOMETHING
2006-07-30 10:23:50
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answered by Patrick P 1
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