I have a very very high sex drive and my husband doesn't .We have had several talks about it but he is still set in his ways. I'm 21 and he is 23 we are too young for this problem right?
2006-07-30 08:54:16 · 7 answers · asked by shay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yup, you are too young for this problem. (except just how high is your sex drive 16 times a day, would be tuff for any guy to stay up with, 5 times a week is probably normal.....) You could suggest he see a physician......there may be something actually wrong. If not, then you two need to do some negotating. Read a book called "For You Both" by Lonnie Barbach.... She's the leading sex therapist in the country, and offers lots of ways to negotiate sex. Cheap on Amazon.com in paperback, and could be at your house by Thursday.
2006-07-30 09:00:40 · answer #1 · answered by April 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I went through this problem with my ex, although i can't say that i handled it well. Get some viagra and slip it to him somehow. I dunno. I had the talks with my ex, and it didn't do any good either. I was really upset about it because when we were dating i told him that it was important to me. Then here i was just one year into our marriage and i was practically having to beg for sex just to get it once a week, if i was lucky!!!! In our case their were many other issues as well, we are no longer together. Hope things work out for you two, and i can definatley understand what you are going through!
2006-07-30 16:10:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are to much to young to be experiencing that problem already . You might try different things to spice up your sex life and keep it new and exciting .Buy some adult toys .Sex is a natural desire .If these things don't work .Talk to him about it
2006-07-30 16:37:52 · answer #3 · answered by dollars2burn4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your husband to have his blood tested for levels of testosterone. If he has low levels he will not have a sex drive. It is not his fault. He can take supplements and will return to his previous self.
2006-07-30 15:59:46 · answer #4 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, how much is very high? every day? a few times a day? Maybe you are a sex addict. You should check it out, if it gets out of control you might end up cheating on him.
2006-07-30 16:01:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, go to the doctor to make sure there is not a physical health issue.
If not, go to a marriage counselor to make sure there isn't an emotional issue.
2006-07-30 16:01:19 · answer #6 · answered by it'sjustme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to go to a doctor. Until then buy yourself a toy or use your fingers and satisfy yourself.
2006-07-30 16:04:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋