and u really should not be.
2006-07-30 08:33:55 · 28 answers · asked by Lady D. J. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There really are a lot of jealous people out there but don't get it twisted with being envious. If you are in a relationship though, jealously can break the relationship down and quite frankly it really leads down to insecurity issues that are within the person that is jealous.. Think about it and tell me if that makes sense to you.
2006-07-30 08:38:29 · answer #1 · answered by SAMMIE K 2 · 14⤊ 2⤋
YES i am very jealous of my boyfriend,i am so jealous in fact that it is controlling every aspect of my life!!!!!I have also been very jealous in past relationships as well!!!!I don't know why i am the jealous type they say people who are jealous lack self confidence......i agree with that to a certain extent!!!!I don't think i look that great so therefore i feel that my boyfriends eyes are always sizing up other girls!!!!!After 10 years with him you would think i would have out growned it by now but i haven't and don't think i ever will!!!He a bit jealous over me too but no obsessively jealous like i am!!!It's gotten to the point where he don't want to go nowhere with me and the kids because he knows that i am gonna start something with him,i really wish i wasn't this way but i can't change!!!!!Jealousy is a very evil and bad thing@@@
2006-07-30 15:49:34 · answer #2 · answered by Baybee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your avatar was my avatar's lover and another male avatar started flirting with you and made you smile, it would be tough for my avatar not to feel a little jealous.
you're right that my avatar shouldn't be, but it's kind of like my avatar would feel hurt that I wasn't the only one who could make you smile. because my avatar would know that your avatar wouldn't want me to be jealous, I'd probably end up holding it inside (which is pretty painful).
but, then, the next morning, I'd wake up at 6am, go for a run for about an hour, run as fast away from those feelings as if they were chasing me and laughing at how weak I was for being jealous. But I'd run and run until my heart would beat so fast that I could barely breathe. Then, I'd finish my run breathing heavily feeling better as if I defeated that painful feeling of jealousy.
then, my avatar would go back to our house and give a good morning kiss to your avatar (if your avatar was my avatar's lover) and all would be better.
yeah, some people are just more sensitive than others I guess.
2006-07-30 15:42:45 · answer #3 · answered by Tones 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found that people who are jealous have a low self-esteem. They have no confidence in themselves or in their loved one. Jealousy seems to come from a relationship that is not balanced in communication. Jealous people need to talk to their partners and explain their feelings. The feelings of jealousy are often unnecessary.
2006-07-30 15:41:21 · answer #4 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has a jealous bone somewhere in there body (that trys to ache every now & then.)
But when ya really think about it jealousy gets you no where just misserable & depressed or mad.
I have been jealous at times in my life but since I'm getting older I have learned it gives me a bad attitude & is unhealthy for me & those around me..
Also taught me that I am to be thankful & appreciative for the blessings I do have in my life! :)
I think jealousy is equal to envy & pride. Because they are all bad for you & self centered in nature.
2006-07-30 15:48:00 · answer #5 · answered by Joeysol'lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not envious of anyone or a jealous person really but i just found out someone that i was starting something with just got a gf and it made me super jealous and upset. But im not jealous of her im just jealous that thats not me and im upset that he has a gf. I guess i just waited too long.
2006-07-30 15:36:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be jealous about my baby daddy but not no more after so many pain. But I will get jealous if he brings my son around any girls he's messing around with.
2006-07-30 20:06:32 · answer #7 · answered by 2Hott2Touch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I use to be very, very, jealous. Then one day it dawned on me, that it is a
sign of insecurity. If I had felt better about myself, I would not have been
the asshole that I was at the time.
I truly regret being the asshole
that I use to be. It cost me the greatest woman of all time. And many years of misery.
2006-07-30 15:43:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I use to be jealous of poeple who were successful, and I ended up not being happy my life was a mass. Now I just concentrate on making my life special. This the life I have I won't have another one on this earth.
2006-07-30 15:37:39 · answer #9 · answered by Balthazar N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the point in being jealous?
2006-07-30 15:35:33 · answer #10 · answered by missing_something 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋